Hello. I am 13 years old. My mother does not want to eat, she has become weak and says she is not on her own. I do not know what to do. I want to help her, but I don't know how. If anyone has been in this situation or knows something to help me please write.
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Are you alone, are there no relatives, friends? What you can do is talk to her, the other thing is to ask them to talk to her - her friends, colleagues, relatives. If you are alone - agree with her to seek help, I do not know what the problem is, it may be psychological, it may be a disease of the body. Depending on what is going to the doctor for research or to a psychotherapist.
Oh, baby. You can talk to her frankly and kindly, tell her that you are worried about her because you see that she is nervous, that she is not eating and is losing weight. Tell her that you love her, that you need her, and that her happiness is extremely important to you. Ask her how you can help her be calmer. You are her child, and that should open her eyes, melt her heart, and make her rethink the situation. If you think this would not help or you think the problem is deeper, then seek help from an adult relative. You are only 13 years old and the situation is delicate and you can't handle it on your own. Let an elderly person from the family help you. Try to listen more, help with the housework, allow her to rest a little to feel better. Don't worry, everything will be fine.
I'm number 1 to number 2 Immediately with the condescending tone! Do you know how traumatic it is for a child to feel helpless and useless, as if he does not have the strength to cope or help? We don't know what the situation is, so I gave her suggestions that she noticed - they include her, a 13-year-old girl who wants to help her mother, which is commendable and responsible. Everyone's life develops differently, not everyone has relatives and support, I was also alone with my mother at such a time. There is nothing worse than having different adults look at you with condescension and regret, feeling guilty that you are not useful enough because you are young. I know you wrote it with good intentions, but your tone is like that of someone helpless and weak.