My wife really is a bitch. Every two weeks he raises scandals about nonsense, he is jealous of me and shouts to me that I have found another, younger and more beautiful than her. We are both 35, she is 36, without children and these people can no longer survive. In scandals, he tells me every time that I have a difficult character, that no one will tolerate me, that I had to marry someone else. He yells at me that I'm disloyal and that I sleep with other women virtually. He expresses his annoyance aloud to me almost every day. It threatens me with divorce people, it's every two to three weeks. She is nervous, depressed and paranoid half the time and more when we are together. We live together all day and it doesn't last. I don't know what to do with her. I also said that we will divorce by the new year, if it continues like this. I'm not perfect, but I've been enduring it for 11 years since we've lived together. I drive her even to a hairdresser because she can't drive. I stand for an hour in front of the dentist and wait for her. I also give money every month - BGN 500 just for her, to have clothes to buy and whatever she wants. I furnished our apartment to her taste and a lot of money went, but I gritted my teeth and said to myself that I love her, that's the important thing. Sex is rare, so I masturbate. She often tells me that I find her ugly, and I don't find her unattractive. When I make a remark to her, anger erupts. I lost the desire for sex because of her anger. I'm in a hole because I thought and believed that this was the woman for me. Ever since I've known her, she's always been angry. I no longer believe her when she tells me I love you, because she told me several times before to find a new wife and she will be my master. It's not easy to break up with someone you still love, that's why I still give him a chance to fix his nasty character or that's the end. I don't know what to really do. I still love her. I don't know if there is another man in her life. I have no information about that.
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Why do you tolerate this rag? If you endure it, it is obliged that one coziness in your house has peace. How many women are broke for 500 leva and are good with their husbands? Break up with her and reunite with a woman who will love you and give birth to a child. The strangest thing is that such leagues find someone to support them. She will find her master when she sees how the money is earned, something she obviously doesn't know. One woman
Well, you're just crazy to put up with that. You pay a lot, you give everything, and you get what? One big nothing. Neither attitude nor sex, let alone love. Get a divorce, but try to leave your home and other things. Let this hysteric take care of itself. Neither she loves you, nor you love her, and you are caught like a drowning man by a straw.
Where are other men like you? My husband probably wouldn't support me for a month if I didn't work, at least that's what I think. I don't want to wait for anyone. And to let me buy something for me is a dream. And I look pretty good, obviously not up to how you look. I don't know how other women do it, but it's not convenient for me to have someone give me, but to have mine. And why doesn't it work? When it is stuck, it will be like that.
Amiiii, try to act like a man, not like a slipper. This woman doesn't respect you and to put it mildly ... she's not for you. Leave her to fend for herself, don't run after her when she raises her voice and you raise too. Tell her that this is your home and that if she doesn't like it, she can leave. Take it more seriously! You want to please her too much. If the decision not to have children is not by mutual consent, this is the key to the problem. With such a relationship better not to have. You sound like a good and decent man, I wish you success. Candy
Well, to pack his luggage and take it out. If you don't have children, I don't understand what's holding you back.
Maybe she wants children and that's her problem
Hello. I am a 33 year old woman. Author, you are not saying whether it has always been so or has changed recently. Why don't you have children? I think that's the reason. Why the hell isn't anything working? !! It is normal for a woman without any commitments to be nervous and hopeless. Explain to us why it got there to give you advect advice.
The woman does not need a driver, a servant, an uncle, or more precisely, she has money, but it is crucial for her happiness to have a man by her side. Who will dance with. Yes, he will look at her with a dazzling look as if it is made of stars, he will not dare to touch her, and if he touches her, he will not want to let her go. Not always and not everyone can give this. And it is not necessary. The woman, as well as the man, can be energetically charged from the earth and the sky. But it is most inherent in us to seek it from our neighbor. The woman's battery is gone. I would recommend hunger, sports, minerals, alkaline diet and a lot of variety and vacations in nature
Run with 300 bates, because you are not the first youth so that the years do not fly, love, love, but it will pass, you move 6-7 m and you forgot it, I went this way and from experience I tell you and you know the saying - don't ask old man, ask patil, run boy !!!
