Hello! My mother and father will buy an apartment for my brother and his wife, who will write in his name. I am aware that my parents will not live forever. Since they are gone, my brother will have an entire apartment + half of ours, and I will have half an apartment. Do you think it's fair? I live with them, I'm big, over 20, but I don't have a husband. I don't think I will. I don't date men. Does this mean that it is fair not to have a property. I think that if they buy a new apartment, they should write it to them so that in time we can both have it, or if they write it to me, they should copy the one we live in. If you want to attack me, but put yourself in my place! How do I tell them it's unfair?
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Of course, it's unfair, but you know that the medal has 2 sides. Tomorrow your brother and his wife will watch them both. And sometimes they get your apartment through your ass.
It will be fair for you to buy an apartment, regardless of whether you are married. But that shouldn't stop you from dating men. Why don't you actually date men? Do you allow an option in which you study, work and buy an apartment on your own or an apartment in which you bought an apartment with your husband without relying on mom and dad? Not to mention that there are many stories here about how young people are bought an apartment and then a walk without an invitation, a debt collection, a kneading for each decision begins ...
Studying and working is not an option, but a fact, but you remember how to make money for an apartment in Bulgaria! I don't go out with men, I just decided that this is not for me, there are people who have been single all their lives. And there is no way for them to buy from him and me from a purely financial point of view. I don't think they are people who will tease him and expect to be watched by him. The opposite will happen even sooner. I still live with them. My brother will have children and a wife to look after, and I will be expected to take care of them. I just want them to put themselves in my place.
Your parents do not deprive you of an inheritance, because they are alive and you still have no inheritance. The reality is that everyone can do whatever they want with their property and money. And once they have decided that your brother deserves to give his money to him, it is their problem. What can you do in this case? Well nothing! You just don't make the right move and it's better to keep quiet, because if you come out bad, they can leave a will for the apartment you live in. And if you do not intend to get married, most likely you will be left without children, then your brother or his children will inherit you.
Off as you start ... Your parents are not obliged to buy you apartments. Who knows what your brother will have to give in return. At the age of 20, you are already looking in someone else's bowl and thinking about heritage. Study, work and buy an apartment yourself, at least to know that you don't owe anyone anything. That's always better.
Author, number 4, read carefully. I'll tell you what their logic is. I know this because my wife was in exactly the same situation as you, and we discussed the matter directly at the table with theirs, because we were fed up with vagueness and "secret" contemplations in our presence. Don't even think that you don't have the illusion that your brother will "watch" them. It may seem dumb to us, but for the elderly the topic is very sensitive and is dictated by the fear of death and disease, and this fear becomes very strong after a certain age. Their logic is as follows and I can sign with both hands that this is exactly what they think: "tomorrow our daughter will get married, she will go to someone else's home, to another city, probably when we crash, she will not be with us, but to our son, because he is here and we have bought him an apartment, he will look at us out of a sense of duty and gratitude, After their death, another parody will arise between you about the inheritance and you will remain quarreling, offended and disgusted for many years. I have seen this scenario not only with my wife, but also with many other families. And it's always the same. That's why I'm telling you, I'm betting my head if things don't turn out that way. I hope you don't have to watch yours and leave quickly without much watching, otherwise you will experience hell. Does it make sense to talk to them? I tell you from experience that there isn't. Even if you explain all of the above to them, it's absurd to do it now. They will spin it just when they fall, they see that your brother is giving you a hangover and you are following their ass, if they are crazy while they are sick. But even if they did then, they would hardly be dealing with divisions and the like in the last days of their lives. In general, the being will be beaten, the fucking fuck. But there is another point with you - you do not think you have children and a husband. Ie even if you inherit something, after your death the property will again go into the hands of your brother or his children. So you really just need a right of use, the current home in which you live. If nothing else, at least try to convince them. If you have such a right of use, as long as you live with a cannon, they cannot move from there, nor can they sell it without your consent, nor can they spoil it. You may even want your brother to pay your share and have half of it transferred to him, because this half will be grabbed by your brother after your death or his children anyway, but at least you can take some money for life. But do it only with the right of use. You can even use the amount in question as a down payment for your own home and then pay it off. Whether you pay rent or loan, the same cock, but at least one day the apartment will be yours and neither your brother nor your mother will give you a slope. Otherwise, you still have to comply with yours. And if you don't want your brother to inherit you, make a will in your lifetime and point out who you want. As for the silence, he does not keep silent, but talks to them. Not that it will be useful, but at least they won't have eyes tomorrow to want you to look at them. Or if it happens that you look at them, at least they feel a little guilty and ashamed. Or they may realize their mistake in old age. Not that it will be useful, but at least they won't have eyes tomorrow to want you to look at them. Or if it happens that you look at them, at least they feel a little guilty and ashamed. Or they may realize their mistake in old age. Not that it will be useful, but at least they won't have eyes tomorrow to want you to look at them. Or if it happens that you look at them, at least they feel a little guilty and ashamed. Or they may realize their mistake in old age.
Well, stay with yours if you think it's easier to live with them instead of paying rent or a mortgage. Eventually you will watch them, and when you turn 60 you may inherit something.
