Hello! I had a relationship for 3 years with a person I still love. A few days ago I found out that he had lied to me all the time, he had another one. I learned all this from this other woman, not from him. When he realized that his lies had come to light, he decided that he should explain everything to me face to face. We met, he told me that he did not love me, but only used me, he told me about her and while he was explaining this to me, he laughed in my face. I couldn't stand it and cried, and he kept laughing. Once I understand all this I don't feel well, I can't eat, I have no desire for absolutely nothing I just cry and lie down
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It is difficult, but not impossible. It will pass ... every beginning is difficult. Most here, not to mention we've all been through this. But you know, it's a day, a month, two ... it's getting easier. Just keep going. It's not worth the sadness of a person who doesn't love you. Distract yourself and sleep more if you have the opportunity not to think about it. Focus on yourself and your life, let it come to the fore.
I will never know that people who are harassed will not be with someone. You roar and harass, and he laughs and fucks himself. What are you crying about, about the trust he has given, about your unfulfilled future? Tighten it up a little and thank all the gods that you don't have a family and children, and then wonder. Now, hat on a stick and start looking at your life. Safe from self-pitying people who don't know why they do it. Brother.
I'm sorry about what happened to you. It is normal to feel bad, but be glad that at least you are not married and have children with this person and you got rid of it in time. Does he take any drugs? In any case, something very serious is wrong with him.
You don't love him. If you loved him, you would forgive him, sincerely wish him well and forget him. You are attached to him, but your ego and dignity are hurt, this is what makes you suffer. You know, "love" as most people understand it is something monstrous - the attachment of two egos in which one prevails. It's wonderful to suffer after that ... life experience accumulates like that. Sometimes they survive if they have a common interest. But the interest of some, always hurts others ... Well, in general, people are monsters and that's it.
Are you crying? You have to raise a banquet that you got rid of this garbage!
This one of yours is complete rubbish. I know what it's like to know that someone was making fun of you and watching you. That it was all a lie. But life gives them back to such people, and these are not just empty words. Indeed, their fate brings him back. I had one like that, which was ridiculed. After me he came across one who played the same numbers to him as he did to me. So everything comes back, and one day he will find his master.
From the author: I wished him all the best. Despite everything, I do not wish them harm. They constantly tease me that they are together, that I have been used and that they work for a child ...
Brother, when you are in love with a "thug", for you he is the most wonderful, even with all its negatives. And yes, we roar, about the betrayal, about the fact that they didn't appreciate us ... that we were ready to give everything, and on the other hand we didn't get 1/10 of that. One has no control over one's feelings and no one chooses whom to fall in love with. And once you fall into a trap - woe to you. Have you never fallen in love? And unshared?
Listen to Bratanch, the author. Not because he grumbles about self-pity, but because subhumans like your ex don't deserve your attention. You were with a sociopath, don't blame. It's a pity we don't have his name and address for a free comedy lesson, but that's the way it is.
At the moment, you may think that you will never experience it and that it is the greatest drama in the world, but in reality it is not. Everyone has experienced some nasty love dramas, try to go out more, to be surrounded by people. I fully understand how you feel, but it will only take time. Scales19