Hello, a 14-year-old girl writes to you. We live in a small town near Sofia, but I still buy my clothes here. In fact, when we go to the clothing market, my mother chooses things she would wear, even if I don't like them. And when I tell her that I don't like them or I'm left with nothing or shouting, screaming and snarling and exposing. If I like something, it's not always to my mother's liking, and it's super simple, knee-length jeans and a T-shirt. And I don't mean a cool t-shirt, but a t-shirt with simple colors and that's it. I usually try to tuck it into my jeans, but they don't have a high waist and when my T-shirt shrinks it doesn't work. Now I'm trying to get my mother to go to the mall and renew part of the wardrobe, but it doesn't work. I will wear the long-sleeved blouses for 4 years and they have shrunk, but my mother is not interested. He usually buys me 1-2 blouses, if I'm lucky. Now I have 3 pairs of jeans, one is from last year and is black, the other is super light and is 2 years old (I don't like light jeans because I'm full in the legs and they outline it, but there were no other colors in the store, and I I needed jeans), and two weeks ago we bought another pair, bright of course, again there were no other colors. All my blouses are like sacks, literally. They don't emphasize anything (not that I want to), but my sleeves are short and I can only wear all things with long sleeves (4 blouses and one polo mustard) on black jeans. And I don't want to be wearing the same pair of jeans every day. Last year I only had two pairs of jeans for the winter and I changed them. In the morning I tried to explain to my mother, but she told me not to bother her. I have a money box in which I collect my money from RD or name day and the total is BGN 710. It is only for clothes and they don't buy them for me. The income of mom and dad to be big every month in the house enters about 2000 BGN. Please advice how to get them to take me to the mall, because in our city the shops are very bad for clothes. We live 25 km from Sofia and we have a car, but Dad doesn't like to drive, that's why public transport and the train call me.
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Take your money and go shopping alone when you have the opportunity or order from the internet, there are many nice clothes at good prices.
And have you tried to explain to her exactly the same way you wrote it here? Tell her that you are growing and you can't wear clothes that are already small for you, if it doesn't work out and so you have enough money to buy nice clothes from online stores.
One should not rely on clothes to adorn him. If you are beautiful in face and body, wearing plain clothes will only emphasize the loftiness of your spirit and your lack of vanity. If you've read the novel Tobacco, pay attention to the way female beauty is presented. Irina has the bourgeois beauty you aspire to, but Lila shines physically and morally even in rags. And even the lack of physical beauty is something for which a person should be grateful, because it saves him from many temptations and sins. In any case, I advise you to focus on those qualities of yours that you value as good, and not to sin in vanity, trying to change what you have received by nature. It's written to you by an 18-year-old boy.
Stop complaining. Find a job or sell something online and buy whatever you want.
Why your mother has to take you to the mall. Catch a friend and go shopping together.
To number 3 - when I look at someone gave you a rating of 2 on the comment: D .. you can guess that nowadays children under 03 set do not read books at all (with exceptions).
Come on, start making your own money and see if you complain so much.
They take a good total income of about BGN 2,000, but do you know what expenses they have? Save money and go buy clothes yourself. Is it that hard? As rude as it sounds ..
To number 4-What job to find at 14?
To number 1 - I am not allowed to order online and go shopping alone To number 2 - Do you think I would have written here if I had not explained To number 3 - I am glad that nowadays there are people who read the old novels, I share your opinion about beauty, but I don't feel ok with my clothes and I can't relax if I'm among friends. To number 4 - I have money, and a job for 14 girls like me is not easy, and my parents would not allow me to work until I graduate ... university! To number 5 - To get to the nearest mall, you have to catch the train and then the bus. There is no way they can send me with a friend alone in Sofia To number 6 - I am one of these exceptions To number 7 - I understand very well what I want and how to get it, and I have resources. I just need advice on how to ask for it, and not how mom and dad can buy me Gucci Up to number 8 - All these 700 BGN in MY piggy bank are ONLY FOR CLOTHES. Through the income information of mom and dad I wanted to show that they are above the minimum wage.
Why not walk to a decent 2nd hand store, even Mania if you want? There are also brand new clothes, but at much lower prices, which will almost not affect the coffers (for 20-40 BGN you will take a lot of things), and at the same time you will not have to wait for your mother to buy you clothes. The way to ask when they can't hear you is to just get the clothes you need yourself. It's not complicated, and I guess they didn't tie you up at home.
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