Hello! I am a girl of 13 (after 2 weeks 14) years, 8th grade. My problem is that I often argue with my mother. My boyfriend is 17 and my first d / d is serious. I used to go out almost every day, but now 2-3 times a week with him. We've been together for about 4 hours and I'm coming home. My mother keeps calling me that I went out for many hours, for 1 hour and a half I could, but not for 4, I didn't study what I did so much with this boy, etc. I can't understand what prevents her from doing so much. I'm dating a person I like :( I've already started to study more seriously, I get good grades, not only have I not seen him for 1 week (which is a lot for me) but he still doesn't allow me. He just gives me examples of other "obedient" kids or some congested idiots. that she worries and is obliged to know, but she is already overdoing it. She calls me in an hour to ask me where I am, to mutter to me to go home, even if she knows it won't happen to her again. I don't know what to do anymore, I'm sure my boyfriend will soon get tired of this whole thing and leave me, and I don't want to. What do you think - am I restless or is my mother too anxious and doesn't understand me?
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At 13 ... a point on the subject :) she thought of herself
Well, for starters, let me tell you that I'm 13, but recently :) My mother is quite nervous :) But on the other hand, it passes quite quickly; / So, for starters, tell your mother that no you are doing nothing wrong :) (if so) not that having sex is wrong, but 13/14 years we are not mature and responsible enough to do it :) Anyway, ask your mother to invite him to date :) You, your mother and the boy, of course, only if he is holy or at least pretend to be like that, say that you love him, make the boy buy flowers for your mother, if everything goes well :) your mother will let you go PSP: I also had boyfriends older than me, my eldest was 19 but my last was 17 :) and he was Turkish: D my father didn't like him or my mother, and I just liked him and nothing else and so on we just broke up and my best friend M.I was also a boyfriend with him but now WE ARE JUST FRIENDS :)
Remember this, when you have children yourself - you will be the same as her. The previous comment said it very well, at 13, she remembered what it meant. You think you are "big" but you are still a child. I thought the same thing at that age.
It's like listening to me. I am also 13 and after 1 week I turn 14, my friend is also 17, I go out every day and here in the neighborhood (because he is from my neighborhood) I go out for no more than 4/5 hours and my mother sings. See, if he really loves you or likes you, he won't dump you and you will go on, talk to your mother and tell her that everyone your age (talking about girls) goes out and sits longer. Explain that you don't want to sit with your boyfriend for so little time and tell her that when she was your age, she also hung out all day. Good luck.
Let me intervene here too !! I'm 14 and I don't have a boyfriend. I have boyfriends and girlfriends. I live with my grandparents. Ours are divorced. My mother has not seen her for 8-9 years and my father travels abroad as a circulation. I get along very well with my grandparents. It's all about honesty and trust. If there is something I tell them right away, they let me out until everyone comes home, they trust me !! Talk to your mother and tell her that you should have more confidence that you understand her worries, but they are for no reason. THIS DOES EVERYTHING !! He will see that you have grown up and so on !!
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