Please write to me mothers who have gone my way and have more experience on this topic. I am a 28-year-old woman. I'm broad-minded, but I didn't expect him to start doing it so early. In principle, my son and I communicate freely on such topics. I'm divorced ... and I don't have a man next to me to talk to about it.
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It's really not normal, but it doesn't surprise me :) Did you know that these teenagers have already changed the laws of this planet? It is now considered normal: At the age of 10 at puberty, at 13 adolescents and at 16 ready to start a family. JUST THAT IT IS NOT NORMAL! I don't know where this generation is going ... Children, read what I have written and hopefully someone will come to their senses.
It's not possible, maybe he's playing with her like all boys this age.
Holy Mother of God, have mercy on us, sinners .. I am also a boy, I am 17, I "pet the tiger" 4 times a day .. But when I was 8 .. I had no idea that my little friend could used for something other than urination .. God, God ..
I am a girl of 15. I also started at this age (or 1-2 years old). But I didn't know what I was doing at first, I even thought it was "wrong" and I asked God to forgive me: D: D Anyway ... It may not be my place to comment, but I think you just have to keep going. to communicate in the same way, however, is not abnormal, and everyone does it / or will do it /. I don't even see where the problem is?
By the way number 4 I have the feeling that I wrote this comment and I think it's wrong !!! OMG, I just can't believe it and it was the same for me !! By the way, I started at the age of 9 and now I have nothing wrong !! Don't bother with the writer !!! Diana
It's possible, of course, that I went online and found that boys can have an orgasm, no matter how old they are. The difference was that they didn't ejaculate ... because their testicles hadn't fully developed yet. He and the little one mentioned it. He just did it the first time by accident, and he was surprised by what he felt. Then he repeated and so ....
It's early, but as soon as it happens, let the boy not be so overwhelmed. Gradually the years will go down. I don't see anything exceptional. I'm a man.
And so I have been masturbating for as long as I can remember. They were still reading me stories. It was very nice, but I felt it was a shame because I was hiding. These are normal things. And masturbation is the regulation of sexual function.
completely normal. and mine and the sons of acquaintances about the same age begin. now children are developing faster.
Oh! It is normal to masturbate at this age, calm down! I even started at 5. Calm down for God's sake, he didn't do anything wrong.
Number 6 is right. It's perfectly normal. When you don't have a man by your side, take and read some medical literature and educate the boy, don't instill in him a false sense of guilt and don't wait for false moralists and all-rounders on the net to give you a reason. You take the book on sexual culture and educate yourself so that you can't harass your boy for life.
I started when I was 3
Hmm, abe to all mothers - how did you find out that your sons do it when they haven't shared it with you ???
It is obvious that the last few comments were written by children. : D
I was still in kindergarten when the girl next door in fourth grade with her friend called me and touched my dick and I their pimples between my legs. I liked this game and tried it myself at home. It worked and the khakis often called me to play this way. It's not scary for your son. Let me give myself this pleasure. You must have been doing it yourself since you were a child, and you continue to do so. By the way, a year ago I met one of those girls who is already 50 years old. and we had great sex)))
Hello, I am a woman ... my son also does it more or less from this age. There's no reason to worry, I just told him not to overdo it with porn because then when he has a girlfriend he may have erection problems .... that's it.
It's normal .. There's no age for that (well, years like 3-6 don't seem normal to me ..), and I don't think there's anything wrong.
I apologize, but when I was 8 I had no idea of such things. The open boys started to get curious after the 5th grade, and others later.
Author, don't be fooled. My son is 15 when he was 8 there was such a period of more detailed knowledge of his gender. Boys at 3-5 find that they are different from girls, then at 7-9 they look to see exactly what the difference is, there is even a possibility that they will undress with a girl to look at what they have in their panties, to play with their member and so on, now the feeling is interesting will pass in a month or two. You will talk about real masturbation only after the age of 13-14 when it starts with ejaculation. You have no idea, I bought him a box of baby disposable towels because he wiped himself in our towels and hid them under his bed, it's a shock to find on Saturday by cleaning 5-6 towels under the bed in the nursery smelling and dry / hardened. What else awaits us "single" mothers ???
2O, Thanks for your comment. BUT you're not right to some extent. He masturbates like the big boys do. Speaking in his vernacular, he makes h ... ya. The difference is that he has not emptied yet because he is small and his umbilical testicles have not developed. He gets an orgasm ... So his masturbation is real, not child's play with his dick.
