What could I not give to be beautiful like the other girls and to have at least one boy who likes me .... just not. Everyone makes fun of me, hates me for unknown reasons. I try to be good to everyone, but no one is good to me. I don't have a single friend. I hardly go out of the house anymore, mostly to the store. I do not eat normally, I am very weak. I have a big complex that everyone reminds me of every day - a nose with a huge hump. It's very ugly, but there's nothing I can do, I don't have money for plastic surgery. This flaw will ruin my life because I am perfect without it. It is visible only in profile. Every day, everyone crushes the self-confidence I have left, if there is one at all. When I'm out, I want people not to look at me. I'm already 15 and I'm getting more and more closed. No one will ever like me. Along with others, I get angry, the more they insult me, the more nervous I become. I don't talk to anyone, not my mother or sister. I fell in love, and he left ... that's how he stopped looking for me. And why does everyone think I'm ugly. My mother has been telling me since I was a child to be good so that others can be the same ... they are not and will not be. Like any other girl, I need attention and love. I dream of someone calling me sweet and hugging me.
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Everyone is beautiful in their own way! Don't despair, even if you don't look so good, character is most important. Many people do not believe, but it is so. And the ugliest person can become nice to you and start liking him if he has a cool character. Forget about your appearance, go to others, talk to each other. And as for the appearance, try to dress well, I can't believe you're ugly. If you do what I wrote you will see that there will be a change. I'm a girl too, I wanted to be beautiful like the others and I still want it with all my heart, but I realized that this is not the most important thing. I'm not one of the most beautiful, but I have a lot of friends, I even have a boyfriend. Work on your character. :)
Your problem is that you are getting older, not doing things as your heart dictates. Let the emotions guide you, not the desire to be liked. Do something for someone only if you only want to do it from within, either out of pity or out of a desire to help, but not because you want to be liked by someone. Have dignity do not be a sole
You are beautiful with your golden soul. Only superficial people are impressed by appearance.
Dear author, not everything is appearance, you know? Everyone tells me I'm beautiful, but that doesn't stop my classmates from crushing me. The boy I like doesn't even look at me. But unlike you, I have friends whom I trust and show them my true self, and they love me for who I am. There is nothing wrong with opening up to people. ~ girl on 14
Honey, find out something. NO PERFECT MAN. Everyone has disadvantages, but also advantages. You just have to find the advantages. I'll tell you one more thing. They do it because they see that you are desperate and you feel bad about it. SHOW THAT YOU ARE STRONG AND THAT YOU DON'T CARE ABOUT THEM. BEHAVE AS IF THEY ARE BUGS! CRUSH THEM TO SEE THAT THEY HAVE A DIGNIFIED OPPONENT! If you think you are ugly, they will offend you more. Remember! When someone annoys you, tell me I DON'T CARE! And for a friend there is always one, the time must come to find it.
If they avoid you because of your nose, then they are not for you and do not give money for plastic surgery because of them. :)
What do you do all day. Do you have a hobby. Do you play sports? Is it only the appearance that matters most? Ask yourself what you like to do. Start doing it best and everything will gradually fall into place. You will find friends by interests.
Oh the author - I do not play sports, the problem with this is that my weight is much below normal. My hobby is playing the piano, but I can't find people of interest because at that time few people my age played. I love to read and maybe that's why they call me a bison. As for my nose, I read somewhere that rhinoplasty is not very expensive. Maybe if I work one summer I'll be able to afford it. But I wonder if it is durable and over time the bone does not recover. Thanks to everyone for the comments.