Eh, ladies - you ignored the question asked by the author, but you immediately envied that the other woman, the man and imagined, supported her, gave her money and pleased her ... She was a rag, she was lying, I don't know what it was - not even you know the circumstances of life and the background, nothing, but you immediately went ahead with the qualifications. The commentators, without asking anyone, started to explain how you had seen more beautiful, more industrious, more dashing - to wonder how such precious pearls remained invaluable, and such as the author's wife to literate men. happened. Well, dear ladies - and foam to come out of your mouth, he just loves it! Whoever gets what he deserves, gets it and there is no use looking in someone else's bowl. Author, your wife obviously has a problem and doesn't feel well in her skin - you say you think she's unattractive, that there is a lot of anger and repressed aggression in her. She needs help - you know best why she is unemployed, believe me, a person can't feel good when he finds himself in such a situation and it eats him up. She currently feels in a closed circle and cannot see a way out. You see that she becomes more and more insecure, she feels superfluous, inferior, dependent - it is normal when a person is closed and has no social contacts. And if she feels insecure and unattractive, she will increasingly avoid meeting people. It's really a spiral moving down. Thus, mental disorders gradually develop, the reality is distorted. It turns out that the closest and at the same time have to perform many social roles, which for one person is burdensome and impossible. She can't come out of this hole alone - if you want to help her, make an appointment for a consultation with a therapist. It will not happen without outside help and without a significant change in circumstances.
Your wife may be a bitch, but you're a bitch too. Understand, dear men, people in general, treat you as you allow.
I had written about a similar problem a few days ago. I know the difference is that she's not even my wife. Apparently there are women who constantly make scandals. It's like I wrote it ...
My advice is to look for the problem elsewhere. Is it possible that she is depressed because you don't have children? What if she found out there was a problem with her? Have you tried? Does he want children? Sometimes being financially satisfied is not everything. It is possible that the problem is on a mental level. If you love her, instead of threatening her with divorce, sit quietly with her calmly and lightly, what worries her, worries her and what exactly provokes the attitude towards you. Sometimes people have different points of view on things especially women and we teudni to understand, but try to solve the problem and help her. I say again that pampering her and she is satisfied is not everything. If he is 36, what is the reason for not having a child? In my opinion, a joy in life would calm her down :) F22
get rid of this man-hating, the situation will not improve at all
"What" are you seriously reprimanding her for?
This is more stupidity even than the topics of k **** and other fabrications. "You're both 35, she's 36" ... You're like Penata - these two, the third one and that's how the door was .... How many people live in your head, psychopath?
BGN 500 is not enough. You have to give her at least 2 vouchers a month. Only then will you become a real man.
Fiction squared.
It processes you mentally and makes you feel bad by blaming you for things you haven't done yet.
You are still young, such an attitude cannot be tolerated. This is not life. Let her break her head, find her better than you if she doesn't like you, but it will be difficult when she is so capricious. Divorce and save yourself while it's time, so that your youth doesn't go away.
Why do you think you can make "remarks"? Remarks made by a subordinate. And in marriage there are two partners who are equal, who discuss together, decide together, talk, share ... It is natural to be angry at remarks, especially if they are uttered in a commanding or edifying tone. Author, a scandal from just one person can not happen, no matter how much you want. Two are always involved in a scandal. Don't pretend to be innocent, but smooth out your slightly clumsy character, because if you find another one, you will still be in the same position, if you think that you will still make remarks to the woman next to you.
Let's visit a psychologist, go together. I'm not saying she's crazy. A professional conversation will work well for her. Or tell her to take a break and go to your parents for 1 week without looking for it at all. Only in this way will she feel your absence and the fear of losing you will overwhelm her and she will change her attitude! Woman, 21 years old
I still think these are fake stories, but they are not. There are many men in your position. I don't understand one thing. You are 10 years older, why do you allow such a thing? Women are more or less crazy, without affecting the rest of me. Why can't you knock on the table, put it in place. Throw her out. Is that why you lived? Is that why you're running around like crazy so you can go home and have the princess raise scandals. Man, it's better to be alone than to put up with this thing. Loneliness is no worse than such cohabitation with a woman. At 26, I save my nerves as much as possible with such stories, and I don't know how you succeed. Luggage and outside, no other way out.
