My Mother Is An Alcoholic-kristoz

   I have no experience in this area, but my advice is to dig on the Internet and read more about how to treat alcoholism. I recently came across an article about a drug called Alcostop. Type it in the search engine and you will read more about it. I don't know how old you are, do you have a father, but I think your mother has a serious reason for reaching this state, which makes her reach for the cup. She may not realize it, but I can't believe that if she's okay, she'll enjoy the alcohol itself. She just wants to forget something this way, but it's not a solution.

   My mother also drinks every night. And I'm very worried about not becoming an alcoholic, or maybe she already is. So far I thought that only mine drinks, but obviously this is a problem for many women. I have asked her many times why she drinks, if there is no problem, and you answer that there is not and this has become a bad habit that can not be given up. I understand your concerns very well and I want to help you. That's why you can tell your mother more often how much you love her and that you will always support her. At least I do so and to tell you sometimes it helps and so not every night he drinks. The other way is for your mother and mine to seek serious help. I can't wind it. I hope you manage to win yours.

   Every pear has a tail, every action has a derivative, every action has a rest. It is not good. It will never stop. It is lonely.

   Number three - don't be sure that the reason the mother is drowning in alcohol is loneliness ... I think ... you're lonely. You'll never forget that boy, will you? That very hurtful finale - it will always haunt you ... You can change it ... believe me - you can. To the author: There is a reason for your mother's actions - you have to understand her. When a person is drunk, you can extract almost everything from him (personal experience). Sit next to your mother one night, talk to each other, I'm sure the conversation will start with the cup ... go deeper - look. Be prepared for everything. When I realized the reason my father was an alcoholic, I was devastated. I have a scar left for life, I hope things are not so serious with you. Support her ... let her know that there is a person who is ready to help her ... Good luck! SFA

   Hello! I am a 19 year old girl and my mother is an alcoholic. My parents have been divorced for a year and recently my mother came to beg us to take her home. She said she had changed, that she was no longer drinking, and that she wanted to make up for lost time. My father calls me to change. And I told him to go through every miracle in three days. And her drunken stories began again. At the time, it was found in the most expensive clinics. Finally, my father goes to pick her up and goes to the doctor to prescribe pills for my mother to stop drinking. And the doctor told him that she herself did not want to stop taking any pills on her own, they would not help her and the doctor was right. Honestly, they do not deserve our regret. There is no point in ruining your life with an alcoholic.

   Hello ! I am a 17 year old girl and my mother has been an alcoholic for as long as I can remember. I tell you it's scary who has not experienced it knows nothing. Constant torture, constant nerves and worries. My mother took medicine, went to the hospital several times, recovered, and started again. I tell you this is not okay. I don't know what to do anymore before I despaired now I know that she will never get better and I always live with that thought. This is a punishment from God for me and there is no cure for it. I feel sorry for everyone who is like me. Good luck

   Hello. I saw that you have the same problem as mine. Don't ruin your nerves with her. Great attempt to tell you. If she doesn't realize herself, you can't help her. I've been through it and I know what it is. Fix your life, dump it. If you have questions write. I will gladly give you advice.

   She's been drinking for as long as I can remember. It's been more than 20 years. I have tried many times to help her, but to no avail. Even pills that are not registered in Bulgaria and I found. She drank them for a while, then decided her stomach hurt from them and stopped them. Walk out of the drunken neighborhood. I'm ashamed of people ... As if we can choose our parents ... If I start talking to my patillas with her, I won't have enough for a week. He even stole my money to buy alcohol. Shorten my life. My family and I moved to another city. I have no connection with her. And I don't want to see or hear her. Such people do not deserve to have children. But the dumbest thing is that people feel sorry for her because they think she's drinking in grief for my father, who died five years ago. And I'm the bad one, that I do not look at my mother and have left her to the whims of fate. I'm just angry that I let it ruin / literally / my life. Because I trusted her unconditionally (as most children trust their parents), and she navigated it only for her own benefit. She arranged for me not to go and live elsewhere, so that no one would look after her. But I took it for granted. A little late, but still something. I don't want to see her.

   I am a 19 year old girl. My mother is also an alcoholic. He was hospitalized several times, after which he was well for about 5-6-7 months. And then again ... It's very hard. She is a wonderful person, but she does not realize that she is ruining both her own and my life. I understand everyone who is like me. The sad thing is that I know that there is really no cure for this and she will never put an end to alcohol forever.

   Hello, I'm a boy of 19. My mother also drinks and I don't know how to help her and the doctors prescribed some pills but she started taking them 2 by 3 horror if you can give me some advice on how to help her

   Do not try to help her, because alcoholism is an incurable disease and only if she herself has the desire and will she will stop drinking ... you will only break your nerves, believe me, I have experience and it is the same in our country. :( I hope everything is fine with you, but I tell you again that everything depends on her.

