Hello! I am a 26-year-old woman from Varna. I apologize in advance for the extreme completeness, but I will do it to find out why I am so confused. I met my first love at 18. In the beginning, as in any relationship, everything went well. Over time, he changed. His jealousy became painful. I withdrew from everyone, lost friends, even had problems with my mother when I went out. He was following me, reaching out to me, rummaging through my phone, my pockets, God forbid I saw someone I knew on the street, I had to look at the ground, because if I said hello, there was a cruel scandal. Yet I had feelings for him and constantly forgave and believed his promises that he would change. So I endured for a long time. Until December 2017 I didn't get a tattoo naturally without asking him and he told me: why did you make her pregnant will expand and I laughed and replied that I do not plan to get pregnant soon. Then February 2018 tells me: imagine now when you go to Germany and you find out that you are pregnant and when you come back you will have to give birth, I reacted with ridicule again. Then the month of March passed and after 2 weeks I realized that I was pregnant in the month of the war month. I was shocked and didn't know what to do (we were always careful). I forgot to specify that since 2017 I had no feelings for him alone and I wanted to separate, but he threatened me with something I had shared only with him. So, in the end, I decided to give birth to the child and give birth again. I returned from Germany in November 2018 on the third day after I gave birth. He came to live with me and my mother. He didn't give me money for the rubbish at home, or for the little one, my relatives paid for everything and when I asked him if he was uncomfortable he told me that he did not see them minding. He even took it from my mother's money. We lived together until our 2-month-old baby got a hot glass bottle on his cheek completely consciously. Then I couldn't stand it and packed his luggage and drove him away. He kept climbing the streets and I developed a fear neurosis. I haven't left us in weeks. I now have a restraining order. He hasn't seen his child for 3 months, but he doesn't care, and the little one is wonderful. And now it weighs on me that I see my friends have families, their husbands help them. For example, today one of them told me that every night the man bathes the child. And another told me that we can't see each other after 5, because after 5 they go out as a family. I'm happy for them,
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I will allow myself to tell about something from my life. T. is my (former) close friend. After some background, he met a girl (from Varna) with a child from a guy from the Scandinavian countries who had children wherever he went (it's not easy for him and I guess). So my cool friend older than her, liked to get married. In your case, it's your job. And what will happen, who knows. There are some, but this is a separate issue. Advice is not given here, but I sympathize with yours - I do not know what you mean, ex? Can he sympathize with everyone - maybe that's good - who feels it. In general, I'm already quite rude. And here somehow the form is like that - one side is heard - and everyone should have the right to vote. But what should happen and what happens are different things. It is interesting that at first I liked this girl - my friend - and I call him a beautiful girl. And then I condemned her - in front of me she told another boy - again such a hippie foreigner, that she was with this friend of mine only because of the child - obviously if I have to sympathize with her - it was not easy for her. But then - even though I'm a persona non grata because of my behavior - I thought they were happy, which makes me happy if that's the case. And your story - I do not feel young and sensitive enough to give an adequate answer. In my imagination, the best thing is for everyone to sympathize with each other - isn't there a little light - for example, to forgive each other, to let things go ... Well, whatever happens - calm down! And your story - I do not feel young and sensitive enough to give an adequate answer. In my imagination, the best thing is for everyone to sympathize with each other - isn't there a little light - for example, to forgive each other, to let things go ... Well, whatever happens - calm down! And your story - I do not feel young and sensitive enough to give an adequate answer. In my imagination, the best thing is for everyone to sympathize with each other - isn't there a little light - for example, to forgive each other, to let things go ... Well, whatever happens - calm down!
You were wrong not to choose the right man. Now you will have to live your whole life with this mistake.
He punctured your condom to stay with you. So did my father and my mother, a very stupid approach, and yet she, like you, broke up with him. For now, take care of you and your baby, your home, don't forget to take time for your appearance if you don't want to be alone, because when a woman has a baby it's harder for someone to take her, you have to compensate with something. Even if you do not have a person next to you, it is very important for your child to have a good male figure in his life from whom to learn, someone you know will never leave you. He could be your father, if you think he is worthy, uncle, uncle, cousin. Someone you see quite often and is ready to help you in this part. Don't ignore this, because when a child doesn't have a father, there has to be a good male role to teach him the things you can't.
