Hi, my name is Pesho at 17, maybe you know me from the other story. I have been abroad for a year with my mother, my brother and her "husband". A month ago I found out that my mother was pregnant. Until a year ago, I lived with my grandparents. My mother never took care of me My mother quarreled with all her relatives quarreled with her aunt because of her "husband" with her uncle .... When I tell her that I want to leave for Bulgaria, she doesn't care about me at all . When Grandma was here abroad, she would pick on her at least. At the moment she is 40 I don't think this is the perfect age to have a child and take care of. My brother and I were raised by our grandparents. My mother left us and went with her "husband" without thinking about where she left us. my brother lived with my great-grandmother and I lived with my grandparents. My father also gave money to watch us. I've always wanted to see what it would be like if you had a father and you were a family, but my father and mother are divorced. I don't think that with the "man" I will keep her for a long time, I think they will leave after a while. He has 3 more children but they live in Bulgaria.
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Friend, I know that you are very hurt by this fact and I really sympathize with you and shave you, but accept it - it's for your own good. Otherwise you will get depressed soon, no matter where you live. There's nothing you can do about it anyway - neither fix your mother nor turn back time.
She has 3 more children, plus you, plus your brother ... if I understood correctly you are 5, and now she is pregnant with the 6th. Dude, there's nothing you can do. Your mother is INVALID! She has lived so irresponsibly all her life and will always continue to do so! What a pity for the baby that will be born, because you and your brother had someone to raise, but who will look after this child? Your grandparents will not be so alive forever and will they have the strength to raise another child? By the time they reach adulthood, how old will they be? So I advise you to get ready from now on and when you turn 18, you move out and don't look back! Not to your mother! Look, you will always love and respect your brother, your grandparents, you can also maintain some contact with your father, even though he has acted super irresponsibly. He saw what your mother was like and just dumped you. E, He gave money well, but you know that a child needs not only money, but care and a lot of love. For your father, the relationship is a bit controversial. However, her mother abandoned her! And if ever one day you can take care of your new half-brother or half-sister. What a pity, life will not be easy for him, with such a mother!
And I advise you to break away from your mother after your 18th birthday. Think about it, you can hear her on the phone, but your mother obviously only considers herself. However, you are now dependent on her. I approve of divorces, normally at 40 with children, but to have a child again, no. Moreover, it is clear from the article that this woman cannot look after children.
Author, the first part of your story was written seven months and sixteen days ago. Then you realized that your mother was pregnant. If seven months ago your mother was in the third or second month, because then it is understood about the pregnancy, she should have already given birth. And you write again that you found out a month ago.
Author, you are launching a new topic, because in the previous one many people older than your age advised you to look positively at the fact that you will have a brother or sister. Yes, but you don't want to hear that. You think your mother is to blame for the divorce and you don't want her new child to be happy with both her parents, much less do you want her to be happy. So do yourself a favor, as well as your brother and baby, and when you turn 18, move out. You are obviously one of the toxic people who poison others with hatred and negativity. And one more thing - you have no idea how funny it is for a 17-year-old pickle to explain when a 40-year-old woman can and should have children. That his sets also invite him what they approve of.