No matter how much we blame our soul, appearance more or less matters. Everyone has a different type, but it is a fact that there is. I don't look at the detailed, but I've always liked women with tight bodies and big shapes. I adore naturally big breasts and big hard ass. I just go crazy and feel frantic. My wife was just like that - 1.80 tall, but not a horse, but a woman with an ass and huge breasts that fit perfectly on her warm face and radiance. After 10 years almost together and 3 children, she is 37 more beautiful than ever. But here that she became obsessed with some diets because of her weak girlfriends with model measures, they must have teased her something. In 2 months and something she lost 20 kg for sure, from 69-70 she became a twig. Eat only lettuce and oatmeal, necessarily before 17:00. He drinks a lot of water and teas. He plays a lot of sports, but she began to feel sick and stopped. There is not a gram of life in the face. I was worried and we went to the doctor, but he said that her indicators were good, the diet was followed correctly, although it was extreme, and for a woman who did not really need to lose weight. This had a good effect on her self-esteem, but I was not particularly attracted to her. Making love is not the same, I still like it, but before it was something different. I personally support myself, I'm 36 and I train in the gym, but I'm not obsessed. Hers I think crossed the line. But she likes it more that way. What do you think I should do This had a good effect on her self-esteem, but I was not particularly attracted to her. Making love is not the same, I still like it, but before it was something different. I personally support myself, I'm 36 and I train in the gym, but I'm not obsessed. I think hers has crossed the line. But she likes it more that way. What do you think I should do? This had a good effect on her self-esteem, but I was not particularly attracted to her. Making love is not the same, I still like it, but before it was something different. I personally support myself, I'm 36 and I train in the gym, but I'm not obsessed. I think hers has crossed the line. But she likes it more that way. What do you think I should do?
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Isn't it important for your wife to be happy, no matter what she looks like? (Of course, without the disease states - anorexia, bulimia or orthorexia, this is not happiness!) Did you ask her why she started dieting? Is it for yourself or for you? Maybe she doesn't feel attractive in your eyes and that's why she loses weight? Ask her. Is it because he can't find the right size of clothes and strives for "M" and "C" size? Isn't it for health reasons, because eating salads and oatmeal is definitely better for the body than donuts, patties and boza for breakfast. Maybe it's because she sees that you're training, and she feels like a "liver" next to you and wants to be worthy of standing next to a supported man. Have you recently told her that you love her and find her beautiful, as she is regardless of whether she is full or weak? (not to like her without her appetizing shapes, but you can assure her that you will accept her with any weight). After all, once you train, and the probable cause turns out to be healthy, you can always prepare a regime for her to keep her the way you like her - round. Talk to each other and find the reason. Success! F, 25 years old
If the woman had gained some extra pounds, you would be unhappy that she had become a pig, was not tight, etc. Let her feel comfortable in her body! Kitty
Tell her that she either stops dieting or you will take a break from marriage. Do you have plums in your mouth, damn it? Tell her what's bothering you and that you've liked her for a while. Who knows what complex her "girlfriends" gave her to be tied to such nonsense. On top of that, it can cause her anorexia over time. Communication is needed - learn.
Off, but look at your work now, one of your whims !!! "My wife has lost weight, gained weight, expanded from below, smiles somehow, breathes heavier / lighter" Your wife will do whatever she wants with her body, as soon as she feels better, isn't it right for you to do you support her ?! No, she MUST look, think and feel like a urinal! Maybe you are not attracted to her and for that she has decided to make changes with herself, but not for YOU, but for her ... do you remember ?!
I think you should slap each other and let the woman live the way she wants. Not everything revolves around you and your excitement.
In my opinion, you should learn to love your wife no matter how much she weighs, because much more difficult things will happen to you in life, she can get sick, God forbid, gain weight, lose weight due to illness, everything happens, I don't wish it on you, but you have to love her for her own sake and not get so carried away with the outside. Such a relationship is based on mutual support and love, it seems to me that you do not love her as much as you love her for sex. I would say your wife is a little big and it's good that she lost a few pounds, although she may have been overweight, as you say. But if she is healthy and she is lighter and better, let her. She has found a place, an activity that makes her happy. Don't take it away.
Well, it's not bad that she lost weight, but she has to go to the gym to tighten up. Otherwise the skin and flesh relax. So advise her to start playing sports.
... tell her? Once she lost 20 kg, she is now about 50. At this height, she is a living skeleton, which is not only ugly, but also unhealthy. It is no accident that she got sick ...
Авторът: Не е отпусната, но е по-мекичка и крехка, гърдите са й станали много малки, а преди обиколката беше цели 102 сантиметра! Всеки ден съм й повтарял, че я обичам, че е най-красивата и прочие, а и винаги съм й го показвал. Защо мислите, че намирам мана, както се казва? Аз съм я взел като е изглеждала по един начин и така съм я харесал.. Ако взема да сваля аз 20 кила или да кача, дали и тя няма да прояви някакво недоволство? Тя си беше златната среда, сега стана клечка. Какво да кажа? Естествено, че най-важното е да ми е жива и здрава, но вече и затова се притеснявам. Благодаря ви все пак, макар че ме изкарахте повърхностна свиня, а не съм такъв.
The muffin chorus rumbled immediately. This obsession with my wife's diets also made her drunk, from a normal good-looking woman she became a bony brace, nothing feminine remained in her. To those who actively explain how the partner should be perceived as he is, I will remind them how many times they have criticized their husbands for appearance, money, ambition or something else that women show off in front of girlfriends. The truth is that men love with their eyes, I would advise the author to talk directly to her and tell her that if she drives like that, she will lose more than she will win, and that she does not attract him as a woman anymore. Let her know what's going on. I would not be surprised if the lady in question has a much different incentive to lose weight, and girlfriends are an alibi ... Sudden changes in women's appearance can usually be provoked by 'girlfriends' in pants ...
Number 4, the next time you think you don't like something about another human being, remember your post. :)