Hello, a boy of 19 writes to you. My story is not very long, but I can always share everything. My mother is extremely bad with me and my sister and especially with my sick grandmother, who had a stroke two months ago. Yesterday, for example, I stood by her, to always help her as much as I could, my sister too. But my mother, as my sister and I are standing in the living room, heard a scream because my grandmother did not want to take her pills because it was difficult for her to go to the toilet. She is on my father's side, that is, he is his mother. When the two quarreled, I tried to reassure my mother to explain to her that she would not achieve anything with shouts, but instead she shouted at me and even insulted me by telling you not to call me such a pedophile. I got angry and slapped her because she said this thing, I broke 3 glasses and said Mom, I hate you, you won't see me anymore, I want to die. Now I have cut veins, but I still feel that I am confused. My grandmother did not want to cause the scandal and I do not blame her for that. I blamed myself, and when I told my sister that I wanted to die, she sat down and we talked and said: Don't, bro, it's not worth it because you want to die, don't make me sad. and I'm fine. I am currently working with my father and we earn much more than we need in 1 month. After that, we went out to calm down and we both cried. Then our father came to talk to her. Talk to us first because we wanted to say what happened. He was very friendly with us. He told us not to pay much attention to my mother. because she usually screams and insults whoever falls on her. How to deal with all this so that my sister and I can be happy. If you also have a problem with your mothers, please write to me. ;(((( Thank you very much ;((((( I blamed myself, and when I told my sister that I wanted to die, she sat down and we talked and said: Don't, bro, it's not worth it because you want to die, don't make me sad. and I'm fine. I am currently working with my father and we earn much more than we need in 1 month. After that, we went out to calm down and we both cried. Then our father came to talk to her. Talk to us first because we wanted to say what happened. He was very friendly with us. He told us not to pay much attention to my mother. because she usually screams and insults whoever falls on her. How to deal with all this so that my sister and I can be happy. If you also have a problem with your mothers, please write to me. ;(((( Thank you very much ;((((( I blamed myself, and when I told my sister that I wanted to die, she sat down and we talked and said: Don't, bro, it's not worth it because you want to die, don't make me sad. and I'm fine. I am currently working with my father and we earn much more than we need in 1 month. After that, we went out to calm down and we both cried. Then our father came to talk to her. Talk to us first because we wanted to say what happened. He was very friendly with us. He told us not to pay much attention to my mother. because she usually screams and insults whoever falls on her. How to deal with all this so that my sister and I can be happy. If you also have a problem with your mothers, please write to me. ;(((( Thank you very much ;((((( and I'm fine. I am currently working with my father and we earn much more than we need in 1 month. After that, we went out to calm down and we both cried. Then our father came to talk to her. Talk to us first because we wanted to say what happened. He was very friendly with us. He told us not to pay much attention to my mother. because she usually screams and insults whoever falls on her. How to deal with all this so that my sister and I can be happy. If you also have a problem with your mothers, please write to me. ;(((( Thank you very much ;((((( and I'm fine. I am currently working with my father and we earn much more than we need in 1 month. After that, we went out to calm down and we both cried. Then our father came to talk to her. Talk to us first because we wanted to say what happened. He was very friendly with us. He told us not to pay much attention to my mother. because she usually screams and insults whoever falls on her. How to deal with all this so that my sister and I can be happy. If you also have a problem with your mothers, please write to me. ;(((( Thank you very much ;((((( to talk to her Talk to us first because we wanted to say what happened He is very friendly with us He told us not to pay much attention to my mother because she usually screams and insults whoever falls to her. How to deal with all this so that my sister and I can be happy. If you also have a problem with your mothers, please write to me. ;(((( Thank you very much ;((((( to talk to her Talk to us first because we wanted to say what happened He is very friendly with us He told us not to pay much attention to my mother because she usually screams and insults whoever falls to her. How to deal with all this so that my sister and I can be happy. If you also have a problem with your mothers, please write to me. ;(((( Thank you very much ;(((((
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In the end, I'm glad that my sister gave me a hand, too. And for my grandmother, I always help her when she's gone.
Man, you'll excuse me, but something in this story can't convince me it's real. 1. Whatever your mother tells you, who the hell are you to slap her? I just don't know how you can think of something like that. Did you buy the cups and plates to break them, where are you? 2. Learn your native language, punctuation, grammar ... What does it mean "I had a heart attack two months ago"? This is not clear to me about your grandmother, who did not want to take her pills because she could not go to the toilet. 3. If you now have cut veins, how do you write so that it is not visible to him? And what kind of a man are you to fix your problems with a "It's over, Mom, I'm going to die, you won't see me again." You're an emo, aren't you? That's how they handle life. 4. What can a 19-year-old boy who has only a secondary education do, because I judge from your fictional story that you take care of your grandmother and don't work? How can you help your father and make so much money, unless you are involved in: a) Prostitution b) Drugs c) Any other illegal activities that do not occur to me at the moment PS I do not know what more can I tell you, boy, find peace with yourself, go for treatment, all the same. Don't bother people with your nonsense.