I have a girl, I found out that she masturbates at about 6 years of age - she was still going to kindergarten, someone had shown her, then she showed someone, the mother ran to me - mine taught her "dirt" ... I blushed there, then I talked to child psychologist, because I understand, I read he does it at every opportunity ... even in kindergarten while they put them to bed for lunch ... Well, the psychologist said that it is normal and that it will be regulated over time. It's been 3-4 years since then, I haven't noticed her lately and I think she probably does it quite rarely ... That it was 3-4 times a day then. Well, doing it from time to time is not something wrong. Calm down, moms and dads, everything is fine. The children have nothing and don't moan and moan so pathetically ... They are developing faster than us, that's just the situation. There is a very intense flow of information around them ... a dynamic life .... Accept it. Of course, talk, discuss and hygiene of these things. not to be the hand of the duck on the table ...
This is called child masturbation, now is the time for the child to understand that it is not right to do so. Then, when he grows up, he will do it out of purely physiological need, but then things are completely different.
23, and why shouldn't he do it? Dear parents - do not harm your children with various stories and nonsense that masturbation was harmful, irregular, etc. Self-educate and sexually educate your children - masturbation is USEFUL for both girls and boys. At least it prevents early sexual intercourse and the risks of pregnancy and disease. In the countries where the topic is freely spoken - Scandinavia, Germany, Benelux ... there is a much lower percentage of abortions and unwanted pregnancies among young people, and sexual life begins later (after 15). In countries like the United States and Russia, as well as in our country, where the topic is taboo, there is no basic sexual culture, we reap the benefits - whole classes infected with syphilis and gonorrhea, mass abortions and unwanted pregnancies. First, do not instill in your child a sense of guilt for a completely human and useful thing like masturbation, second - educate them on sexuality - unwanted pregnancies and diseases. The boys inclusive. Fill in the gaps in our education system and society, especially when your child is trusted. If you tell him now that he should not masturbate, that his dick would wear out, that he would go blind and such nonsense, you will lose the child's trust. It's not easy, he will find the information on the Internet and in the books, he will continue to masturbate and it will be nice, but I will never share anything intimate with you. Starting with phimosis in boys, during pregnancy of the girlfriend, urological, gynecological problems, sexually transmitted diseases. From now on, your child will be able to handle himself and will be informed from the street. Decide - either you are telling the truth now, or tomorrow you will reap the fruits of your limitations and false morals. Just tell the truth - cigarettes are harmful, masturbation is NOT. If you forbid something - let it be cigarettes, alcohol and drugs, not the human and useful. It was wrong, nonsense! It's not right to have sex at 12 and get pregnant and carry thongs at home, but to masturbate at that age, and even before that, is perfectly fine.
Why is it not right, some start earlier, others later. When did you start, share! Or you are one of those women who do not admit that they do. I am a woman ... and I fully share the last opinion of 24. I have been masturbating since I was very young ... and I am a normal, healthy and passionate woman.
Teach him to just do it in private, otherwise there is nothing wrong. I've been doing it since I was 5 years old.
He does it in private. He just told me about it because it's a new feeling for him.
It is normal at this age to be interested in your body and how it works, to touch and even touch your peers. Is there semen? If there is semen, you can consult a doctor for hormonal tests, because it is quite unusual for boys to develop so early. If there is no semen, you have nothing to worry about and I recommend you read some literature on sexual development in boys. For example, "Man and woman intimately".
