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My Mother Wrote To Him

By moongreen_ August 06, 2020 7 answers Last updated August 06, 2020

I am in love with a boy and very much so. However, my mother does not approve of it because she thinks it was not suitable for me. I had shared about a colleague from the university who was sympathetic to me. He is kind, funny and smart, but I am in love and I want the other. Although I explained this to my mother a hundred times, she found it on her colleague's Facebook profile and added it. Then she wrote to him, asking him how she was. When asked who she was, she answered that she was my mother. He told her that we were not together and if he wanted to ask something, ask him. She replied that she just wanted to look at his photos, so she added that she had nothing to ask because her life was ours. He asked her if she would write to him again. She did not mention what she specifically answered. I love the other. And I told you about it in another topic. I don't want to be with this colleague of mine, but I wonder what he thought and what I should do? What should I tell him? ,, I do not want a relationship with you, but because my mother does not approve of my chosen one, she decided to contact you? ''. She denies that she added it because of that ... I don't know what to say anymore ...

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ursecret7 answered · August 06, 2020

   Haha, I will faint! Aren't you 12, girl? !! Where will you dig in your life like that? My mother and father use computers, my father even has Facebook, but they have never done anything like that. My Skype was online for 5 days, during which they were the only ones sitting at the computer, and not a single message was touched, let alone read. It is absurd for them to pick up my phone, unless they have been warned that it is something important (order or shipment). And for your mother to force someone on you, only a woman with a stubborn grandmother's mind can do that. Arranged connections are long gone ... --- Amazon

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yukomiyamura answered · August 06, 2020

   Your mother is not well! And be careful that you carry her genes ...

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mila_rose84 answered · August 06, 2020

   If he is so anxious to confuse your personal life, do not leave your accounts included, log out of Facebook, Skype, etc. when you are not there.

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herthacole answered · August 06, 2020

   I try to stay away from such women, so attached to their mothers. It is no coincidence that they are unattached and have been sitting like this for a long time. It is abnormal for me for your mother to look at all your photos on Facebook, to comment on them, to rummage through your life. What if you're not 5? Can't you make your own decisions? You have no personal life and everything is open to your mother? Or maybe when you have your first wedding night with your husband, your mother will be there again.

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demian__j answered · August 06, 2020

   God, what is this South American series. Don't let your mother get so confused at all. You are not 15 if you felt threatened or in danger, you would ask for help. And I really hate to be rummaged through my phone or laptop. And we have quarreled so many times with ours that they touch my personal things.

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missmichellejoi answered · August 06, 2020

   She is my mother, I love her. I know that she loves me too and wants the best for me, but I don't like to be so delved into my personal life and I explained to her that this is too much. He said it would not happen again. but she asked this boy if he liked me ... and now he probably thought I made her. and this is not the case. I want nothing more than friendship with him, and I want the other ... How can I get out of this awkward situation? Should I apologize for the awkward situation? by the author

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vanessatop answered · August 07, 2020

   From number 4. Most boys, or rather, already mature men, will not want to have anything to do with you if you share your personal life with your mother. I personally know about 4 women who have their mothers on Facebook. To all of them, their mothers like statuses, post various nonsense to them and look at all the hundreds of photos. In general, their entire personal lives are open to their mothers. None of them are tied and I personally do not want to have much to do with them.