Hi, I decided to share my story with you because I need help. I started to have feelings for a boy 8 years ago, with whom we were acquainted, I was 10 years old and I thought it was my next childhood love, but it doesn't continue now. Then a girl told him how I felt about him and we broke up because we set him against me. We didn't talk for years, but my feelings for him grew stronger and stronger. For almost 2 years we got too close to him we became inseparable best friends he behaved very strangely at times I slept in them twice after parties, but once he hugged me we held hands and did not let me go and behaved too much strange, because it had never happened before. In principle, with it we express our love by drooling, pushing, hitting, etc. He had been behaving very differently lately, everyone thought there was something between us. People who know about my feelings and love for him tell me to admit it, but I'm afraid of his answer, they tell me that they notice that he feels the same way about me, but I don't believe him. unfortunately we had an argument with him 2 weeks ago and we haven't talked yet, and I feel like part of me is gone, I miss him a lot. Even though we're quarreling, it gets slimy again when we get caught, somewhere, and hangs out with me. He even told me the other day that I was in love with him, but I was scared and I denied it, and he said he would prove it to me that it was so in many ways. I don't know what to do, I'm very confused, I've tried in every way to get along, but it doesn't work, and it doesn't even say why. Please tell me if I should admit to him what I feel and what you think he feels for me. I NEED YOUR HELP!
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Eee, are you so in love that even help, he knows that you like him and that's why he is silent, don't admit it better because that's how he will scratch his ego and use you, wait and when he sees that you don't look for him for a long time he will look for you.
There's a chance he'll like you too. Of course you have to admit it to him. But you shouldn't expect a happy ending. You are a girl and know that even if he cuts you off, you will find another boy who will love you the way you love this boy. Don't put him on a pedestal as if he's the only one! And the very explanation in love does not have to be something spectacular. There is no need for "I love you, I can't do without you". And just a shy one - "yes, I like you".
Thank you for your help. But, I'm afraid I don't expect anything because I think it's impossible. But if he likes me, why doesn't he show it?
Tell me, what's going on? .. Maybe you have a chance, because you were angry, you didn't talk to each other, and those who quarrel, they love each other… And all these changes hot - cold are very characteristic… Why don't you try the mirror principle: tease him that it's not you , and he is in love with you, but he is afraid to admit it… Tell him: Why don't you dare to admit it - you are a man - you must be brave! ... Thus, with jokes and jokes, things will become easier…)))
How could he not have shown it? You held hands, you hugged! .. Is this a little? If you are withdrawn, which I suspect, how he shows you his feelings - he is also afraid of your reaction. And he is a man and has pride. If you deny that you have feelings for him, how will you expect him to show his ??? There is no logic here, it is just stupid to expect such a thing from him, after you have closed it yourself, blocked it. You can't expect someone to show their feelings after you've told them you're not in love! .. You could react differently to his provocation: you could only look him meaningfully and keep quiet. Let him wonder, but then you wouldn't close it. Keep in mind one thing: that even you do not know yourself well. Even you do not know how you will react if he reveals his feelings to you. Most often young girls when they hear a confession of love, they lose interest. So just don't ask or expect this from him.