Calm down, all healthy boys do it. It's normal, age doesn't matter. You have nothing to worry about, and my son started around this age ... I would worry more ... if he doesn't do it :) :) :) So everything is fine. :)
Dear women, it is good that you know a lot and a man cannot talk to you, but you are making a huge mistake, and that is that you do not distinguish between male and female masturbation. There is no way to know what a man feels when he is self-satisfied, so do not make comparisons. Your reassurances to your mother are unfounded because the comparison you make with yourself is invalid. The woman's goal is to experience the peak of pleasure, ie orgasm, as quickly and as long as possible, because the prolonged long fucking without pleasure was sometimes contrary to the woman (so the experts write), you say. And in men, the goal is to prolong the erection as long as possible and to delay ejaculation as much as possible. Masturbating is not bad or harmful (as long as it is not overdone), and a woman can do it indefinitely without any consequences for her behavior in the future, but not so with men. Sexual intercourse includes the time of foreplay (which should not be small) and sexual intercourse itself. In masturbation, foreplay is eliminated, and the cane is polished directly (sorry for the comparison), especially if you are watching porn at the moment. Unnoticed, the time until the eruption of the volcano begins to shorten and if this continues for a long time in the years, there is a risk of a moment when it will be difficult to control the time of ejaculation (and this is the most unpleasant for one man). The sensitivity of the male genitalia increases and becomes difficult to control. This is the biggest risk that can bring trouble, and then it is very difficult to eliminate this acquired habit. Women must have experienced this male flaw. So try to dissipate the energy of your boys in sports and other activities, direct them to a hobby. But whatever you do will be a difficult task, times have become such, and these computers have completely confused them, this is progress. It is not bad to consult a child psychologist, it will not harm you, the child is not for treatment, but needs the right approach.
It's really normal. Let the boy do it. And didn't the author masturbate as a child and they didn't want to do it? Everyone does it to the last breath)))
On 8? !! .. he's even late: P it's not scary!
Who thinks it is normal to find Dr. Tikhammer Toth's book "Pure Youth". It is old, but quite current. Then we will talk about what is right and what is wrong. I am a man, and if I had read it years ago, I would have avoided this fornication, which the Bible says is SIN, brothers and sisters.
Don't worry so much, I started what to say even earlier than him. I started as early as kindergarten and I'm fine with nothing.
Calm down. I remember that when I was in the first grade, ie at the age of 7, my dick got up and I masturbated. Of course it had no effect, but it was interesting to me. People, when will you know that these things are normal. There is nothing scary or abnormal. Apparently, this is a period of their puberty ... I know. I'm not a psychologist.
I have a 4 year old sister and she started .... she says .., "I touch my chicken '': D axaxax ... whether to laugh .. whether to cry .. I don't know
This is not good for this age! There will probably be problems when he grows up ...
I have been masturbating since I was 5 years old. Of course, I didn't know what I was doing then. I later realized that I had been playing with my piss and enjoying it. Without having ejaculation, as this is impossible until 12-13 years. It's perfectly normal. It's just that your son is obviously a very alert child and he understood early on (from the Internet in all probability) what this is called. I am 24 and I do not have any sexual problems and I have a regular sex life. And for the unfortunate person who promotes sectarian literature - when will you, the religious, understand that sex is something normal and beautiful ????
Calm down and I started from 8-9, I always thought only of women from an early age. At the moment I'm cool, I don't worry about women, I feel like a normal man. Don't worry about your son, but you as a mother should say that it's not good to do such things at this age and the other thing - do not talk too freely with him on such topics. These are topics he should talk to his friends when he grows up, but know that if he has a question he can ask you. This does not mean talking about it constantly and being broad-minded, because it can be worse. If a man is too "modern" a parent risks men becoming gay. Separately, I see that you do not have a man - never try to infuse his head with women's advice, he is a man, one day he will have a family, raise him as such and impose discipline. I tell you from experience.
