Hello, my neighbors fight and fight every night, I just can't take it anymore. Father, son and father's mother. The son, who is about 30, is constantly drunk in the evenings and at night and can be heard beating his grandmother, but I'm not sure, she screams, screams, quarrels (most of the time the father is gone). When he is there and arguing with him, I hear furniture breaking, I get scared. On Easter, he threw his father on the playground in front of the entrance naked. I wasn't there, but they told me. My heart ached. I don't know how to help these people. I don't know who is to blame for what, but it is unacceptable for this man to beat his grandmother and father. People are poor, that's probably where their problems come from. I am very angry at how miserable people are, prematurely aged, tortured and, above all, abused. The son, not drunk or drugged, behaves well, a normal person, always greets, but if you get drunk it becomes scary. Don't think that you have your nose in other people's business, but I hear their quarrels all the time and I get traumatized, I get very sick.
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Well, you've been watching it all your life and in the end, you're wondering ... There's nothing to do, ..
Police.
Report it to the police.
There is nothing you can do about it and save their family for them. If you call the police, they will understand you the most and they will beat you too.
A son or grandson treats his relatives the way they raised him. 100% of that grandmother you think is suffering at a time when someone jumps to protect her by attacking her grandson, she will jump to protect him.
Call the police the moment you hear him beating his grandmother. The other option is to simply record what you hear and post it on the Internet.
The apartment is most likely owned by the grandmother or the father. They can rightfully kick him out of there and deprive him of his inheritance.
The author: the police will not help, they will come once to fix the situation and that's it. Next time it will be the same again and you can't call the police every night. And since none of the neighbors have called them, I don't want them to be embarrassed if they know how we're going to look after each other. I really know that Grandma has some guilt, but why should they fight and shout. There really seems to be nothing to do.
Democracy took us a lot, but it gave us something else. Now, for example, these people have the privilege of being beaten by a drugged and drunk hooligan. They also have the right to file a complaint with the police. Not that anyone will take action, but they are still free to do so. They can also buy bananas from the store whenever they want, as long as they have money, even though it is not the New Year. Well, they won't have to eat bread for a day or two, but drive. It is important that they are given a unique opportunity to starve as much as they want. Greetings! SMEHURKO
Are you sure there is nothing wrong with reporting to the police? Violations of untalented drivers and others ?? You're calling for the poor to be pushed, aren't you? His father must have been around 60. and can go to file a complaint, who are you? Miss no one. You can't judge someone's actions without knowing the reasons.
Author, I have a similar problem. Our block is panel, very audible. If they speak louder or if they shout, it's like they're in my apartment. The one upstairs is unemployed, drunk in the evening, and my mother and I think there are mental disorders. He often beats his wife and shouts at her every day, which is his "normal" speech. Such a freakish attitude and such insults, and she is his wife .. Just like you I hear furniture breaking, screaming, crying and this at any time of the day, no Friday, no Saturday, it may be 4 in the morning on Wednesday, but he is he swelled the chalga, knocked on purpose and shouted so that we could not sleep either. If he doesn't sleep, no one will. I know what your situation is, it's disgusting, and I suffer from anxiety and restlessness (Anxiety) and every knocking, pounding, swearing, etc. breaks my heart, I get traumatized, I worry, it puts me in a terrible state at all and there's nothing I can do. I haven't called the police, but I know that when you call them to give you a signal, they want your name and address / block, and when they go to him, they will tell someone who gave a signal that you are what ... So be very careful, because you can get in trouble with this freak. It is also very common when the police go to an address because of a signal of domestic violence for the victim to protect the abuser, to say that there is no such thing. So the police will not go to this address for the second time. So be very careful ... because you can get in trouble with this freak. It is also very common when the police go to an address because of a signal of domestic violence for the victim to protect the abuser, to say that there is no such thing. So the police will not go to this address for the second time. So be very careful ... because you can get in trouble with this freak. It is also very common when the police go to an address because of a signal of domestic violence for the victim to protect the abuser, to say that there is no such thing. So the police will not go to this address for the second time. So be very careful ...
10 doesn't pretend to be witty at all! Who is she? And who are they to disturb the peace of others? Once we live in a society with others like ourselves, we must ultimately comply. Even more so by living in an apartment building. He who cannot comply and is shouted at, wants to live in the forest, where there is no one to listen to him.
10 - Dude, the reasons don't matter. Home improvement in Bulgaria is a joke. I've been to other countries and they'll kick you out if you act like that. Alcoholics, drug addicts, shouters, etc., are not tolerated. This is your home and you need to have peace of mind, not some human-like people ruining your mental health and not letting you sleep. They may even kick you out of your own apartment. Yes, he is yours again, but you simply have no right to live there anymore. That's the way it should be here.
Number 11: it's the same with us, only the neighbors are downstairs and the addict is very aggressive, impudent and big and serious confrontations happen. These people are looking for him and don't spit on each other, but what are we to blame. And I haven't slept in 2 years and I'm mentally and physically degraded. I can't believe our laws and our people are so useless. No complaints, no magician. And you can't actually file a complaint as far as I understand, and that's your word against theirs. You have to ring the whole neighborhood to get something.
First, we must think logically and analytically. On the one hand, we have a young man in his 30s who uses alcohol and drugs (allegedly). Second, the person is presumed to be abusive against his probably elderly grandmother, as well as against his father (probably). There are daily scandals. Now, on the other hand, we must be humane. If this person uses alcohol and drugs, then there is an internal problem. There is something that motivates him to take alcohol and drugs, there is internal pain, trauma, etc. n. On the other hand, his behavior is high-risk-beatings, scandals-which can lead to irreparable, fatal consequences, which will be ... His thought is that it should be considered how to get rid of this person from the vicious circle, in which it is entangled, what contribution can you have, but not as neighbors, but as people ..
Find someone with a healthier friend to grab him by the throat and tell me in plain text if he doesn't stop making noise and harassing you, something very bad will happen to him! But to make him shit his coat. This way you will ensure your peace of mind and the beatings will stop. With such this way!