Your story is sad, but I will give you another point of view. I assume you will not agree immediately. You will first need to calm down and experience the separation from your friend, but in time you will come to my conclusion. You have a family, you just don't have a husband. And if your husband is such as to burn your child with hot bottles, it is better without him. You should not live at all in fear that your husband is alone in the room with your child and may hurt him. It's one thing to harass you, it's quite another to harass a baby. Both are unforgivable, but as a woman I will tell you that we are stupid and allow ourselves to be ill with someone of "great love", but we do not allow our children to be ill with the same. Mother with child, parents and other relatives = woman with family. Your son is your family, that's what I'm trying to say. Go out with him in five hours. Bathe him alone, this is your time. Read him stories, play him songs, rock him. The child is a child once, and there are men on every corner. Your son is more of a family than his father was once your family. He did a child in defiance of you because he was angry about the tattoo and he was right. He took your mother's money. He controlled you and attacked you. He finally hurt your two-month-old baby. These things are not forgiven or forgotten. You will find someone. You are young, you are responsible, you will not be left without love. In the meantime, love the child and accept him as your family. Don't say your family isn't nice ... but, baby, it's wonderful, isn't it? He looks at you, smiles, makes his sounds. You are a deity to him, he loves you and knows you. And, I guess, because of the baby, you're going to move the mountain with your bare hands. You love each other. Here is a good family full of love. play him songs, rock him. The child is a child once, and there are men on every corner. Your son is more of a family than his father was once your family. He did a child in defiance of you because he was angry about the tattoo and he was right. He took your mother's money. He controlled you and attacked you. He finally hurt your two-month-old baby. These things are not forgiven or forgotten. You will find someone. You are young, you are responsible, you will not be left without love. In the meantime, love the child and accept him as your family. Don't say your family isn't nice ... but, baby, it's wonderful, isn't it? He looks at you, smiles, makes his sounds. You are a deity to him, he loves you and knows you. And, I guess, because of the baby, you're going to move the mountain with your bare hands. You love each other. Here is a good family full of love. play him songs, rock him. The child is a child once, and there are men on every corner. Your son is more of a family than his father was once your family. He did a child in defiance of you because he was angry about the tattoo and he was right. He took your mother's money. He controlled you and attacked you. He finally hurt your two-month-old baby. These things are not forgiven or forgotten. You will find someone. You are young, you are responsible, you will not be left without love. In the meantime, love the child and accept him as your family. Don't say your family isn't nice ... but, baby, it's wonderful, isn't it? He looks at you, smiles, makes his sounds. You are a deity to him, he loves you and knows you. And, I guess, because of the baby, you're going to move the mountain with your bare hands. You love each other. Here is a good family full of love. and there are men on every corner. Your son is more of a family than his father was once your family. He did a child in defiance of you because he was angry about the tattoo and he was right. He took your mother's money. He controlled you and attacked you. He finally hurt your two-month-old baby. These things are not forgiven or forgotten. You will find someone. You are young, you are responsible, you will not be left without love. In the meantime, love the child and accept him as your family. Don't say your family isn't nice ... but, baby, it's wonderful, isn't it? He looks at you, smiles, makes his sounds. You are a deity to him, he loves you and knows you. And, I guess, because of the baby, you're going to move the mountain with your bare hands. You love each other. Here is a good family full of love. and there are men on every corner. Your son is more of a family than his father was once your family. He did a child in defiance of you because he was angry about the tattoo and he was right. He took your mother's money. He controlled you and attacked you. He finally hurt your two-month-old baby. These things are not forgiven or forgotten. You will find someone. You are young, you are responsible, you will not be left without love. In the meantime, love the child and accept him as your family. Don't say your family isn't nice ... but, baby, it's wonderful, isn't it? He looks at you, smiles, makes his sounds. You are a deity to him, he loves you and knows you. And, I guess, because of the baby, you're going to move the mountain with your bare hands. You love each other. Here is a good family full of love. He did a child in defiance of you because he was angry about the tattoo and he was right. He took your mother's money. He controlled you and attacked you. He finally hurt your two-month-old baby. These things are not forgiven or forgotten. You