I am 16 years old and I am a boy. I have been moving with skinheads for 2 years. I've been with them twice already and we're trying to sabotage gay parades, and in terms of gays and lesbians, I have a significant number. I can openly say that I hate this stratum. But about 2 months ago the most terrible thing happened to me! My mother is 37 and my father and I have been divorced for more than 12 years. I have a girlfriend who is also her colleague. This friend of hers often stopped at home, and sometimes stayed to sleep with us. Everything was very nice until the moment I woke up one night and heard them. Oh, my God, what were you two doing in the other room! I was horrified, I did not know which of the two walls, but it was not a pain, this moans were a pleasure and delight. In the next few minutes they became more frequent and in a moment everything calmed down. Yes, I was sure they were having sex. In the sitting moment, I felt horror, anger, and hatred. What if it is heard, if my neighbors, relatives and friends understand how these people will react. I wanted to go into her room at that moment and kill them both. Nervous and anxious, I couldn't blink tonight. In the days that followed, their nightly entertainment lasted only time and the duration changed. I don't know how I haven't paid attention to that so far. After such nights, Mother looked very changed, she shone, radiated serenity, and was always in a good mood. Yes, indeed, after that she pleased me and allowed me to do things that she had stopped me from doing some time ago. But now I am shocked and divided. I talked to her, you told me that she has only slept with women for almost 11 years and they are both in love with each other, that I have to comply with her feelings, that she is also human and needs harmony and sex. Yes, that's right, she's my mother, good or bad, but on the other hand, I can't change my beliefs that I hate homosexuality. If you can help me with advice and if there are others like my case, tell me what the outcome is!
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Well, take the example of the fact that your mother is the opposite. There's nothing you can do, you can't stop her from sleeping with women. Don't pay attention, let him have sex.
HaH .. what a person hates the most comes to his head! lest you make fun of or gossip with other people who are the opposite .. because that's what happened .. I tell people do not make fun of yourself, do not insult and do not hate that this is exactly what will happen to you .. maybe not with them but with some of their relatives or children .. they don't believe me // Hey I'm a girl of 14 and I will advise you that you have to measure yourself stop being against the opposite and hate them or make fun of and insult .. if you do de .. don't do it anymore because you will become a man you will want a wife and children .. then you don't know what they will be like! for this you never hate you, you don't make fun of yourself .. OF A POOR UGLY FAT OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT .. good luck I hope you measure yourself .. and don't forget that we are all people regardless of whether we are the opposite or normal .. whether we are black or white poor or rich thunderstorms or beautiful it doesn't matter we are all people all even animals feel fear and love .. feel joy and sadness .. hunger and thirst .. this is your mother she likes to sleep with women angry don't blame her don't make her feel awkward be with her! I'm not writing this because I'm some kind of dentist or someone where dz .. how can I say it from these closed people who look at the world in a different way .. I'm just saying it because that's the truth. and be grateful that your mother only sleeps with women as much as with men and that she takes 2 of them to your house and takes drugs so that she doesn't care about you! .. The moon .. I'm not writing this because I'm some kind of dentist or someone where dz .. how can I say it from these closed people who look at the world in a different way .. I'm just saying it because that's the truth. and be grateful that your mother only sleeps with women as much as with men and that she takes 2 of them to your house and takes drugs so that she doesn't care about you! .. The moon .. I'm not writing this because I'm some kind of dentist or someone where dz .. how can I say it from these closed people who look at the world in a different way .. I'm just saying it because that's the truth. and be grateful that your mother only sleeps with women as much as with men and that she takes 2 of them to your house and takes drugs so that she doesn't care about you! .. The moon ..