   The reason why a person starts drinking is out of curiosity, to see what taste and aroma alcohol has. (The same goes for cigarettes). Then he tries another type of alcohol, another drink, to see both the experience and its taste. Yes, but alcoholic beverages are many types. By the time he has tried everything, he is getting used to alcohol, he is getting used to drinking. He wants to try again to enjoy again and again the taste and aroma of the drinks. Then again, after a while he starts to do it more often, he increases the doses a little, later he starts to drink regularly, every day, every night, he starts to like this taste, to enjoy it, he increases the doses and so on one day understands that without alcohol there can be no alcohol dependence. He is already an alcoholic! Systematic alcohol consumption, respectively, begins to ruin his health and the person slowly but surely, begins to degrade and go to the bottom. He loses his friends, then his job, he destroys his family, he loses his property, then his money, he is left alone with his favorite drink, which he cannot part with, until he finally becomes a wreck and a pathetic shiver. The picture becomes sad, pathetic, miserable and disgusting. Separating such a person with alcohol is a very, very difficult task. This can only happen if he shows a very strong desire and will to fight his vice. Such a person really needs treatment for alcohol dependence. Definitely, this treatment can only work, and if the person himself shows the will and desire to get rid of alcohol. There is even a society in Bulgaria called Alcoholics Anonymous. This is a society where people who were former alcoholics have recovered from this addiction and together have taken the path of sobriety. The bravest, most convinced and most strong-willed of them, reaped success and got rid of alcohol, returning to the happiness of sobriety. They try to help others as well. I hope these pages arouse your interest. http://arka.bulboard.com/ http://arka.bulboard.com/vf8.html http://arka.bulboard.com/vf19.html http://arka.bulboard.com/vt91.html http : //arka.bulboard.com/vt87.html What is Alcoholics Anonymous AA is a society of men and women from all over the world who share with each other their experience, strength and hope to overcome their common problem with alcohol and to help others recover from alcoholism. http://arka.bulboard.com/vt91.html Personal success stories!

   I hope you'll excuse me for the long sentences and the unrelated text, but it's really hard for me to share. My brother was drunk many years ago, but fortunately with joint efforts at home we fought and stopped then there were some pills that when mixed with alcohol begin to vomit until the alcohol in them is cleared. Accordingly, they do not want to drink them because they deny that they have a problem and you have to either make them drink them even if they drink them and then keep them from vomiting or crush them in food without knowing it. Fortunately, my brother for at least 10 years, but I think they are much more not licking a gram of alcohol. Unfortunately, almost 5 years ago my mother started drinking lightly and the situation became very bad. And if "friends" are found who, instead of helping to give bad advice and sit down with them, the problem becomes even bigger. Unfortunately, these pills that I mentioned then were not imported to Bulgaria. At one point, the situation became inescapable. Then I was against alcohol and family scandals between mother and father, and my brother was far from home to work. Too late I found out where I can find the pills because with these alcostop or something like that offered in Bulgaria did not help, I do not know if those who offer them in Turkey would never find out. Give them as much time as you can, be with them every free second, even seek medical help, look for all sorts of options to help them because there comes a time when the situation is getting worse and worse and worse ....... From here on Dad, I can't keep writing, I don't have the strength.

   Hello! And my mother is an alcoholic. They divorced my father and now I am forced to live with her, but of course I visit my father. Before they separated, my father took her to hospitals and prescribed her various medications, but alas, nothing. In order to get better, you need it, yes, exactly you. My grandparents think she will get in the way if they beat her, but I don't let them. When she is not sober, she scares me a lot, I personally forbid her to go out, drive or even go somewhere when she is drunk. The only thing she needs is to sit down and talk, but when she is in good condition, that is sober :). I hope I helped :) :)

   Hello lovely girl. The fact that your mother drinks 100, 200 grams of alcohol every night when you sit down to dinner, whether she will have a nice salad to drink brandy or two glasses of beer does not make her an alcoholic. Most people nowadays eat and drink at dinner. I am 23 and I remember my 5 year old mother drinking. It's been 18 years, I don't want to complain but I lived in hell while I was with my parents. Alcoholism is when a person drinks whether it is day or night. she was fired last year for this very reason. She was so intoxicated that she even drank at work. She was caught, kicked out, became a year old and is more at home, no one calls her to work, because it is known what they kicked her out for. With each passing day it gets worse. He is secretly hiding from my father, taking advantage of being at work most of the time she continues to drink. I begged her, I cried like a donkey, we fought, she was fine. when I moved in with my boyfriend a few miles from home, she got drunk all the time. My father goes to work, my sister is at school until noon, it's a golden opportunity for her, she has time to go buy alcohol, get drunk, go to bed to sober up, and it's as if nothing happened. My father saves me very often that she is drunk more and more often at any time so as not to bother me. A few months ago there was an accident, she got drunk on the way home and fainted. from there measures were taken, he took pills until recently, but since you yourself do not have the will, there is no way. today, when I talked to my sister, she told me that she had not sobered up for three days now. This is an alcoholic. many times I was afraid to go her way. as a student, even after that I drank an amount of alcohol above the norm when I got together with good company. even now I drink but much less than before. 100 grams of alcohol when I'm at home and not at work, but alcohol is not my priority. I see what it causes. and as for my mother, I don't know what will happen, she will probably be in a treatment clinic very soon