will find someone. You are young, you are responsible, you will not be left without love. In the meantime, love the child and accept him as your family. Don't say your family isn't nice ... but, baby, it's wonderful, isn't it? He looks at you, smiles, makes his sounds. You are a deity to him, he loves you and knows you. And, I guess, because of the baby, you're going to move the mountain with your bare hands. You love each other. Here is a good family full of love. He did a child in defiance of you because he was angry about the tattoo and he was right. He took your mother's money. He controlled you and attacked you. He finally hurt your two-month-old baby. These things are not forgiven or forgotten. You will find someone. You are young, you are responsible, you will not be left without love. In the meantime, love the child and accept him as your family. Don't say your family isn't nice ... but, baby, it's wonderful, isn't it? He looks at you, smiles, makes his sounds. You are a deity to him, he loves you and knows you. And, I guess, because of the baby, you're going to move the mountain with your bare hands. You love each other. Here is a good family full of love. These things are not forgiven or forgotten. You will find someone. You are young, you are responsible, you will not be left without love. In the meantime, love the child and accept him as your family. Don't say your family isn't nice ... but, baby, it's wonderful, isn't it? He looks at you, smiles, makes his sounds. You are a deity to him, he loves you and knows you. And, I guess, because of the baby, you're going to move the mountain with your bare hands. You love each other. Here is a good family full of love. These things are not forgiven or forgotten. You will find someone. You are young, you are responsible, you will not be left without love. In the meantime, love the child and accept him as your family. Don't say your family isn't nice ... but, baby, it's wonderful, isn't it? He looks at you, smiles, makes his sounds. You are a deity to him, he loves you and knows you. And, I guess, because of the baby, you're going to move the mountain with your bare hands. You love each other. Here is a good family full of love.
Very sad story, I'm very sorry it happened to you. Relationships with psychopaths are the worst thing, and you were so small. Hold on to the child, learn and develop, let your relatives be alive and healthy to help you, you are not alone at all. Once this one is crazy about tying, make sure you leave town and start fresh. You will find a worthy man who will love you and your child, you deserve happiness
How is it possible to find out that you are pregnant only at the end of the second month?! .... And abortion is possible until the third month and your grandmother knows that. ;)
Okay, darling, where did you sleep? You knew what kind of rubbish he was and again ... You almost asked him to do that ... And when that happens, you start to wonder where the decent men are. Until then, only bad guys ... It's not an attack, it's just a statement. It's written to you by a man of 31, to tell you the truth, you can be a cool person, but personally I wouldn't take you seriously, for the simple reason that you have a child. Why does someone have to fix someone else's buckets. Some time ago I met a chick with 2 children, I immediately played her.
Change your girlfriends, I advise you.
Change your way of thinking, you are not alone, you have a son. Because of him you have to be a strong and upright woman and mother. Find a job, your relatives will certainly help you with the child / I come to this conclusion from what you described above /. Change and your girlfriends will not constantly compare your life with theirs. Show everyone that you can do it yourself, you don't need your ex to carry it on your back. Live a little and without a man it can affect you well, in time you will find it is not a pain to die, that one year or another you will dedicate yourself and the child. Don't give up, I know a single mother with three children, who has found a person to respect them and accept them to live with them and take care of them like a real father, but before meeting them these men have proven that they are strong and capable to look after their children. Take a lesson and step firmly on the ground, if for nothing else, at least for your son. Good luck !!!
Wrong - not wrong, look ahead! You have life in front of you, you have something to live for. Glad you did the right thing - get rid of this one. Myself and the child. Only then do you have a chance for both yours and your child's life to be what you want one day. You gave yourself the chance, you will realize it yourself. May your child be alive and well. Teach him to look ahead, too. Everything will be much better than it could be ...
I immediately tell you where you went wrong: you left contraception (and therefore any choice) in his hands. Of course, the answer is not productive and does not help you at all, but you chose the question. A future mistake to avoid is to give him more chances. You now choose not only for yourself. There is hope, not all men are assholes like №7 who are looking for mom, but with sex. I met my wife with a child.
There are passengers for each train. :) Do not lose faith and do not despair. You are not alone, you have a wonderful boy. You already know, be careful who you let into your life.