Hello, I'm a girl - let me tell you my story. My mother has been divorced for several years and now has a boyfriend - one of her cousins. I'm sick of having a boyfriend at all - ok, I have to put up with the relationship. But today I stretched my clothes and what? !! I saw erotic lingerie ..! That means they're having sex, right? !? I'm just kind of sick of knowing all this. They told me that, but I wish they weren't, at least they wouldn't press / kiss / in front of me in the evening! I get annoyed when I see or hear them! My mom and I talked about the two of them ... Almost every night he comes to us and starts tsuni-muni! For example, I am 200% sure that my father has a boyfriend - he complies with me, he has not met us, he does not hug and kiss in front of me .. I just kind of fuck that they have a relationship! It may sound selfish to you, I'm not jealous, but it's just hellish but damn unpleasant to watch them together! Please help me control my anger !!!
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After all, she has to go on with her life, just because they divorced your father doesn't mean she has to be alone all her life. after all, you will go your own way. You can talk about the fact that you are uncomfortable and not being pressured in front of you and when they are alone to do it. Just talk to her about it.
abe it's scarier that they are cousins ..
Spox, my mom says they are 3rd cousins and even the church allows a relationship. But I'm still annoyed ..!
I take my word for it, but up to the seventh generation the church allows it. This is madness third cousin I do not believe. Ask a girl and you will control your anger by showing her that this is wrong. Ask even the church if it is a complete hoax. HORROR third cousin aunt MOYKOOOOOOOOOOOOO.
Don't be selfish. Let the woman have fun? What if she had found your erotic lingerie and you're pissed, huh?
You should be glad that your mother feels happily loved. She had sex, but did you fall from Mars? If she doesn't have a friend, she will feel sick, she will complain about how hard it is for her, and you, as the closest one, will take on all this negativity. So rejoice that you have someone to feel good with and make sure you are well. And whether he is a 2, 3, 4 cousin is not your job, it is hers, she decides who to be with, who she feels good with, if this is not a problem for her, I don't see why it should be for you. The church has to decide with whom to feel good, isn't it incest, that's enough, and they won't have children for now, what's your problem?
If you are really so annoyed that they are kissing and hugging in front of you, ask her to refrain, but it seems to me that the problem is deeper. You may not be able to accept that your mother can be happy without having something to do with you. It is normal to rejoice that the people we love are happy, but selfishness and envy kill that joy. I'm sorry for you that you can't be happy. You're not a good person, I'm sorry to say that.
in my opinion 7. is absolutely right. otherwise your mother's third cousin is NOT AN UNCLE! They may even have children like everyone else - in Bulgaria we just keep in touch with third and so-called cousins, but in practice they are not our relatives - from first cousins onwards, no problem. In the West, first cousins are allowed, because the risk of malformations is not so much higher than normal - in a normal couple are 7%, in first cousins to 15 - means only 8% higher risk, and today there are studies and etc. In my opinion you are jealous of your mother, you do not want to give her the right to continue with her life. However, if only you are annoyed by the ostentation of this relationship - say that you do not like it. Your mother must be a very young woman and quite immature, but say something! Don't argue with people, look at your own life and you fall in love without noticing,