A deceased person is inherited. As long as he is alive, everyone has property wasps as he sees fit. From a legal point of view, you will share an apartment, unless yours has decided to leave you the one you are in now, but in this case they have to give it to you after they buy it for your brother, and I think that would level things off. ... Yes, the other doesn't sound fair, but in a moment you are not as necessary as your brother, given that you do not have a family of your own. It would be right to talk to your parents.
Number 8 described things most accurately. Unfortunately. Author, in life people without families and children are the most disadvantaged. You are young, try to build your own life. Don't think about inheritance.
Well, they will buy him an apartment because he has a family. If you find a man and his parents will buy you an apartment. Your parents just want them to be able to live alone, because a lot of people get divorced because they live with some parents who interfere in their lives. I am not interested in inheritances, but I will tell you that life without one's own Family is no life at all. You will only exist. If you really fall in love with a man, don't let him go because of nonsense.
They have certainly prepared a similar gift for your wedding, but these things are not said. You have to think for yourself, something like an incentive for this step in your life. But you are envious and waiting for everything. Do not look into someone else's pitcher, but into your own.
Number 8 advised you very well what to do. And most of the comments on the topic are just chatter, especially those posted after number 8.
How will they prepare for me too. If they weren't millionaires, it was people. If you can buy 2 or more apartments, well done. Obviously we are among the poorer. This will be our property.
15 - I am convinced that they do not prepare such a gift for the author. Money for an apartment is difficult to collect, and if there is such, it is for 1 property. Author, do not be silent. It's not fair, don't let them fuck you like that.
I would not buy an apartment in the name of any of the children, at least because in the event of a divorce, the partner (your brother's wife in your case) will have claims against him. I would buy it either in my own name, and eventually give it away after seeing how things will be, or as a sale, but so that the other party has no right to claim. History knows all sorts of cases. Otherwise, of course, it is unfair to the author, whether she has a family or not, it does not matter, and both are her brother have equal rights. And no one knows what will happen in the future. The best advice is at 8 (ask patilo :-). Sit down and talk openly and calmly about who thinks what and what they want for the future. You will find a solution
My mother and her brother live in the same city and they both have a family. Their parents have an apartment, a house and a building (hotel) in a village, a villa in the Balkans and a plot of land for growing vines. And they attribute all this to her brother. Nothing for my mother. The truth is that their mother has a weakness for her son and that is why he gets everything. This is the truth! My mother did not die for these properties, but she feels as if she is not part of this family.
At 20 - your mother has a reserved part of the inheritance, check in the Inheritance Act / Art. 29 /. It has the right to request a reduction in testamentary dispositions. This is done through a claim or an objection. Consult a lawyer.
21 There is no benefit to a reserved portion if the transcription has taken place with a purchase and sale. The reserved part is valid only for wills.
No one will live forever, not you. The question is why are you so convinced of the matter? How did you get her to question property, inheritance, etc.? How do you know what's what and how it will stay? My father and aunt quarreled for the same reason and have not spoken for 10 years because my aunt was greedy. Here they are, now they are 60. How much life should a person have? My aunt's child is abroad, I am abroad. These apartments will be deserted. What did my father and aunt lose? The connection. Only at the funeral will one see the other. Be careful what you say and how you say it.
Number 8 beautifully described the situation. However, the author totally excludes the possibility to achieve what she wants - to have her own home. Yes, working in Bulgaria is difficult, but a lot depends on the job. I bought a small apartment myself, but I don't live in it at the moment. True, my income is well above average, but it was not like that 5-6 years ago. With perseverance and constant development I managed to increase my income many times over. And if it doesn't happen in Bulgaria - how many people go abroad and save for an apartment in a few years? You will be neither the first nor the last. If that's really the problem ... At 20, it's more like jealousy and envy for your brother because he has a family and because his parents gave him an apartment. At least that's what it looks like to me. I will allow myself to give you some advice. If you want to be successful in life, don't look in someone else's bowl, and try to achieve things on your own. That way, no one will have the right to make demands on you. I don't know your parents and I can't know the specific reason for their decision, but I don't think they hurt you. Once you live with them, if they have a roof over your head, you can hardly stay hungry. They obviously care about you. Right? :) For your brother the care is in another form - whether they are his apartment. But they don't cook for him, etc. And whether or not you will go out with men is your choice. ) For your brother, the care is in another form - whether they are his apartment. But they don't cook for him, etc. And whether or not you will date men is your choice. ) For your brother, the care is in another form - whether they are his apartment. But they don't cook for him, etc. And whether or not you will go out with men is your choice.
Listen to number 24 - and I did - from an internship for no money for 5 years I started to take much above average and do not rely on my parents, nor do I live with them. I bought an apartment, which I pay for - it is not impossible at all, as long as you have the desire. If you have no desire, there is an excuse, and you are waiting with an open pinch of yours. It's really better to do things alone. Gifts of the kind especially come with obligations. As you grow older, you will see what will happen to your brother. Better indebted to the bank than to relatives.