Your wife has prominent hidden complexes that she obviously does not express out loud in front of you. Apparently she thinks there are more beautiful and better and more suitable for you than her. For example, I am young, I am 25, my friend is also together and we have been together for 2 years. I also don't work, but I don't go to hairdressers and the like, I prefer to go to hot pools, spas and the like, but we do it from time to time. We do not live in our own home, nor is it furnished to my taste, but I have accepted that according to his abilities, this is it. Otherwise, he gives me 300 leva a month for clothes as you give to your wife, but I am quite grateful. I kiss him, I love him, we have sex, I generally behave well and I'm grateful that I don't work, but otherwise I'm looking for a job and if I like something, I plan to work, I've just come across things I didn't like. I regularly review job postings. Jealousy can't be questioned, I don't read his messages and I don't look at his phone, because I trust him, and once a common acquaintance took him down live in front of me, but I have a high self-confidence sense, I was wearing make-up, heels , nice clothes, and she was without makeup, visibly shorter, with work clothes and I just looked at her from above and hugged him and she left. I don't think there's anything better for him than me. Yes, there may be more beautiful women, smarter and so on, but they are not for him. First, most of them will want a lot more money and luxury, some of them are light women and so on. In my opinion, she is ungrateful, the first is, the second is complex, as long as she thinks it is easily replaceable. Jealousy and anger show that she is not happy with herself. Look, give it another chance. Take a test for a week. Give her flowers, take her to a restaurant, give her a nice perfume, tell her how sexy and unique she is and try to have sex and if she still behaves the same way then in plain text ask her what she doesn't like about herself. Where do all these complexes come from? If he continues in the same spirit, you have to find another girlfriend, in those years people already have many children, at your age his father gave birth to the third child, I am the second. This woman of yours is crazy.
8 killed the fish. The woman will eat vitamins and will change, she will go to work.
This is history only from his point of view. There are many things that are concealed, distorted, etc. None of the commenters here know what the whole truth is. And how did you hurry to give qualifications to the woman without knowing the author what a wrist is and what causes such behavior? Very primary and elementary. And immediately the bachelors got caught up in the fact that she didn't work. Think a little bigger and more mature!
I am the author. 1 - It's not a rag. I would never tolerate a rag, let alone marry him. She works on her own computer. I never wanted it to work. I earn a lot, she doesn't need to work. 2 - I get the person I love. Bitch yes when she makes scandals, but damn, I love her. I've tried to provide her with a lot if she outlives me one day. She has security. I love her, brother. She loves me too when she's not acting like a bitch. 3 - They are located. But I'm also an asshole. I can be angry and vindictive. It's not about how you look, you're right. Although mine is a pretty cute creature in appearance. There are many things I know. I just knew it was my wife after a month and a half of chatting, and our first meeting after that. Even if the most beautiful one comes to me, as she is not my wife, nothing bothers me inside, only sex thoughts. How do other women do it? Mine did nothing to win me over. But nothing. It was just her as she was. And she didn't give me five bucks for a long time. I chased her for a year and a half after our first live meeting, until she decided we finally had a serious relationship. 4 - Candy, ... I'm your ass. What can I do, I'm obviously a masochist, because I'm always running after my wife. Haha. 5 - Love, brother. Your soulmate, who, however, also behaves like a bitch. 6 - We both don't want children. We have two dogs that we look after as children. 7 - She has always been a little hot-tempered, but before it was rare, say once every three months. She works from home on her computer. She always made some money, about BGN 1,000 a month. I never wanted her to work unless she wanted to. My wife has a few serious hobbies yet and is almost always quite busy. She is quite independent. I give her a lot of money because I love her madly. I will always give her, no matter what happens, she is my wife. I make a lot of money, for us money is not a problem. 8 - What battery? What charge from heaven? Man, I burst out laughing, but thankful for the opinion. 