The mind is designed to be afraid of things it does not understand - it is safer for it. And the manifestation of hidden fear is hatred. You can't understand your mother because you're not "in her shoes," and because you can't understand people like her, you're secretly afraid of their orientation, and that's why you hate them. Imagine waking up one morning and finding with horror that you are only interested and aroused by men? What will you do then? And don't tell yourself that this can never happen to you - no one can ever be 100% sure of anything! Understand, homosexuality is NOT a matter of conscious choice. It's just that you are born programmed! Just as heterosexuals are programmed to fall in love with the opposite sex! And there's nothing you can do about it - you can hide it for a number of years, even from yourself, you can understand, that this is "wrong" and to wonder and worry why it is not like others with you, you can be very tormented and swear a lot that you are like that, BUT you are like that and period! You can even start a family and have children or have children, hoping that one day you will "get better" ... IT DOESN'T HAPPEN! And not only are you tormented by this and the discomfort, but also some skinheads are lurking everywhere to beat you ... Why? Because they can't understand you, they can't put themselves in your place and see how naughty you are even without their nonsense ... Your mother has been hiding her homosexuality for many years - because of public opinion, because of having a family, a child (you) ... because of all this she sacrificed her sexual orientation! If it weren't for her victim, you wouldn't be born (imagine her giving you a man every day, and you to grit your teeth so as not to vomit, just to be able to have a child one day ...). In the end, the woman overcame her prejudices, found a partner (which is at least 10 times harder for homosexuals than for heterosexuals) and FINALLY took a breath, began to express herself and felt true happiness! Maybe the only way out is for you to change your beliefs! I hope that my modest comment will help you a little about this, or at least make you think and try to understand the arrangements in a different way. Because you can change your beliefs (by accumulating life wisdom), but she can't change her sexual orientation! Believe me, if there was even a 0, 001% chance of this happening - she would have fought for it all these years, and achieved it! Moreover - what she has achieved as a lesbian in life (family, children) is equivalent to a feat! How many of today's spoiled dirty lesbians manage to achieve it? And for gays, you don't care at all: the more they are, the more free babes there will be for real men like us! a heterosexual uncle
An interesting situation, I wonder what will prevail in you. Love for your mother or hatred for those with different sexual orientations. And the way out of the situation is to understand that everyone has the right to personal choice, just as you chose neo-Nazism, so your mother chose to have sex with a woman. And while She doesn't really bother anyone, I strongly doubt you.
Look, life is a dangerous job! He teaches and perfects us. Well, do you love your mother less now? Think about it. Is your mother less human? Maybe life, God, Providence want to divert you from the path you have taken. Don't limit yourself to people. You - I understand that your friends, the people around you have some understandings, but this does not mean that you have to share them 100%. One must always be able to think with one's head, not to be guided by the table. You may soon have to choose between your mother and your friends, but give yourself time. Now you may not have the strength to break with your environment. Your mother is unlikely to go out in public tomorrow as a lesbian, and in Bulgarian homes it is not strange for a person to stay overnight with a friend. I myself have often slept with friends - even on the same bed. As a woman, for example, you can't come back from discos alone, so we slept three friends on the same bed. That doesn't make us lesbians. No one can find out about your mother, and she can't want anyone to know, because she will lose her job and social status. When you're done, get out of here, go study. She will have a "roommate" so that she is not alone and ready. Where is your problem? PP Indeed, you have Providence that will show you in time how wrong the ideology of National Socialism is. There are people who have already been in high positions in Nazi Germany and it is revealed that the dodo is a Jew. What do we do then? They have to send their father and grandfather to Auschwitz. They themselves were saved by the laws then. There are people who had your understandings and had to gass gypsies, Jews, homosexuals in Auschwitz and Dachau. Just go to Dachau and see pictures of the gypsies killed there - you will vomit. One is theory, another is practice. Close your eyes and imagine your mother and what would happen to her if you left her to your friends + gave them power as in Nazi Germany. If you can live with that idea, OK, go ahead. If you can't, find a way to get rid of this ideology. In Germany, you are facing a final ban because of the latest atrocities, crushed just by boys like you. Think about it - if you get together to shoot homosexuals and gypsies with machine guns - how will you react when you find your mother shot at home? if you leave it to your friends + give them power as in Nazi Germany. If you can live with that idea, OK, go ahead. If you can't, find a way to get rid of this ideology. In Germany, you are facing a final ban because of the latest atrocities, crushed just by boys like you. Think about it - if you get together to shoot homosexuals and gypsies with machine guns - how will you react when you find your mother shot at home? if you leave it to your friends + give them power as in Nazi Germany. If you can live with that idea, OK, go ahead. If you can't, find a way to get rid of this ideology. In Germany, you are facing a final ban because of the latest atrocities, crushed just by boys like you. Think about it - if you get together to shoot homosexuals and gypsies with machine guns - how will you react when you find your mother shot at home?
I'm straight but I don't hate anyone. I wonder how and why you hate a stranger? Please Reply!
