Let me tell you briefly my story, which I feel will ruin me; "It's about my mother, she's sick, she has schizophrenia (moderate) or at least that's what the doctors said, she's been in psychiatry a few times while she's there and she's given the pills." it's fine, but when he comes out he stops drinking them, and he goes crazy again, what I have planned, he says that I was 4 years older, that he wasn't my mother, that my father had a mistress, that I had an uncle and an uncle (there is no such thing - my uncle died when I was 6 and my uncle never had) he imagines various things, such as that one thing was done 5 times, and it was de facto only once, it happened to me to introduce her to a girl, and for her to say "how many times will we meet" don't ask me what's wrong with me etc ... I don't wish it on anyone, don't ask me what's wrong with me, I wanted her to go to the hospital,but I was told that without her consent she can't, the worst thing is that she is sick and doesn't want to realize it, and she says that we brought her to this state that she was healthy and we were a doctor ... which not so ... Please give me advice on how to make her go to the doctor and start taking her medicine, only in this way I will be able to live normally ... Please someone if she knows let her help
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Very big problem! You should definitely talk to HER DOCTOR. We are from a small town, my best friend's father was too. The doctor gave the medicine to his mother, and she put it in his morning coffee. That was kind of normal, but not quite. He recently died of a heart attack because he refused to see a doctor. It may sound nasty, but I think it was the best thing that happened to his family. Most of all, his refusal to take his pills and realize he was sick tormented them.
And my father went into psychiatry twice because of schizophrenia, the same job as your mother — he was constantly imagining things, he thought some were after him, and he wanted to poison him, but worst of all, he was aggressive. Such people are not aware of their illness and think that others want to harm them. The only way to help your mother and yourself is to put her in a psychiatric ward, because it will not be voluntary, you have to be forced. I know the way is cruel, but there is no other way. You have to go to the police to inform your mother, they will send you to court and there they will schedule a case together with doctors who will diagnose your mother and force her into psychiatry. It sucks, but there's no other way, I've been this way. After going through all this with my father myself, now my father is adequate and grateful to me, and I keep an eye on him if he takes his pills. Write here what's going on, I can help you, because I've been this way! Good luck!!!
Hello, and my mother suffers from a mental illness. In fact, it was difficult to get her to take her medication, but after the second attack she started taking it herself. Now she takes them regularly, no problem, the contact is aware of what is happening ... but when she didn't take them, it was scary. In fact, many important to get her to start taking her medication one way or another.
I agree with number 1. Dude, she's your mother, she didn't want to get sick from such a disease, but it's better to stay away from you, let them take her back and take care of her, you won't be able to cope. If it stays with you, it can hurt you.
"If it stays with you, it can hurt you. '' - Yes, too much stress will come to you, and you know that this is one of the key factors in triggering this terrible disease, and this disease is hereditary. I don't want to scare you, but people like you who have a genetic predisposition to this disease should avoid stressful situations, and you do the opposite. Good luck with your mother
My father had schizophrenia, unfortunately he committed suicide
And my father had bipolar disorder, which ruined my family. Living with such a person is a nightmare, I do not wish it on anyone. You have to find a way to give her the medicine, the other option is to cycle between exacerbation of the symptoms and forced hospitalization, followed by going home with a refusal of medication and worsening again. If you have money, you can move elsewhere and hire a permanent maid to take care of your mother.
My grandmother had schizophrenia, I remember that there were times when she didn't take her pills and had to go to the hospital, but after a while she learned to take them, I don't know how, and everything was ok after that. Unfortunately, he died of cancer at a very early age, not 60. Don't leave your mother, she wouldn't leave you if you were in her place. I am sure that in time she will learn to take her medication as my grandmother learned.
From cyclophrenics and schizophrenics, run away! She's your mother, but that doesn't get you anywhere. Even if they take their pills, these people degrade. Doctors explain how they will "stabilize" but this is not true. You just have to watch them, don't you? Don't ruin your life, study, build a career, start a family - life is in front of you! The mentally ill destroy everything and do not allow the development of other people, constantly irritating them with their delusions, raising scandals and blaming. I read above that a schizophrenic had committed suicide ... A cyclophrenic hanged herself in front of her children in order to punish them all for being guilty, as she herself felt guilty ... Thousands more stories of failed people. "Whatever you get together with, you become," people said. Draw your own conclusions!
Hello, Both my mother and I have had schizophrenia. But you don't know how many times you will have to go to a psychiatric ward. My mother came in for the third time today, 2000, two years ago and now. I've been twice, once in 2-3 days, but the second time in two weeks. Now I'm fine, I go to work, I have a friend, but she hasn't worked at the stock exchange for several months, she wanted to take a break from work all her life. I do not agree with what has been written above to stay away from such people, because it is different for everyone, both me and my mother were not dangerous to others, but rather we harmed ourselves through black thoughts and nonsense in our heads. . My mother forcibly sent her the second time, she didn't want to go to a psychiatric hospital, but today she left on her own, because the whole family works, today my father called, when he came home from work he found out that she had left and we were surprised.
I'm in the same situation and I know how hard it is for you ... At the moment my mother is in a psychiatric clinic and I haven't seen her for a long time ... What if your mother doesn't accept her illness, you have to talk to a specialist and he to convince her. Good luck and be very happy; -]
Hello, And my family is in the same condition. Hell started ten years ago. At that time, with great persistence on our part, my mother was taking her medication and it was almost a normal situation. But once she decided to stop them two years ago and nothing could make her drink them. We go with her to a psychologist because she doesn't want to leave the house by herself, she doesn't say adequate things, and lately she is mean to everyone ... We don't know what to do anymore ... It's a nightmare. I'm far away now, but for fathers and my sister and terrible ... But knowing what the hospitals in Bulgaria are and what a misery it is ... We hoped so much that he would start taking the medicines again, but no .. only money is given for new ones .. he drinks one, two and decides that it will stop them ... she makes her coffee, they feed everything herself so that we don't give them to them ... I don't know
If he does not want to take his medication, talk to the psychiatrist about giving depot injections - this is a concentrated dose of antipsychotic, which is given 1-2 times a month and is gradually released in the body. I think there are (at least before) antipsychotics in syrup that can be put in food.
Her consent is not required for her to enter a hospital and receive medical treatment. You have to file a complaint with the prosecutor's office / duty prosecutor /, in which you describe the problem, pointing out two or three neighbors as witnesses. Otherwise, my sister is ... a little slow. It made me nervous, but I resigned myself. When she entered puberty and began to be shaken by the hormone, she became intolerant. One day during the summer vacation we were home alone. I was ... annoyed when my sister made me nervous about something, I don't remember exactly what she did. Then I just fucked her ... well, that helped both of us. Since then I fuck her regularly and I have no problems with her.
My father also has this disease, it is severe and I understand you. Depot injections are the best option, otherwise taking medication every day is a big problem and almost impossible without mental harassment. It's hard to have a parent with a mental illness, at one point I feel like I'm the parent even because I have to take care. I am interested to know how you deal with yourself, because I am personally afraid to have children, and also to give birth, because the risk is high, I am still genetically burdened.