9 - She is my first love, brother. I have no more room for another love. 10 - My wife is definitely not a rag, but a bitch when she behaves like that. I would never tolerate a rag, let alone marry him. My wife is an introvert by nature and does not like to meet many people, so it can make our problems worse. She told me she felt superfluous. We don't have children, I don't want to, she wanted to at first, but in fact, when we thought she was pregnant, she ran first for birth control pills, so she doesn't want children either. We have two dogs and we look after them as children and we don't care who tells us what. Like I said, I have a lot of money and contacts and I don't sleep. In my opinion, she has some complexes, which tells me about some kind of narcissism. She also invents various things that I cheat on her, for example, and believes that they are almost true. Bruh, psychiatrists are crooks. They are unlikely to help us. 13 - She was the perfect woman for a husband. With one of the cutest faces and a gentle body. Infinitely independent and good soul. So far, he has rescued various kittens from the street and even birds. It's you. 14 - Brother, you understand me. But I love mine. That's why I don't know what to do. If I didn't love her, I would have been a jerk a long time ago. 15 - She started with divorce threats. I listened to her for months and months before showing her that I could act like a bitch. We don't want children either. We have two dogs, which we look at as children. My wife even buys them sweaters and accessories from the mall, bathes them and we both take them for a walk. There are other joys in life besides children. Children are cool, but not everyone is suitable for a parent. My wife and I are not suitable for parents of children. 19 - Hahaha. I give it to her, he was a brother. These BGN 500 are, by the way. I want her to be safe. If one day I swallowed before her, I made sure she was insured from-to. But he is stubborn. He often doesn't want my money. It makes me very angry, but it has got under my skin. Our first meetings were the same. I want to pay for something, she pulls and pays with her money. 21 - She accuses me, it's true. But I only really loved her in my life. "I don't want a divorce, brother." My relationship with my wife is important to me. I invested a lot. Sometimes I think I'm an idiot, but that's the way it is. 23 - I'm not a flower either. Who said the opposite? But I never uttered the word divorce before my wife started this disgusting game of hers, how she would divorce me and how the next one would tell me the game. 24 - Psychologists are after the rain hood. We haven't parted in two days. It is stupid to play such games. Either someone is for your temporary pleasure only, or he becomes one of the most important people in your life. I don't have time for dumb games. 25 - That sounds easy on paper, brother. How will I throw her away when I love her? One does not behave like that with someone who loves. That she behaves like a Princess, that's right. That I steal money, mostly because of her, that's right. I've never hit her, except once on the ass. Sex ensued, and she and I hurried to reconcile after her scandals. and in my eyes she will always be this young and super cute girl, with a gentle body. When I saw her, I thought to myself that this was my wife. But I didn't want to scare her, so I pretended to be cold and inaccessible and a little ass in general. Our first meeting in real life was a foul. I was 10 minutes late or something, she left our meeting place, and went to a nearby park, where she saw a wounded cat, and took her to the vet. So we met there at the veterinary clinic - it smelled deadly of cat food and dog urine ... Yes, my wife is a little crazy. My wife is not jealous, or hides it well enough, so I never feel it. He doesn't look at my phones or call me every hour. She is quite independent in fact. Makeup is a dumb thing. Why are you messing around so much? Mine puts moisturizer on my face and mascara. The most. I like her a lot without make-up, as it is with her loose and slightly tousled long hair, with her delicate body without any silicones in it. My wife hates all kinds of artificial work in itself, thank God. I rarely give flowers. Am I not Father Barba? She can buy everything with the money I give her and for which I don't want any account. I also say how sweet and beautiful she is almost every day. I take her to restaurants, but she wants us to be at home more, because she is a homemaker and an introvert. Brrrr, another woman? No thanks. Except to sleep with her once, enough to complain, maybe. But am I crazy to put up with someone else, without even being in love with him? I fell in love once, and that was my wife. There will be no more. Everything else is short of emotion, and you forgot about that person the next morning, or even after two hours. Either I stay with my wife or I live alone. 27 - Hahaha. Dude. I'll buy her vitamins, brother, so she's not a bitch, hahahaha.
Emmy, tolerate it then author. Your wife has degenerated from doing nothing - and hell will still be a fact for you. This man you loved is a mirage and fiction, and the woman next to you is a piggy bank with no interests, even if she cooks, learns a language. Leaving the job, she will not take it.
Invite your wife to write and her point of view so that we can give you adequate advice. That way, she doesn't know exactly what her problem is. Is she on an emotional / mental level or are you really an asshole, as you say, and you're just pissing her off. And psychiatrists are not crooks. My ex-husband had brushed it off, decided to divorce so we could have a better relationship, became aggressive, and started harassing me. Then he took medicine and was fine again. But alas, he stopped them and that's why he's an ex, but that's another topic.