My mother and father wanted a divorce. I can't stand it because I love my father infinitely and I don't envy my mother! He is a circulation in Spain, he satisfies her from everywhere, whatever she did not ask for, she did not have. But he went on the bad roads and started to gather in huts from left to right and did not sit on his ass. She went to Spain with him and he talked on the phone all night and called in horror, he came back here two months later and started the old song again in a new voice here and there ..... my father was tired even though 4000 km he understood what was going on question. He came home and told me my girl, Your mother and I are going to divorce, I started crying and praying for them, but my mother was determined to divorce my father (and she said she should be happy in this life, in a word, as my father told her to go. seeks happiness with that swallow where he would not be and can not tolerate it because he neither cooks nor washes nor anything). For me, the most important word has always been family, and suddenly my mother breaks it completely, and our beauty has found a lover at the airport. When Daddy quarreled and collected all the gold (which is not a small amount at all), she also took the cards for the bank account and she felt like some rubbish that I am very proud of (no apartment without, gold, no money, no family with only one lousy lover) but when he found out what my father meant to her and they quickly got along and now she is with him and things are going as they should.
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From me a piece of advice girl. It is not worth ruining your life and future for the sake of your mother and her lover.
The word family only makes sense when people love and respect each other. It is quite selfish to keep your parents married without worrying at all about loving each other. From what you write it is clear that your father satisfies your mother only financially, but believe me this is the least. Would you feel happy if you have a friend who is 4000 km away. and periodically sends you money. Who will satisfy your needs for love, intimacy, sharing, etc. Perhaps money is most important to you and you think that if they are in abundance everything can be bought, but no one who has gone this way has reached happiness.
Hello dear! I am also a child of divorced parents. I don't think you can live on money and gold alone. You need to have the person you love by your side at all times. Beauty cannot be forced. If your parents don't love each other, everything is meaningless and I think that divorce is the best way out of the situation. After the divorce, my mother remarried and I was very happy because this man gave us all the love we missed from my own father. But unfortunately my stepfather died and with this death he took from many of me. I will never forget it I have always been grateful for the kind words, for the advice, for the love ... there must be love dear and it is not bought with money ... I wish you success ... do not hate your mother because one day you may find yourself in the same situation of being hated by your own children. This will hurt you a lot, believe me ..
Abe boy / girl you are 16 years old and you still can't write in your native language. Such an illiterately written letter! Take a little lie over the textbooks, and leave your parents found! It is not your job to confuse who did what work at home, who could wash, clean and cook, and who carried the money. Since your father is so valuable, why did he leave your mother to take care of an ungrateful person like you and beat himself with a whip? Why doesn't he look after you, clean, wash and feed you ???? Abe this young generation is fucking ungrateful garbage !!! You just know MONEY, GOLD, MONEY !!!!
I'm sorry to tell you, but with your emotional and selfish outbursts, you prompted both of you to make the wrong choice. A baby will strengthen their marriage for a few more years, and then everything is broken. As you describe it, your mother was afraid to live alone, to cope alone, because she was used to being "watched" and in her fear she decided that the only way to keep your father's money for herself was to give birth to another one. kid. She is now a princess. And over time, you will hate them, you will hate yourself, you will begin to feel that being together is not a solution for you. And it can't be. Now I want to tell you what could have happened if you hadn't gotten involved. They are divorcing. Divorce is not easy - ok, it's a bit like a war, especially with our Bulgarian mentality, but if you were reasonable you could have lightened the blow. Your mother is dependent, free to seek her happiness with a man she loves. Your father frees himself from the burden and in time finds someone to give him love. You calm down, stay here or go to Spain, enroll to study and arrange your life. They acted cowardly and made the wrong decision. I hope I don't turn out to be a bad prophet, but that's where things go. The second child, made to save the marriage, is the greatest nonsense in the world. This child will grow up with his guilt, he will rot ... I hope his soul is strong and manages to fight. but that's where things go. The second child that is done to save a marriage is the biggest nonsense in the world. This child will grow up with his guilt, he will rot ... I hope his soul is strong and manages to fight. but that's where things go. The second child that is done to save a marriage is the biggest nonsense in the world. This child will grow up with his guilt, he will rot ... I hope his soul is strong and manages to fight.
Hey, a lot of drummers, and they all give advice on something that may not have been on their minds. They only know some butterflies, love and many other nonsense. I will speak on behalf of a person who has gone this way. At the age of 40, I went through this journey as a child 20 years ago, I also hate my mother because she is a lowly hypocrite and selfish. Thinking only of her butterflies in her stomach and ass. But sooner or later one regrets his actions, as she does. No one has gotten out of life without paying, now she is alone like a toad. I tried to tell her then that she was making a mistake but she didn't understand me and insulted me severely. Now, after so many years, she told a friend of mine that she would be ready to die tomorrow, but to have a family for a day. Many women do not distinguish between infatuation and true love, but unfortunately they learn it too late. I know from experience that if you give freedom to a woman she always thinks nonsense, and when you throw her out she comes to her senses. He comes out of the intoxication of love very quickly and realizes what he is losing. Believe that after such a situation, people change. So this little princess has outlived her years, learn from her. She will be a good mother and wife.
Darling, it sucks for your parents to divorce, but sometimes it's better for everyone. Imagine that yours decides to stay together even though they no longer love each other. What will happen? They will be unhappy, sour, they will fight all the time ... well, that definitely doesn't sound like a happy family! So if you don't care about your mother, at least think about your father. You want him to be happy and loved, not to fight with your mother forever for the sake of his lover and for 100 other things. And you are 16, you will soon be an adult and then you will be able to go to your father in Spain, by the way, in case of a divorce and now you can ask the court to decide that you should live with your father. You are old enough and have the right to express your opinion. So things are not so bad. And if yours can't rebuild their relationship, it's better to get a divorce.