My story is quite long. I will try to tell it briefly. I have been having problems with my wife for some time, there is no understanding, but constant quarrels and eating and apostrophes on her part for what not. in short, we do not understand each other. not a day goes by that we don't quarrel over even the smallest. we are generally a young family of almost 4 years with one child and it can be said that we live more or less normally from a financial point of view. My wife applied for a job at an institution and was approved and hired, after which her weekly business trips and daily trips began. this something hindered our relationship and the quarrels became even greater. I began to imagine what I was doing and this hindered my work, which is my main income. I became incapable of work, etc. I asked her to talk to me and solve the problem. I asked her to leave this job and I promised to find another like it. there was a great debate. I also said that it hurts our relationship. she accepted and took unpaid leave on my advice if we thought about it and decided that we could get over it. the date of the decision approached and it became scary. she said that this job was her dream and her future. I was scolded a lot and in the end she agreed if I would pay the insurances through my company. I agreed. but alas, the day before the day she left, she decided to tell me that she was returning to this job. to travel and sleep in other cities (seminars and trainings). I explained to her that I was suffering and I couldn't do that because I was going crazy. then she told me that she had made a decision and went to this very job. and that she was not interested in anything. it was her badness for her. I told her if she tried not to come back. he picked up the child and immediately packed his bags. I called her on the phone and she explicitly told me that it was a matter of a few months of travel and at most a week and even a few more to sleep in other cities. I asked her to cook, but she refused and stated emphatically that she was leaving. I talked to my mother on the phone and she shouted at me that since I took her daughter in broad daylight she has not seen (the two share a lot, now the mother has to) I said if she doesn't come back and refuse, this is the end. then he told me that he preferred his job to me. I went straight and asked her to think, but she refused. he left and called me all the time and told me that she was with me again and I was the one who pretended to be interesting and if I accepted her she would love me more. I don't know what to do because I love her. but I think her action is wrong now the child is with her mother, and I can't see him after those words he told me. I asked my wife to leave and return to our city, but she refused. at the end of the week I will go home and I don't know what to do. please give opinions
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You are a great JEALOUS. The woman has found a job that she likes, and he makes her leave. Why !!! Are you afraid that there will be no one else? Think about whether your grumbling is constantly the cause of your quarrels. What do you want to stay locked up at home and not go anywhere.
In my opinion, her mother is either misled about your relationship because she only has information about it from her daughter or she has a very big influence on her, which is not good at all, because she will always interfere in your relationship. I think your relationship is over and it will never be the same. It is not right for her to work in the first place before her husband and especially the child, provided that you can provide her with a normal life. The decision still remains yours, but whatever it is, do not deprive the child of your presence in his life. One day you too will be very sorry. Good luck
to number 1. I have nothing against my wife to work, the only thing is that I think of her constantly as she is gone. I provided it myself. I have a construction company and I earn well. so far it has been insured. The problem, in my opinion, is that most of her friends work somewhere in nice places, and maybe she's not behind them. I can't work hard because I think about her all the time, where is she now, what is she doing, is she telling me the truth, etc. accordingly, I can't concentrate on my work and I raise my hand and go to check the site, I see the problems but I don't fix them because I don't have the strength to think about it all the time. I said that too, but she still said that she was not interested and that she had decided to travel and work. I don't have the strength to explain that our main income weighs on my work, but she still says that she will not give up and that she owes more to her work than to me. it broke me. after many hours of quarrels, he said that he was with me, but he would not leave his job again. I just do not know. I myself am jealous and with principles. and I am jealous of my principles. the first and most important is the family that she neglects. she says she goes for money but I give it to her and she still doesn't. I just do not know. I resigned myself today and I called and told her that I agreed with her because of my family and myself because I was suffering and in pain. But it was still hard on me. she was pleased and said that she would respect me to the end now. I said to myself and so far I don't know how much you respected me. but it weighs on me again and I really can't ignore me like that and my family can't forgive her, she's happy now and I'm unhappy because of one of her jobs. which hurts me, I myself agree that she should work, but not such a job to be constantly on business trips. but not . help
1 Ask yourself if you love her. 2 Ask if you believe. 3 Ask if you want her - the way she wants to be: a modern woman, with a career, financially independent of you and if the answers to the three questions are: YES - run to her to apologize to her and tell her that you accept her as such as it is. Run to her until it's too late. and if the answers are: No ........................... split up civilly
No matter how hard it is for you, you should overcome this jealousy, because it kills love. Although she has acted drastically, your wife is right that she wants to do some interesting work and develop. He should not choose between you and your favorite job, because it is very important to feel useful and fulfilled in life. As for whether she cheats on you on these business trips, as you think, there is no guarantee that if she works close to you, she will not do it. It depends on her morals and whether you encourage her to take this step towards infidelity. so give her freedom and she can really love you more for this act of yours.
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Hey jealous, think first, do you LOVE your wife or do you just want to OWN her. Wait for response.
Have you ever been to school? Obviously you have no idea how many and what mistakes you have when writing, but your colleagues can not help but see. As long as you were jealous of your wife. If you want to tie her up at home then she will cheat on you. You better get me a job, I'm a senior engineer, I'll give you a mind for both your wife and your spelling. Come with health.