Hello! I am a boy, 21. I have a serious girlfriend, we have been together for 5 years. She is a very cool person, we love each other very much. It's just that it's much better financially. They live in a nice house, everything inside is great. I was also a guest for the holidays for a few days. I had a good time. I came back, and one day my stupid mother called me "Rich son-in-law". Mali, my curtain fell and I ordered it. Why would he call me that. I mean the irony. In general, it is a big tick. She is unemployed. She is just breathing, is she critical? But I will not tolerate her numbers. I don't know how my father tolerates her. He's very cool, he works, but she still complains. She eats like an elephant and always comes up with the trick that it was useful for home. In general, I really want it to disappear somehow, to be gone. I'm sorry it doesn't help me in life. I work and give food coupons at home. I do not know, when I decide to get together with my girl, how will they make me at least some kind of family gathering, there, and then a wedding with relatives. I'm very naughty and I think my mother is to blame for everything.
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You can't wait for mom to do ... anything to you. Sam said you work, at 21, save money to make your own. If they help you welcome, but do not wait. There are also bigger freaks. ~ Ramona ~
At first glance, well, you have the right to be indignant (which offended you more Rich or Son-in-law?) However, it struck me that in the same topic you compare: your girlfriend - who is "much better financially" and your mother - unemployed, eats a lot and "does not help you in anything". You sound pretty mercantile. If your mother provided you with a livelihood, she certainly wouldn't be a freak, would she? And if your girlfriend ate a lot and they were worse off financially, she would be the freak. Еееех ...
:) I have a 22-year-old son ... He didn't tell me to have a serious girlfriend, but I think that the financial situation of the girl she will choose as a companion in life will be one of the last things that will interest me. .. not that it doesn't matter, but I know that money is earned ... but on the occasion of a family reunion and a wedding with relatives :)))) why should it be her responsibility? !! In 1990, my son's father and I organized them ourselves and ... it wasn't bad at all ...
horror ... what is this wedding for you, what is this family reunion for you. You take your girlfriend, draw a signature in the civil one and you won't be afraid of what they would marry you with, etc. And what can I tell you - your mother is useful and how. When you come home, you are clean, shopping, cooked, served, this is not a small thing. Try to live alone and you will appreciate your "useless" mother ...
You will forgive me, but what is your mother guilty of? You want it to disappear, but you're kind of the "intruder" there, you live with them and you're 21. They provide you with a roof over your head, and you want your mother to disappear, aren't you ashamed? She gave birth to you, why be a freak? Is it because she was joking or because she is unemployed? There is no point in what you write, you are a spoiled, ungrateful mother's son. It's good that you've found a girl to love, but what is your mother's fault ... or maybe because your girlfriend is rich you feel inferior, you feel that your parents are to blame for not being rich like her, because your father works - is cool, and your mother - the unemployed is to blame for your situation mdaaa this will be .... calm the ball and see if you can one day provide this to your children and your wife, money is not important,
Dear boy - catch and support yourself in a dormitory, then have claims. If my daughter catches up with someone like you, it's over!
How can you write such things about your mother, You are a great freak. I'll ask you if anything happens if you think so.
You know boy you're a big ungrateful. Why didn't you tell your mother she was a freak 10 years ago when she was studying and she was working and taking care of you. Oh yes, now she is a freak because she doesn't work and she eats a lot .... And you, being very open and doing what you do with your parents. Go out to the apartment and take care of yourself for your girlfriend and let's see how much time you will spend. But why if Dad wears Mom Messi. You are very open but you don't like it ...