Hello everyone ... You may have read a lot of stories like mine, but I just need to share it with someone. I am a girl from Plovdiv who has dedicated her life to two things - science and love ... The first to some extent I am starting to achieve it little by little and I am happy with the results. The second, not so much. But, maybe ... I don't know what to think anymore. A few months ago I met a man. At first glance, this is not what most women expect from him. In the sense that he is not the muscular man next door and is not a handsome first class. But when a person is honest, open and good at heart, it is written on his appearance. He was one of those humble boys, with beautiful smiles and deep and sincere eyes. He was intelligent (for me the most important quality in a person) and polite. We started keeping in touch with the internet and I gradually became attached to it. When I wrote to him, I forgot everything and everyone, and all my attention was focused on him. We spent hours in front of computers laughing, telling stories or just talking nonsense. Although we lived only 5 minutes away from each other, we did not dare to see each other again. Many times I thought about inviting him to go out for coffee, a movie or something. Summer came and I regretted my hesitation. In the summer we all travel back and forth. Some go to the sea, others to the Balkans, others to the countryside. I showed the necessary patience. First he was in Sofia for some job interviews, and then for the Metallica concert. He returned for a day and then left again for Sofia. As soon as he came to Plovdiv, he left for the village the next day. 2 weeks. He came back from the village and told us, our bone from him 1 month - the Balkans. He just wrote me a few CMCs and that was ... I waited for him to come back ... Did I have a choice When he finally came back I saw him ... I was very happy for him and I didn't want to let him go ... The next night we saw each other again, but for 20 minutes, because he was asleep and forgot that we were going out. "After I get rid of the company, I'll see you" .. He was released at 01.00 am .. Well, no matter how much I wanted to wait so long, I didn't want to ... The summer season is over and I was hoping now, when there is nowhere to go (or so I thought) that we will have more time for each other. Emmy, I texted him at least 20 times - and see you, he's still busy .. It's all good, but I ran out of patience and I got angry .. In my anger I deleted all the phone numbers and all the phone connections with him ... Now I feel helpless because I can't even check if he's alive, as they say ... A few days ago I found him on Skype and he just totally ruined me! "I won't be here until the end of the month and maybe even after that. So what happens that we can't see each other at all. I travel a lot MAY" MAY ?? Well, I'm overwhelmed .. At the same time I'm angry and I'm super sad ... I feel like roaring with my whole throat and I have the feeling that my world is too small to vent my anger .. I don't know what to think anymore .. I have enough patience to wait for him if I need another 2 years, but I don't know if it's worth suffering .. All this causes me a lot of pain .. Is there anyone who read me the novel and can advise me something .. ... I won't be here until the end of the month and maybe after that. What happens is that we can't see each other at all. I travel a lot MAY "MAY ?? Well, I'm overwhelmed .. At the same time I'm angry and I'm super sad ... I feel like roaring with my whole throat and I have the feeling that my world is too small to vent my anger .. I don't know what to do I already think .. I have enough patience to wait for it if I need 2 more years, but I don't know if it's worth suffering .. All this causes me a lot of pain .. Is there anyone who read my novel and can advise me something .. ... I won't be here until the end of the month and maybe after that. What happens is that we can't see each other at all. I travel a lot MAY "MAY ?? Well, I'm overwhelmed .. At the same time I'm angry and I'm super sad ... I feel like roaring with my whole throat and I have the feeling that my world is too small to vent my anger .. I don't know what to do I already think .. I have enough patience to wait for it if I need 2 more years, but I don't know if it's worth suffering .. All this causes me a lot of pain .. Is there anyone who read my novel and can advise me something .. ...
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Does he know about your feelings? If he doesn't know, let him know! It's normal to have more important things than you, since you haven't told him you want something more with him. And if he knows, and yet he disappears from the horizon and behaves like that, forget about him! Good luck and write what happened!
I don't know, I'm from Plovdiv too! DON'T HE BE 24 AND A LION !!! It's the same! Drop it - just nerves!
From the author: to 1: I guess after everything I've done + a few kisses, he should already know, unless it's some super stupid piece, and he definitely isn't. To 2: No. he is not 24 and he is not a lion. :)
If you kissed (I guess not on the cheek), then he should know that you are in love with him. And yet there is no time for you - he just obviously does not want to find. His disinterested behavior can be justified only if he is not sure of your feelings, and if there is a chance it is so - you can tell him directly, even if he cuts you, you lose nothing, at least you will know that it is not worth suffering for him. However, if he understands what you are feeling and avoids you, just forget it. Someone else will want to carry you in their arms, you should not suffer for the one who does not give 5 money for you! Good luck, sweet girl!
Chick, he just doesn't like you, he's not in love, forget him, don't waste his time. If he fell in love, he would want you to be together all the time. Believe me, I am an experienced woman. Don't suffer and write such long letters here, I didn't read the whole thing because it's annoying. I took out only the essence. Success!
I also read it all and I was not bored! But he's really not in love once you've shown him interest, and he avoids you. Forget it, it's not worth it!
I'm a boy of 21. Don't listen to those who tell you that what you share is annoying. Not so at all. I read it all. We men are sometimes quite distracted ... my advice is to speak in plain text with him. You will not lose anything ... you can only win. If she doesn't respond to your feelings, this is not the end of the world ... from what you have written, I think you are a very nice girl and many men would be infinitely happy if they had your attention. I wish you success !!!