Hello, I am a boy (heterosexual) 24 years old from Sofia. I have a girlfriend. I was evicted from the dormitory and had to find a place to live. I found one, but it was expensive and I had to share it with someone. A boy of 22 was found. The boy allegedly has a girlfriend, but he constantly takes me down and sends me naked photos. He catches me on the phone and constantly hints at me. I explained to him that I was not gay, and he increased his interest in me. It's getting worse. I do not know what to do. I don't want to beat him, he's still my roommate and I can't pay the rent myself. What should I do?
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Minimize contact with him. Apparently you're writing somewhere to send you these photos. Block him everywhere, obviously that's the only way he'll know to stop bothering. Why don't you think about living with your girlfriend? At 24, you are no longer a boy, but a man, and it is time for a more serious step. Next time, invite her instead of some dubious guys.
I understand that you are not gay, but just do it, so you will rediscover unsuspected passions in yourself, which you can always share with him and other boys. Today it is old-fashioned to pull like that, even if you are not the opposite, you have to pretend to be like that, otherwise you are a blown can from the last century.
Give it to me, wondering, what do you expect us to tell you here? One of the most unpleasant things for me was to press different races. You tell him you're not into these things and you'll break his pitcher if he continues, if he continues you actually kick his ass or just get out of there.
Tell his girlfriend, his parents and your mutual acquaintances. If he does not understand good, then he will understand bad. This is harassment from everywhere.
№2 - the author is not gay, but I think you are. Better a poor horse than no horse at all.
Number 2, times are changing, and in Germany these things started to become normal 100 years ago, but by 1933 things turned around, so let's not rush to turn this century into a subhuman / pedal.