Dear lady. I am a boy of 19 years old but my first masturbation was when I was only 11 and it happened to me to have such conversations with my mother but she did not know then that I do it as much as I could and I was worried about the conversation when I was 14 and I read in a book about the puberty of boys there it writes about masturbation. and I fully understand you
I personally do not remember when I masturbated, but it is quite small, I did it not by grabbing it, but by rubbing on the bed or putting a pillow under me, only in 9th grade I started to hold it by hand, of course as a child I did not I knew what I was doing, and I was very ashamed to admit it. I remember that my masturbations became more frequent after the 4th grade, ie after the age of 10, and more precisely when I went to sea for the first time then with my aunt, her friend and my cousin. The four of us slept in the same apartment, but I fell with my aunt's friend in a bedroom next to bed, the first day we arrived there I was aroused by Aunt Sonia, my aunt's friend on the beach was a tall big woman, but not fat. quite tight with a big ass and big breasts, she wore swimsuit-type thongs in light blue color, but he would let me not call anyone, he locked the room, he said, come and punch me like you were in thongs, he told me not to take them off, just to rub between my cheeks, I didn't take off my swimsuit and I started as if I hadn't seen back 5 minutes somewhere and I was relieved, the procedure was repeated after each beach 5 days, and so instead of rubbing in bed I rubbed in Aunt Sonia, the last day she tried to grab it with her hand, but I pulled away I was more pleased rubbing, when I came home I kept rubbing on the bed, but Aunt Sonia was not there, she lives in Greece, and only in 9th grade I started hand masturbation, now I am completely normal with a friend, from whom I am expecting a baby !!! Whether you are a girl or a boy, everyone is looking for sexual relief, which starts from the earliest childhood and lasts a lifetime !!! he locked the room, he said, come and inflate me like you were in thongs, he told me not to take them off, just to rub between my cheeks, I didn't take off my swimsuit and I started not seeing back and forth 5 minutes somewhere and I was relieved, the procedure was repeated after each beach 5 days, and so instead of rubbing in bed I rubbed in Aunt Sonia, the last day she tried to grab it with her hand, but I pulled away, I was more comfortable rubbing, when I came home I continued to rub on the bed, but Aunt Sonia was not there, she lives in Greece, and only in 9th grade I started masturbating with my hand, now I am completely normal with a friend, from whom I am expecting a baby !!! Whether you are a girl or a boy, everyone is looking for sexual relief, which starts from the earliest childhood and lasts a lifetime !!! he locked the room, he said, come and inflate me like you were in thongs, he told me not to take them off, just to rub between my cheeks, I didn't take off my swimsuit and I started not seeing back and forth 5 minutes somewhere and I was relieved, the procedure was repeated after each beach 5 days, and so instead of rubbing in bed I rubbed in Aunt Sonia, the last day she tried to grab it with her hand, but I pulled away, I was more comfortable rubbing, when I came home I continued to rub on the bed, but Aunt Sonia was not there, she lives in Greece, and only in 9th grade I started masturbating with my hand, now I am completely normal with a friend, from whom I am expecting a baby !!! Whether you are a girl or a boy, everyone is looking for sexual relief, which starts from the earliest childhood and lasts a lifetime !!! she told me not to take them off and just rubbed between her cheeks, I didn't take off my swimsuit and I started not seeing back and forth for 5 minutes somewhere and I was relieved, the procedure was repeated after each beach for 5 days, and so instead of rubbing in I rubbed the bed in Aunt Sonia, the last day she tried to hold it with her hand, but I pulled away, I enjoyed rubbing, when I came home I continued to rub on the bed, but Aunt Sonia was not there, she lives in Greece, and only in 9th grade I started hand masturbation, now I am completely normal with a friend, from whom I am expecting a baby !!! Whether you are a girl or a boy, everyone is looking for sexual relief, which starts from the earliest childhood and lasts a lifetime !!! she told me not to take them off and just rubbed between her cheeks, I didn't take off my swimsuit and I started not seeing back and forth for 5 minutes somewhere and I was relieved, the procedure was repeated after each beach for 5 days, and so instead of rubbing in I rubbed the bed in Aunt Sonia, the last day she tried to hold it with her hand, but I pulled away, I enjoyed rubbing, when I came home I continued to rub on the bed, but Aunt Sonia was not there, she lives in Greece, and only in 9th grade I started masturbating with my hand, now I am completely normal with a friend, from whom I am expecting a baby !!! Whether you are a girl or a boy, everyone is looking for sexual relief, which starts from the earliest childhood and lasts a lifetime !!! the procedure was repeated after each beach for 5 days, so instead of rubbing in bed I rubbed in Aunt Sonia, the last day she tried to grab it with her hand, but I pulled away, I enjoyed rubbing, when I came home I continued to I rubbed on the bed, but Aunt Sonia was not there, she lives in Greece, and only in 9th grade I started masturbating with my hand, now I am completely normal with a friend, from whom I am expecting a baby !!! Whether you are a girl or a boy, everyone is looking for sexual relief, which starts from the earliest childhood and lasts a lifetime !!! the procedure was repeated after each beach for 5 days, so instead of rubbing in bed I rubbed in Aunt Sonia, the last day she tried to grab it with her hand, but I pulled away, I enjoyed rubbing, when I came home I continued to I rubbed on the bed, but Aunt Sonia was not there, she lives in Greece, and only in 9th grade I started masturbating with my hand, now I am completely normal with a friend, from whom I am expecting a baby !!! Whether you are a girl or a boy, everyone is looking for sexual relief, which starts from the earliest childhood and lasts a lifetime !!! now I am completely normal with a friend from whom I am expecting a baby !!! Whether you are a girl or a boy, everyone is looking for sexual relief, which starts from the earliest childhood and lasts a lifetime !!! now I am completely normal with a friend from whom I am expecting a baby !!! Whether you are a girl or a boy, everyone is looking for sexual relief, which starts from the earliest childhood and lasts a lifetime !!!
