So I don't know where it started .. I'm a 16 year old girl ... I will be in 10th grade this year and an extremely boring life. I don't have many friends. Maybe one or two, but at least I know they're real. I don't go out very often ... just because I don't have anyone. I've never had a boyfriend or kissed a boy. I don't go to discos, I don't drink or smoke. Most people in my class make fun of me for my strange interests. They call me a bison, and when they are in need they ask me for pets. They mock my interests. For example, they find it funny that I don't listen to chalga and that a girl like me loves science fiction and Super Mario. I like superhero movies and fantasy series like Game of Thrones and Supernatural. That is, listening to old music like the Beatles is also quite strange to them. And so it's really hard for me to make friends. I am very shy and anxious .. I find it hard to trust .. I could say that I am a very introverted person and find it difficult to make friends. I used to say that I love solitude and sitting in my pajamas all day reading books and watching movies. But I want that to change ... I don't want to have this gloomy depressing gray everyday life that haunts me every day .. I want to have a thrill and emotion in life .. I want everyone to tell us how boring and weird I am ... But I just don't know how to make friends .. I tried different courses like drawing, languages, martial arts, but it just doesn't work ... So I would like to ask you how to make friends and how to make my life more exciting. ? Thanks for the answers =] that I love solitude and sitting in my pajamas all day reading books and watching movies. But I want that to change ... I don't want to have this gloomy depressing gray everyday life that haunts me every day .. I want to have a thrill and emotion in life .. I want everyone to tell us how boring and weird I am ... But I just don't know how to make friends .. I tried different courses like drawing, languages, martial arts, but it just doesn't work ... So I would like to ask you how to make friends and how to make my life more exciting. ? Thanks for the answers =] that I love solitude and sitting in my pajamas all day reading books and watching movies. But I want that to change ... I don't want to have this gloomy depressing gray everyday life that haunts me every day .. I want to have a thrill and emotion in life .. I want everyone to tell us how boring and weird I am ... But I just don't know how to make friends .. I tried different courses like drawing, languages, martial arts, but it just doesn't work ... So I would like to ask you how to make friends and how to make my life more exciting. ? Thanks for the answers =] .. But I just don't know how to make friends .. I tried different courses like drawing, languages, martial arts, but it just doesn't work ... So I would like to ask you how to make friends and how to make life are you more exciting? Thanks for the answers =] .. But I just don't know how to make friends .. I tried different courses like drawing, languages, martial arts, but it just doesn't work ... So I would like to ask you how to make friends and how to make life are you more exciting? Thanks for the answers =]
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I'm a boy of 20 and let me tell you I prefer a girl like you to some pop folk muffin, don't despair at all, you're different and that's nice.
God, it would be very nice to meet you !!!
Swollen - I would not say. A normal life. My advice is: go out more often. Take a walk. Go shopping. Look for a job - such as handing out flyers or something similar, through which you will see and talk to many people.
1. Dating site, interests. 2. Find a reason to be in a place where people are bored, or for common interests, or a fan club for something. You don't have to be a fan. For example, a fan club of a football / basketball team. Also for the summer you can work part-time somewhere where you communicate with a lot of people, for example a snack bar. As long as they eat for ten minutes and are bored, they will still find themselves talking to you. 3. Dress a little more challenging, always act. Even if someone meets you because of a short skirt, then it may turn out that you like it. 4. Invent something yourself that I can't think of :)
Hello! I think the only way out is to find your own kind. Just don't get depressed that you're not like the table. If you ask me, this is a wonderful thing. The bad thing is that it comes with a price - namely - it is difficult to find kindred spirits. And in this regard, I think I will join the group of people who would like to meet you (and which I suspect will not be small). This is one of those times when I regret that this site is anonymous. Greetings and head up! :)
with these dead activities like super mario and you are still not friends soon but you will have nothing and it will get worse
6. And who were you to judge her? Look, create an account somewhere - Facebook and others. dating sites. You will write to people, if you like them you will go out :))
Don't pay attention to number 6 at all. Everyone should be like you, not you like everyone else. Why do you want to be some conceited, dumb muffin who can't count the people she's fucked with just because she can't count that much ....? It's not bad to listen to the Beatles. Not at all. Look, I'm like you. I'm 16, I'm shy, I don't go out more than 3 to 4 days a week. It hangs on the computer all day, etc. So ... Don't pay any attention to those who make fun of you. They are so smart that they make fun of the different ones ... As they are the same, they are very cool, right? :) As I look number 8 has suggested, chatting on Skype or elsewhere always helps. I constantly chat with different people. I'm just killing time. It's nice and nothing stops you in front of the screen. You can pour out your soul - the person from the meeting does not know you. And for shame .. Once you meet someone and get closer, you won't care at all. If you relax, everything will be fine. And let me not be left behind .. Let me be in the line in which I would like to meet! : D
I agree with number 6, it's not bad to deal with super mario amapone without the others knowing, because to be honest, when I read this about super mario, it got a little funny ....
Don't take it the wrong way ... but you are the dream girl =)
You are just like me, there is only one thing that distinguishes us-I do not let my homework be attributed to me because I do not write them :-D I am bored .. I also listen to the music of the Beatles as well as Quinn and others .. The way you walk is right, I'm not saying don't have fun don't get me wrong :-)
I agree with number 12, I'm in a similar situation as you, only I'm a boy of 19. Good luck.
I will also stand in this line, they want to meet you, I want to calm you down quickly, I also listen to the old bands, just the style of the 80's can not be compared with today's music, there is the truth, the time itself it was different, everything was real, that's why so many people love this music, right? :) So I slipped a little :), what to do, PLEASE, do not change, do not think that the fact that your classmates do not accept you as you are, is your problem, just be yourself, so you will be I'm sure that the people who care about you love you because of your nature :) I'll give you an example with myself, because that's how I started my comment, I also have interests other than the mass of people my age, I'm on 19, but that doesn't bother me at all, it even makes me happy, because I meet people, who have my interests and are usually much more mature and I can talk to them on various topics, which greatly enriches my horizons. :) School should not be the only place where you will find your friends, just do not be afraid to talk to anyone you like, after all we are all people, right. :) I'd like you to share why you don't date these real friends you mention? And one piece of advice, don't give everyone to copy your homework, so they will understand that in order to get something from you, they need to give something, and they, for example, I almost never gave to copy my homework when I was a student, I think that it's unfair, for once or twice - yes, but to take advantage of you, I think it's unfair, right, you're a man of dignity, and according to your description, a beautiful young girl,