I don't know to which section I should categorize my history. It's hard for me and I don't know who to share it with. I am 32 years old. I have a relatively good job, but that's all. I travel for two hours every day. I work mainly with older people. Everything is monotonous and there is no development. I go home and start cooking. The man next to me has no desire to go anywhere. He doesn't want us to go on vacation, he doesn't want us to go out with friends anymore. We've been together for many years, maybe I'm tired of him. Sex has dropped dramatically. It doesn't even happen once a month. I go in for sports and that saves me. But so far. And it all ends well. My parents are decent people, but they have problems and we don't last long together. Only sport saves me, but I don't know how long I will spend. My husband has a constantly locked phone, he doesn't have sex with me anymore, I'm a normal pretty girl, and I wonder what's going on. I'm not convinced it's infidelity. It comes out without me, I feel terribly isolated, depressed and I don't know what to do with my life. I don't know where .. I am 32 years old, I have lived with hopes so far and nothing is happening. It's like I'm an object in his life. Am I worth so little? "I feel terrible. He is quite contactable and has a lot of fans, and I have absolutely nothing. I love him, but I can't stand this isolation.
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He may be cheating, if his phone is constantly turned off, then he is hiding something, at least in my opinion. If you don't have girlfriends, when you go out look for one of them, you don't have to go out with him alone. If you think the relationship is over, leave him, there is no point in wasting your time. In short, this is from me.
Your problem is that you are 32 years old and you are unable to lead the life of a mature person with your own interests. You expect someone else to lead you somewhere and create diversity for you. Typical female behavior. What's more unusual is that you haven't dumped your boyfriend yet to look for new emotions. Catch up and go on vacation alone or with a girlfriend is not a big philosophy. You will just see if yours kills him with at least a little jealousy or if everything is over. If he gets jealous, at least he'll start coming with you ...
Hello. From what I've read, I just think your friend doesn't love you, not the way you want to. I think you need to split up and find someone while you're still young. Don't waste your years, if you split up when you're forty, you'll be forced to marry an old man in your fifties. When I love, I show it, without words ... Your friend obviously doesn't love / respect you. Good luck (consult with a friend of yours).
Maybe your worries about infidelity or change for the worse in him are unnecessary, maybe he is just calm with you and his life is easy, there is no tension, which is a normal state for a person. He doesn't have to walk on his hands to see that he has fun with you, and peaceful coexistence is much harder to achieve than interesting cohabitation, evaluate things correctly, I realized the value of peace when I was 25, because life confronted me with life dramas, I didn't even have a good night's sleep ... And why don't you have children?