She's my mother is crazy and my father knows it until we get away with him I'll listen to her fucking nonsense I want to die and that's it
I think you need a psychologist. I know you probably won't pay attention to what I'm saying, and I don't know if you have the opportunity to visit such a specialist, but it really seems to me that if you can't do it alone, this is the best option. From what you have written, I understand that there is not much understanding in your family and you are often under pressure. You can't say it's from your difficult age because you're not in puberty, you're 19 years old. Otherwise, outside of the topic of psychologists, I can tell you that if you can't talk to your mother in a friendly way and clarify things, I think it would really be better not to pay much attention to her. I think it's permissible to call her own son a "fagot" if she really told you. Be strong, be masculine and don't think about dying these years. I know that when one is unhappy one cannot think good things, but still with more effort everything happens. Regarding the comment of №2, I can't help but say - when the knife rested on the bone, it was very clear that it would slap her.
I will talk to the school psychologist number 7, I think things will be fine there
number 7 I want to tell you that my sister is also like psychologists, even though she is younger than me I will understand what she will tell me with her I never argue this is for sure
It is not the job of a 19-year-old to interfere in his mother's relationship with her mother-in-law. Author, you call where you don't care, once you haven't washed your grandmother's ass, after a great need / I don't believe you're nice to him / you don't know what it is without pills. A person with a heart attack either doesn't go to the toilet alone / goes to diapers /, or if he goes to the toilet alone he complains that he can't go, your mother does it for her good, the grandmother is stubborn and you protect her. As a daughter-in-law and mother-in-law, they have had quarrels for a long time, it is normal for your mother to be angry that her son is not on her side, but on the other side, provided that she does not take care of her mother-in-law and the mother-in-law is stubborn. this would not be that. That's why you don't have the right to call in their relationship, if they want to fight, you go out without listening to you. You can't tell me you take care of Grandma, whether you cook for her and change her underwear or wash her, standing next to her holding her hand is not a concern. Because you hit your mother wrong, you should ask for forgiveness and not do it again. At 19 he works, goes out with friends, thinks about higher education. Getting away with your father is very stupid if you are married to him. Watch your life do not interfere in their you are an adult.
Well, how can I not interfere with my mother by interfering in my affairs
If I never ask her forgiveness if she is my sister, if she is more important, if she is my father, I would also ask her forgiveness, but we are a gypsy family.
Most of the time I'm out with people but my sister is always with me I got married 1 and a half years ago when I took a break for a little 11th grade but then I continued to study now and I look after a child my sister is already an aunt
Go to a room with your wife and child, and they will not interfere in your affairs.
number 15, well, what will my child do without his aunt?
You are certainly not right about where you hit your mother ... and when you make so much money, go out to the apartment, I don't know what your problem is. I'll just tell you, don't interfere where you don't have a lot to learn from life. My father was in bed with a stroke and I know what it is, and my mother called for it but I never intervened because I know how many nerves and a healthy psyche a person must have, it is very difficult, I personally changed once and I wanted to scream and I cried a lot, I couldn't stand it, and I kept shouting ...- Maikooo, I don't know how you can stand it, I'm sorry to know, and she's calling me ...- Oh, only I know, it's very difficult. .... So, if you can't bear to live there, go to the Tent
People, the scandal was out of jealousy because I have been a self-confident person for years so I attacked my mother now things are completely different but I no longer live with her
It's been 4 years since the topic. My mother-in-law is gone, my mother has changed too. According to the above comments, they started reading her morals, that I had acted quite badly, but that was because of my father, because he is the son of the mother-in-law. My mother has become a good woman, she already has another man in her life. We are fine with the little one most of the time my wife looks after him. For the above comments to be alive and well. the psychologist did well so that I could live in a dormitory.
To number 2 personally 1st emo to be. 2nd cups I personally bought them 3rd of course I have the right to hit my mother if she insults me or the like but I do not want to do it only if I get drunk or gasp again (my mother's older brother touched her and uncle is an alcoholic) all sorts of things. 4th I am where I want to be. Number 2, where are you calling to tell me who I am? This is my character, this is how I was brought up. if you have any problems, solve them yourself. Greetings to the Author.
In fact, I learned a lesson from that incident, if I had been angry with my mother, if I had hit her, it was because I couldn't help myself and I was drunk and provoked to do so. I pay a high price for what I have done. I would never touch her again. and thanks to number 17 number 17 turned out to be decent. In principle, I do not interfere that it is not my job. Yes, I did it out of jealousy and number 10 is right to some extent Thanks to numbers 10 and 17. I am the author of the story, I pay a high price for my mistakes, but God sees and would punish me one day.