8, good analysis, but you took something very seriously the idea of a 20-year-old girl that she will not get married, or at least have children ... At 30 I will tick the biological clock, and I will be surprised if she is left without a child, and yes is like that - out of stupidity. In my opinion, then hers will feel that they will transfer the apartment to her, because of her grandson. But she will be very diligent, at last, and when they see her, she is left alone and will not run away with anyone. And to the author, you panic a lot, and these are things you have no control over. The fact is, you are now at a disadvantage because you do not have a child and these things that you will die alone if you tell them to them ... They value your brother more now, because he is their hope for the continuation of the family. When a person passes a certain age and faces death, he begins to think 2 things - 1) who will look after him, 2) who will give him grandchildren, to make sense of his own life efforts. I'm also a loner, but real, I haven't been in my 20s for a long time ... And I just see how they look at me ... with such disappointment and a faint hope that I can "get better". If I had a sibling who is "normal", I just see how I would openly become a second category. And that will actually be your bigger problem. At some point you will want to leave on your own, because if you are really serious about being alone - you will be crushed mentally, even involuntarily, just such is human nature ... I just see how I would become openly second category. And that will actually be your bigger problem. At some point you will want to leave on your own, because if you are really serious about being alone - you will be crushed mentally, even involuntarily, just such is human nature ... I just see how I would become openly second category. And that will actually be your bigger problem. At some point you will want to leave on your own, because if you are really serious about being alone - you will be crushed mentally, even involuntarily, just such is human nature ...
26 "then hers will feel transferred to the apartment because of the grandson" You are very naive. You didn't have that kind of relationship with your parents, did you?
27, 26 writes that there are no brothers and sisters, how can there be such a relationship? Of course, he only commented on the part who is alone and has no children
Why do you attack the author for being greedy, etc.? As much as her brother is a child of her parents, so is she! The fact that they will buy a house for her brother is not a bad thing and she is not angry about it, she just wants her to have something safe. Once you have 2 children you need both! If they do not transfer the family home to her and it remains to be divided between her and her brother, what will happen? Half an apartment on it and an apartment and a half on it? !! How can you say it's fair? You also say to buy it yourself ... And why don't his brother and his wife buy it themselves then? !! Abe, do you have any idea how much an apartment costs? One salary is not enough for food, and you are talking about buying a home.
29 I do not see an attack, there is just the truth in my eyes. A person has rights over inheritance only if there is a deceased, NO ONE has rights over gifts. And even if they have two children, they are not obliged to give them the same gifts. Do we have an idea how much an apartment costs, but we do. We also have the information that the author's parents managed to buy two apartments, so it is not so unattainable. Her parents aren't on alien salaries, are they?
And I find it unfair. Talk to them calmly on the subject and ask them if they intend to leave you this apartment. And keep the information that you will not have a husband and family for yourself. This is not their job and can set them against you.
You are right, author ... Since they will buy a house for one child, what will they do for the other to make things equal? I just hope they are not from those parents who pass everything on to the son, and the girl-dogs ate it, she will find a man with a home .... There are still people with such understandings. They can transfer what you live in now to you, and they can remain as users in it. They will probably hope that one day their daughter will look after them. I do not believe they prefer the daughter-in-law and the son. This, of course, if you agree. But these things need to be talked about and clarified now and known. And then make a deal with a notary. And not so that one day your brother has a share of the apartment without moving a finger to take care of his parents .... I watched this movie. (My mother has two brothers, but only she took care of her parents as they got older ... and then the house and her two brothers had claims) Besides, they have already said above. If you buy an apartment for your brother and he is married to his wife, the property becomes half hers, because it was acquired during the marriage. And if they divorce, she becomes the owner of the half. Are your parents OK with this? I hope your parents are sensible and even buy something in their name at least for the first time, and one day pass it on to him. And for you to keep the current home .... However, this does not exclude the possibility of buying something of your own somewhere and having a family. You are still very young, only 20 years old. because it was acquired during the marriage. And if they divorce, she becomes the owner of the half. Are your parents OK with this? I hope your parents are sensible and even buy something in their name at least for the first time, and one day pass it on to him. And for you to keep the current home .... However, this does not exclude the possibility of buying something of your own somewhere and having a family. You are still very young, only 20 years old. because it was acquired during the marriage. And if they divorce, she becomes the owner of the half. Are your parents OK with this? I hope your parents are sensible and even buy something in their name at least for the first time, and one day pass it on to him. And for you to keep the current home .... However, this does not exclude the possibility of buying something of your own somewhere and having a family. You are still very young, only 20 years old.
Look, author ... It's not fair, but nobody says life should be fair. At just 20, you may not have faced reality yet. And the reality, as nasty as it sounds, is that no one owes you. There are people to whom the parents for one reason or another (including because they do not) have left them nothing. There are people who, from the age of 18 or even 16, are "kicked" to take care of themselves. And they are recovering successfully. Sit on your ass and stop waiting for yours - to build your life is your task, not theirs.
How many other topics were there again on the subject of heritage. What kind of heritage are you looking for in living parents? !! Most likely, they will transfer their apartment to your name, reserving the right to users. I am surprised by something else. Why are so many young people waiting for this legacy instead of working hard to buy property themselves.