She's just very cramped in bed and I've lost interest in having sex. Now I get it from other places and I come home from time to time just to take her home and watch the children do what they do. Sometimes I don't go home for days. And my wife is annoyed and very nervous already. I hope she doesn't make the mistake of looking for sex elsewhere, coming to her senses and starting having real sex with me, but I've had these hopes for years ... What can I do? I tried to take her to psychologists, sexologists, but she stubbornly refuses? Will they laugh at her and she was ashamed ...
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I didn't understand anything from your story. How old are you both? Since when? How old are the children? What do you think congested means? Magicians
You do not share how she was at the beginning of your relationship. For us women, often the reluctance to a man is associated with hormonal problems, congested daily life, frustration with the particular man. Definitely not coming home for days doesn't do anything to solve the problem. She is ashamed to admit that there is a problem and to look for solutions - maybe not at all? is it important and not? missing sexuality with you. There are also women who at the beginning of the relationship pretend almost to start a family. Here, you are already bound, why should he deal with you? Hardly looking for sex elsewhere, probably not at all? is up to sex and never? has been. Going to a specialist with you would mean confessing to you and exposing yourself, which she will never do. You decide how you want to live, but such a marriage does not last long. I think that it would be a relief for her to get rid of you too, if? do you give up your home? you give money.
If I were your wife - I wouldn't want to do anything with you either :) Don't be angry, people like you can only sleep once with very troubled women, but have satisfying sex with a permanent partner - never. Just a naughty man, you didn't have to mention the kids at all.
Haha, why don't you want her to break up like you? :)
"I hope she doesn't make the mistake of looking for sex elsewhere" you can look for sex elsewhere, and your wife can't, since you did it, she has the right to do it too !!! First of all, have you ever tried to talk to your wife about this, these things are first talked about and then when there is no result then you are looking for something outside, secondly you do not go home for weeks and so you think that your wife will get her mood to satisfy you better it just pushes her away from you and thirdly everything is on a mental basis if you predispose her, if you behave better with her everything will be ok, and always when there are problems both are guilty NEVER one is not a saint and the other a sinner! Think about things a little!
From the author. I am 33, she is 28. The children are 6 and 8 years old, from 8 years old. we are married. Congested means that she knows only 2-3 poses and what I want to do, she does not accept it (it seemed unreasonable ...) and for that I had to have lovers. Now I am completely satisfied, and she looks at me angrily and jealously. To. 2, and at the beginning of our relationship was congested, but I thought I just had no experience, and will catch up alas! Well, I keep the children to live among their parents and that's why I haven't abandoned her for now, because she's beautiful, someone will always feel sorry for her and take her. Until 3, I didn't understand your arguments at all ...
She is more likely to receive outside what you are unable to offer her at home:) / compliment, tenderness and love
Bravo to you. You set a great example for children. : - |
Apart from the author, only cobwebs with cobwebs between legs and slugs instead of men have commented on the topic so far. Why slugs? Because if they were real men, they would fill their heads with thunder to take their places in the kitchen instead of hanging out on the forums all day. The author thanks - the real man drinks, fucks and beats ...
Because of such jokes as the author, women repeat: "All men are the same" ...: /: /
Life is not just fucking was a boy. When he lets you go, what are you grumbling about? Are 2/3 poses small? Take care of her tightly and that's it, and if you don't like it, you find lovers in your bed and so on.
Bad coincidence. Basically, I would say that you are the wrong person to break because you don't get what you want, but that's not the case. You have explained the problem to her and she obviously does not want to solve it or you are not important enough in her life, unlike people's opinion. I'm just tired of people who are always watching what others will say, all their loved ones to eat turnips. If she doesn't want you to betray her, let her at least try to satisfy you - she may not really have problems, but until she seeks help or admits the problem, there is no way to know if it is a lack of desire or impossibility. The situation now is very bad for you and for her and the children. Your family is not normal and it is better for me to separate. Obviously you will not find your happiness with her, and obviously she is not happy with the situation. It's important for children to have two parents, but it's no better to see their father come home twice a week for lovers - sooner or later they'll blame you because you can't explain to a 10-year-old that his mother is stuck in the bed. You better separate, find someone who will make you happy and so you can set an example for your children with a happy family. She may also meet her partner - a man who meets her more relaxed sexuality. Ana She may also meet her partner - a man who meets her more relaxed sexuality. Ana She may also meet her partner - a man who meets her more relaxed sexuality. Ana
Bad luck, a lot of that. I don't know what to tell you, but I still think that there are really congested women, as well as men in sex, if it hasn't changed in so many years, it obviously won't happen. I think your marriage is history.