Hello boy! I am about 35 years older than you, so I will allow myself to give you some advice for free: 1. There is nothing more sacred than family in this life. You can't divorce your mother, but as her son you have to respect her! You do not need to understand her desires and inclinations! You are her son and you have to respect her feelings! you can shake homosexuals right, but not those who created and nourished you. If it doesn't work for you - move out, pay your own bills, but to kill those who created you is barbaric. Once upon a time there was a story we learned in school - Pavlik Morozov, who realized that his parents did not like the Soviet government and handed them over to the KGB to kill them, and he became a "hero". 2. Don't judge people for what they do if it doesn't bother you. Ask yourself why they do it. The rudeness and cynicism in our society are extremely great. Maybe there are people, not like you - the beater, who also need tenderness. And the gentle men have done something - only thugs everywhere! Like the one from the construction college, etc. 3. Between the ages of 15 and 24, people create their own worldview. Does going with skinheads mean that everything should be only Black and White, and everything else - under the knife. It is the same as the Taliban! If it is written in the Qur'an - good! If he doesn't write it - then it's bad and he has to kill, slaughter and clean! Find yourself - now is the time. Otherwise you will always listen to what someone tells you! Good luck - I hope you grow up! Between the ages of 15 and 24, people create their own worldview. Does going with skinheads mean that everything should be only Black and White, and everything else - under the knife. It is the same as the Taliban! If it is written in the Qur'an - good! If he doesn't write it - then it's bad and he has to kill, slaughter and clean! Find yourself - now is the time. Otherwise you will always listen to what someone tells you! Good luck - I hope you grow up! Between the ages of 15 and 24, people create their own worldview. Does going with skinheads mean that everything should be only Black and White, and everything else - under the knife. It is the same as the Taliban! If it is written in the Qur'an - good! If he doesn't write it - then it's bad and he has to kill, slaughter and clean! Find yourself - now is the time. Otherwise you will always listen to what someone tells you! Good luck - I hope you grow up!
Emmy, that's right - limited people collide with their own restrictions, fences, barriers, etc.
The story just smells like fiction. By the way, I once hated gypsies ... but remember what I married ...
that this with skinheads is not the best thing you can do with your life. Nobody makes you like the yokes, but to terrorize them ... Don't you think it's a little extreme? Aren't they also someone's mothers, brothers, sisters, children ...? What if tomorrow a skinner disfigures your mother, how will you feel? If the topic is real of course ... Next
At least one thing you understand - that homosexuals are people like everyone else. That they can be good parents, love, live normally. Now that you know that mother is one of them, will you hate her?
How can you hate someone because of their sexual orientation? This shows that you are a pseudo-man suffering from an inferiority complex, wanting to prove himself not through some qualities, but with his hatred. Regarding the beaten gays and lesbians? !!!! ! If you were at my hand, I would push you so that the world would turn to you. And wipe your snot, and then judge the others. Adora Moderator: Let's not take offense with such labels, so as not to complain later why comments are not published. :))
In my opinion, this event is a sign that you should stop hating gays and lesbians, not that I like them very much, but they are also people, they have the right to life. Of course, their parades are the fruit of someone's sick consciousness and must be sabotaged, but that's not the way ... do I know ... aggression does not lead to anything good, I am convinced from personal experience.
Author, I can't understand this at all, and I even have a little doubt that it's true, but if it really is, it's a nasty thrill. :( And for number 9 I can only say this ... :(
I applaud number 9. Because to marry him - she liked and approved of him. That's my best friend. But no one ever called her a gypsy, because she is brilliant - both mind and radiance :)
Number 16 and I will say it for you once; (I'm sorry that we interfere like this :(
Emmy ... life teaches you, that's all I'll tell you. Imagine the next time you beat a lesbian that she could be your mother. You could beat your own mother, he thought. The rest number 3 said it. The psyche is an interesting thing ...
There is one way you just swallow everything and that's it.
My sister is the opposite. When I caught her with my friend and at home there was a super fun. Seatra took my little fight, but the other one was bleeding profusely. Now he is an example to everyone, then he didn't fix the paint. Think about this author, you already have experience :) Let's cleanse society of these homosexual geeks!
Well, author, what can I tell you? I am (a girl) at 15 and 2, 3 months ago I realized that I was the twist. I didn't quite understand, but I, like you, hated the other people. One night when I was at a party I drank a little more and some friends and I had fun. Meaning we kissed, caressed and other things;). I thought that then I would feel bad ... but alas, I felt very good. I liked it. this story happened in the summer when I was on holiday in Austria I don't have a girlfriend at the moment * I'm already in BG *. And I perceive myself as a normal person .. in the sense I do not want to have a serious relationship .. I have feelings for boys and girls. All I can tell you ... she doesn't hate her mother. this is the biggest mistake you can make !! * 1D *
I am in a similar situation but with my sister and her friend: (They have been living together in London for 3 years but her friend is black. Being a lesbian stunned me but this with the other race was meant to liquidate me. If she comes back here she will I'm crushing it, not to mention that dreadlocks.
Well, if you hesitate, tell your friends to solve the problem with your mother. To be sure, don't tell them what's wrong with you. Not that you'll feel them (there are no feelings in onions), but they won't be afraid to betray them later. You will just see the quality of your work after that.
You certainly didn't like the comments and advice, and you're unlikely to hang around after 9 months ... but still: imagine that one of the homo kicks takes you, condemns you, and makes you lie down effectively. Think what kind of gypsy scaffolds are waiting for you inside, not the thread, but directly with the lining outside, they will turn you around when they understand what an opening you were on the outside!