The N42 should have let her hold it in her hand. He would teach you many things even then. I was even younger when the neighbor was 8 years old. older than me and I was only in first grade, made me show it to myself and started to touch it. My penis popped and I was very nice. Then he made me move her breasts. I was curious and I started to touch her between my legs. I knew girls didn't have dicks like us, but I wanted to look at her. For the first time, she only allowed me to touch her through her underwear, directing me exactly where to rub. He had his eyes closed and was breathing hard. I didn't know what was going on, but I felt she liked it. Next time he let me look at her legs. Almost nothing was visible because there was a lot of hair. Since then, I like women to be hairy and not shaved. He showed me the pimple, which he called the clitoris and that I should caress and rub it. I caressed her, she wrote to me. So we played a few times as she said. I missed them a lot when they moved to another city. Then I started to touch it myself. So, you missed a lot that you didn't let him catch you. You could have done the sowing back then, because she was a mature woman.
And I doubted for the little one that he had already started, but as of today I am sure. He is 8 and a half years old and 2-3 weeks ago it seemed to me that he was shining under the covers. I asked him what he was doing, he showed me with his hand that he was patting his stomach. Then, a few times when I happened to enter his room, I surprised him by looking at his dick. A month earlier, something had swelled on the underside, and he said he had been hit, that they had written some ointment on him. I told him that if he rubbed his churka he would swell again. I already think the swelling was from the polish. An hour ago, when I entered, he was lying down and polishing her, as all men do. I pretended not to see, and he immediately pulled off his pants. I'm surprised because I started shining when I was 7th grade. Before that, I struggled, moved, but not as purposefully as him. I'm just shocked. especially if it turns out that there is semen. Tonight, he's going to take a bath, and as much as I don't like it, I'll look at his underwear. However, I calmed down a bit as I read what was written above.
This topic shocks me ... not because the child masturbates at 8, but because his mother does not know what to do. And now the last comment ... Not that anything, but isn't that a little silly ... to judge for yourself. Well obviously you have different needs, though. Yesterday I just came across an article that children masturbated from very different ages and it was not as strange as everyone thinks. I don't remember when I started, but it was also a long time ago. If you are such a worried parent, why not go to a sexologist and ask him the question, and not collect "grandmother's medicine" from many who understand the Internet. Girl, 16
Calm down, there can be no semen at 8. I just have a dry orgasm, I also had one as a child.
Yes, it's normal, my son is 10 and he told me that 1 year ago he started masturbating, so mine does too!
There are things you can share here and you don't have to go to a sexologist. What would he say different from what he wrote above. Or will he prescribe treatment? The question is strictly intimate because it concerns our children. I can't share this with friends or teachers, because I don't know how they would look at it and what they would say about it.
my sister is the same ttt now she is 8 and when she gets nervous she touches it everywhere I and I have been doing it since she was a child she calls I touch my kitten
The topic is old, but curious ... Calm down, there is no man who has not masturbated ... at least that's what my husband told me! :)
I am a 16 year old boy. I started to wonder what I had in my pants when I was in kindergarten. In the evening I kept touching my dick, exposing my head, pulling my foreskin ... At the age of 7-8 I would go straight ... From the 4th grade I started watching p-no and masturbating in front of the computer. I don't remember if I finished then, but in 5th grade I finished. And I masturbated in my boxers and ended up in them. For this and for one day I changed two pairs of boxers. Now, when I look at it, I take a piece of toilet paper, roll it on my dick and the semen stays inside. Our people have never asked me if I do it, I'm sure they know. I think it's perfectly normal to masturbate from a young age. As long as, of course, he doesn't do it in front of his classmates or in front of his teacher.
1st I support 99% comment № 30! It's great that your son shares with you, so he feels like a friend! Since I don't have enough experience with my 13-year-old son, I recommend the book by psychologist Dr. James Dobson, Raising Boys. It also affects your case. SUCCESS and a lot of strength in the future in the difficult task of looking after and raising your child!