From the author. It turned out to be a big problem for people like me who have more sexual energy to live with women who were nuns in a past life, I suggest. desires that I had. But no, now she will live alone until the end of her days, although I want to find her as sleepy as her, to keep her company, not to get completely depressed.
Are you now bragging or complaining. How he didn't make it a problem for so many years, but wandered from left to right. And now, when she felt that someone else was fucking her with gusto - she howled to the heavens :)))
I support Anna, but let me remind you - the man did not come home not because of "lovers", but because of his wife - he would prefer to eat at home, but he is not served. Your only mistake was that you were deceived into being "pretty," you were in a hurry to? make a child and marry young and green. Catch and talk to her as a person, separate as people in the interest of the children and find a home near theirs, so that it is convenient for the children to come and for you to see them. Don't be in a hurry to get married anymore. You have children. As for your wife, she doesn't seem to need a man. It's very strange to me, but such women are in a hurry to inflate their bellies and get married. I can't understand them. We have waited a long time with the children, we have 11 years of marriage and we have a very good sex life.
Author, it's good that you decided to stay with your wife, but this going out and going home will work for a few more years. But think how this behavior of yours will affect your children ... We all know that future relationships are built precisely by the example in our family ... From what I read I understood that you care about children and you also cared about your wife .. I understand why you do it, no one can convince me that sex is not important for marriage ... It is based on 3 things respect, sex and Phoenician signs ... If 1 of these 3 things is lame, marriage does not work .... Try to show her the sweet side of non-standard sex ... What exactly do you want to do, what do you miss, French love, what poses, etc.? Maybe you want something that is normal for you, but in fact is really too relaxed ...
Until 17, while we were having sex, I kept on the anal, I can't finish without anal, she gave me only 50% of the time, she was in pain, she was in a bad mood, she had gas, etc. excuses. I was very obsessed with the idea of being able to do it with a penis belt, we did it and I really liked it, but she decided not to repeat it, it was perverted ... I offered to replace it with a vibrator, it was also perverted and she stubbornly refused to make me stews. That's why I had to look for other partners, I became bisexual because of her !!!
In fact, you are exactly perverted! I'm not judging you! It's just that your psyche is more special, for which you yourself may not be to blame, but in no case does the fact that it is not like you make it congested! You just disagree on the characters. For some things, however, you just can't stand understanding, at least on my part: you yourself say that you want this, that ... And what does she want? Have you tried to discreetly understand? !! It is probably not directly sexual, but it may predispose her to be more committed! And don't insist on things that are most likely to cause her pain (such as squeezing her ass). Don't think that if you like it, she has to accept it!
The author, are you all right - you became bisexual because of her? !! Nonsense, it was set for you long before you met her. Read a little about how these things happen with sexual orientation and then blame yourself and look for excuses for yourself! Couldn't end without anal? !! So why don't you think about it? Don't blame the woman for your clearly defined preferences. Find out which beach you like best and stay there. But the reason will be only in you, do not look for it outside. Eli
The author, are you all right - you became bisexual because of her? !! Nonsense, it was set for you long before you met her. Read a little about how these things happen with sexual orientation and then blame yourself and look for excuses for yourself! Couldn't end without anal? !! So why don't you think about it? Don't blame the woman for your clearly defined preferences. Find out which beach you like best and stay there. But the reason will be only in you, do not look for it outside. Eli
Next to Eli-Strinke, we understood you well from the first time, there is no need to publish 2 times, take reduce valerian and increase the diopter ...
You are very strange, the commentators. It is so clear from the first post what kind of subject this is, and you finally told him that it is not good.
To want anal sex you have to predispose your wife otherwise it is not pleasant. This is not for everyone. Come, let me handle you anal with a belt to see how good it will be for you ... A woman may like tender sex and sex with you will reciprocate. Don't look for guilt only in her ..
Eh, number 23, get to increase sex, you've been getting very nervous lately.