God, I read the comments and I'm sad .... it can be congested, but we're really stuck ...
What if your mother was unhappy and lonely because she dared not indulge in her sexuality; if he poured himself alcohol from morning to evening to endure loneliness; if because of this she becomes angry and picky with you and others and fires her (for example); if he went mad with nerves or ruined his health to the point of killing himself ... Would you be happier then? You are also different in the eyes of others, but no one has set out to persecute you for it. Can you think of someone who loves you more than her? Accept her as she is and be grateful for her great love and care!
Author, don't listen to them, when you hate, you hate and end. The fact that no one loves you more than your own mother is a fact, but not in your case, she is a lesbian and loves her friend the most, and you are already for her the next man she does not notice! She doesn't care how you feel, what your friends, relatives, neighbors, etc. will say. The lesbian ego has killed in her and that is the most important thing for her. And why is it necessary to demonstrate to you this same-sex sex, which you witness in the evening, even if only by listening to them, as you yourself write. Think about what they want, to show you that same-sex partners are great, that their sex is amazing? To turn you into a newly hatched gay boy who can enjoy boys and live in this house of yours two gay couples? The gay and lesbian community are sick people and they need treatment!
Number 29 I'm a woman and I'm a lesbian. I don't know if we're for treatment, but you certainly are. You and your sick psyche and do not give idiotic advice that his mother wanted to turn him into I do not know what ... But she loved him and the like, on the contrary, the author should be happy that his mother feels happy. To stop eavesdropping on them because it is vile and disgusting and all skinheads with a distorted psyche may have started and be self-satisfied during the time he listens to them!
Well, you become gay too.
If possible, go and live with your father, grandparents. Or when you turn 18, separate into a dormitory. Get away from the skinheads. You don't need a police record. Then they won't hire you with a file.
Be what you are, lesbians and gays need to be eliminated. They are the poisonous grain of our society and it must be eradicated!
You can't put gays and lesbians under one denominator. They are all people. Everyone deserves happiness. Discrimination is for people with limited mental resources, or simply with a distorted view of the world. Don't be homophobic, otherwise you will lose your mother. ;)
Everyone sooner or later gets what they deserve. Now is the time to learn a little tolerance. :)
It is difficult to perceive that someone close is different, but it is perceived. My mother also has such inclinations, ie to be with women, but she managed to make sure that this does not become a public secret, to be known by others. It wasn't easy for me to understand how he could like women like that, but I finally took it for granted and ... so to this day.
I'm a man of ?? age. I accepted homosexuality a long time ago because I understood the reason why there are such people. I don't judge them for what they do to each other as long as it's indoors. But I don't like them demonstrating their sexual orientation in public. I will say for myself that I like to watch two lesbians when they are intimate. I adjust a lot, maybe because I look at two female bodies, especially when they are young girls. How tenderly they kiss and with what pleasure they lick their vaginas. At such a moment, I want to be with them, to allow me to lick them both one after the other. But I don't like gay men, I don't hate them, but I don't see anything beautiful between two men when they fuck. That's why I often watch young lesbian girls in action in porn. They turn me on so much that I have to masturbate when I look at them.
Amy, stop moving in these skinheads and be a little more tolerant. After all, no one chooses to become homo - people are born that way. And what is really bothering you? Look at the Roma, I would support them, because they harass us, steal and grind the state without giving anything in return. Not everyone is like that, but those who are are worth a fight if you catch them stealing.
Hey fool, once you're born, there's no way your mother can be gay. She is bisexual. If bisexuality is disgusting and ugly for men, it is not for women. This is almost normal and many women would indulge in intimacy with a girlfriend. There is nothing more exciting for a man than watching his wife satisfy herself in bed with another woman. You have no right to judge your mother and hold her accountable. And get away from these skinheads, because these are vile and disgusting criminals and you will get to prison one day!
Tip: shoot yourself, a young man in the 21st century with such understandings, I just can't believe it. P. S. Watch American History X
Number 47, what are these double standards? !! One is disgusting and disgusting, the other is arousing? !! The fact that you look at everything from your position does not give you the right to exclude everything else that you do not like and to make generalizations. On the contrary, it is possible that his mother was completely homosexual, but because of homophobic social pressure she pretended to be heterosexual. Although my story sounds like a fiction, I would like to say that I am very surprised that the author's mother allowed her son to have such, to put it mildly, intoxicated thinking.
Number 30, I'm pretty sure you've been content to watch 2 women too. but then it's not a problem, is it? the problem is when someone else does. And still someone else should think your happiness, as if it is our priority. As if you don't think enough of yourself. Female hypocrisy and arrogance have no end. Especially for lesbians. They raise the already high bar in these disciplines even more.