Hello, I have written on this site another time and I received very good answers to my questions, for which I thank you, I hope you will help me now. So I have a huge problem with my mother, so she doesn't stop pouring alcohol, be it brandy, vodka, whiskey or anything else. She's drunk every night and she's picking on me and my father and she doesn't admit to drinking much. She is very weak and from 1 glass she is caught by alcohol. How many times have I talked to her to reduce my drinking a little and she promises me and everything repeats itself. She justifies herself by saying that she brought all the money home and can do whatever she wants with it, and with my father's salary we pay off the loan. It pays all bills for water, electricity, heating, etc. For two days she has been teasing us, insulting us, saying that we are not ashamed to make remarks about her drinking and drinking even more. Last night she even took all the money she had given me from my father and also took it and said that we would not see more money from her, she threatened us that she would not cook anymore, we had used her as a maid. In my opinion, she is addicted to alcohol and does not admit that she drinks a lot. I do not know what to do. I want to find a job and make money, but I'm too young and no one will take me to work, I'm only 16 and I haven't even done it yet. Please give me advice on what to do with it. I want to find a job and make money, but I'm too young and no one will take me to work, I'm only 16 and I haven't even done it yet. Please give me advice on what to do with it. I want to find a job and make money, but I'm too young and no one will take me to work, I'm only 16 and I haven't even done it yet. Please give me advice on what to do with it.
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I know this story! I am also 16 and my marital status was almost the same until it came to the point that I had been living with my father for 4 years now. I really wanted to help mothers stop drinking, but it never happened. Sometimes I remember so many bad things in my life that I don't know how to survive, to be honest. But you realize that all these difficulties we are going through make us stronger for the future! That is why I advise you to think very well and to realize yourself in your studies and in your dreams. Try to build your path in the future :) it's not your fault that your parents don't have a mind in their head! As for work, you will hardly find it anywhere in those years, because you know that in our beautiful homeland everything happens with connections! I wish you success.
if you are over 18 years old sit down to drink with her! but in moderation .. and seeing that you are on 1 wave and often talk to her about the problems and pain :)
I have a similar problem, only my mother and my grandmother. They keep arguing, my grandmother disapproves of my mother's drinking and my grandmother, when she starts talking to her to stop drinking, starts a crazy scandal. This has been going on for 5 years now. They are both stubborn, I used to get so angry that I broke a glass. And the issue is the same money and drinking. So I know, I'm only 12 years old, but I'm still struggling. I talked to my mom about drinking and she promised me, promised me nothing. It even got to almost a fight. I know what it's like for you, I feel the same, but I'll tell you one thing. If you keep getting angry, you'll ruin your life ... Look ahead and never look back, life is rubbish and we are alone in it. However, I hold on and think forward but never behind. I have hardly seen such scandals. BELIEVE,
Well, look what. I have two parents drunk. I don't know what to do anymore, but I'm starting to think that the only way out is 1. You have to take life into your own hands and have fun until the end, try to change your character and be more independent. Don't look for reasons, because there are only ways - you have to look for them. You don't care about money and work, but if you want it you can always find it. You just have to live as long as you can. Your parents, and they can do whatever they decide, you can only respect them and possibly love them no matter what. Just remember every day above the ground is a nice day and in 5-10 years you will live in chocolate.