17- That's why I asked you what exactly you want from her ... Break up with her, she deserves to be with a heterosexual man, not an unconscious gay ... You are a pure left wrist, you can't cum except anal and you love to handle in the ass ... Find someone passionate with a big cock, and be his exemplary wife and then you will be happy ... He went to complain that his wife was stuck. number 24 (honestly I didn't feel it at first), I thought he didn't want to make him French and maybe anal :)
Haha, comment 9 can read again about the "real men" as the author who became bisexual because their wife, you know, did not want to boil a vibrator behind him: D As I said: because of such individuals as the author and number 9 are phrases like: "all men are the same"....
Look - the author is very good, no matter how much your preferences in sex do not meet his. I don't even believe he's gay - the man just ends up having a prostate massage. There are such men. There is no shame in sex when it is VOLUNTARY. As a woman, what the hell makes you get married and get pregnant by a man with whom things don't go well in bed? My husband is a traditionalist, but if he wanted the things the author described, I wouldn't deny him, I don't see anything perverted or abnormal
23, more gently. The mistake with the double is not mine, but the moderator's. Eli
I accept this as a penis belt, there are such men ... they are not gay because they are aroused by women. The case with the author is obviously more complicated, after he says that he became bisexual because of her (muhahahaha :))) But to shove it in my ass absolutely every time to finish .... well, I would not you I would give and I would pull. As much as I like anal sex, BUT from time to time. For me, it is more interesting with what capacity this lady has, to commit to marriage and children with such an individual, having in mind his special preferences and his overall naughty attitude ??
100% of this thing here is a lie and he's talking to you. This little man seems too stupid to me. to be real. Tie things together a bit and you'll find out that he's really talking to you and wants to see your reaction. After a while, he may write that he went to the morgue to fuck because his wife didn't want to pretend to be asleep while shaking her.
from 31 to 32: man, you're breaking :))) I burst out laughing :)
Yes, number 32, exactly. As soon as he proudly mentioned that he did not return to his children for days, it dawned on me that his goal was to provoke.
Number 32, the man is very real, some have pressed the keys on the keyboard, but you're right - the story is distorted and fabricated. Most likely some 40-50 year old housewife is angry that the man? he has found a mistress because she hasn't let him in for 10 years or he doesn't know what a blowjob is and now she has decided to exaggerate things a bit, but it's a bit confusing.
From the author. Only when you have my family experiences do you have the right to judge me why I don't go home for days. I decided in the name of our children to stay married until they are at least 15 years old, so that they do not have stupid thoughts if we divorce their mother.
Author, tell me honestly, are you on drugs? If you don't answer me, then the answer is yes.
And with her colleague, is she also so congested in bed? Maybe she's also nervous about not having good sex at home?
Comment number 14 is a terrible disrespect to the person next to you, author. You talk as if it's some kind of thing for you - it was beautiful, and you wouldn't throw it in the trash, that some bum would find it ... I have no words!
Did you do the children in vitro, and you can't finish without anal?
Number 40 exhausted the topic :) But it is more likely that the children are from his wife's favorite.
Oh motherfucker, I'm sick of people like you! Your wife is not congested, you are just a potential gay! And you even have children! If you have a son, imagine that in time his father likes to cry in the anus. DISGUSTING! In my opinion, your wife doesn't care about you at all, she just pretends to be angry, and actually vomits from you! Ahh it kills me to sadism from people like you .... come on I'll blow your ass with a bottle or something thicker, to keep you moist for longer: D: D: D
Eeee, I couldn't help it, man! Have you ever wondered WHY this woman doesn't want to have sex? With such an irresponsible husband, she must be spoiled by work at home with the children, and probably on business. In the evening, she probably crashed when you have relatively small children, and when I read you, if you don't come home much, then you don't help her! One day that job will start to wear off and not happen to you regularly, and then neither your wife nor your lovers will want you, for the simple reason that you will become neither your wife's partner nor your lover. I often tell you, if my husband was like you, one day I would not stand it! Think a little, pay attention to this woman, start helping her, so that she doesn't ruin herself from work, show a little tenderness, and let's see if it doesn't work out!
By 43, I think she was suppressed in her early childhood by her family, and they instilled false values in her. Real sex, live sex, nothing is forbidden there, especially such trivial things as anal stimulation. From the author. I currently have a girlfriend who makes me very happy with a penis belt.
In my opinion :))) the woman already has a lover, because she doesn't deal with gays. You, the Author, have made sex an obligation and, as it is clear to all of us, it cannot be interesting. You say she doesn't satisfy you? Do you satisfy her? Hardly. Personally, I would also lose the desire for sex if the man expects non-stop gay exercises from me. Bisexual does not happen suddenly - you have to have the means for such.