My story is very long, but I know that no one likes to read long outpourings ..... So, I will try to be as short as possible ... My boyfriend and I were together for a year and 3 months .... After that the problems started, we broke up temporarily, then permanently and then I found another one .... I am fully aware that my new friend is not a commodity, they say everything and I understand it. We will be together for another 1-2 months at most, because I am another for him. I am not upset by this, because I do not care much .. The reason is that I still love my old friend. He was my first true, great love. He and I thought we would be together forever ... The future seemed perfect for us. I loved him more than anything, he loved me too ..... I will never find a second like him, there will never be a person who tolerates me so much ..... no one will treat me like him .... I feel good with my new friend when we are together. I'm having fun, but am I left alone ... all the good moments with my ex are in front of my eyes ... I know that I can bring him back with just one word, but it won't be fair to him anymore ... Now he's leaving for a year and a half in Portugal ... This is obviously the end. I know I can only stop him with one "Stay" ... but I don't want to keep him and stop him ... There is no future in Bulgaria, no money .... I want him to be happy, even if it means me to suffer ... I just want to share it somewhere, because I don't want him to know what I think and feel, because he will give up and he won't leave, and I don't want me to be the reason for that. And I've learned a lot from my whole story ... Never betray the person who loves you with all your heart for something fleeting, "dressed in a beautiful package" ... I became convinced that it was pointless. There comes a day when you start to regret, you understand your mistake, and it is too late to correct it and even dishonestly ...
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Why don't you tell him? Don't you think he won't be happy to hear it from you? And if your common future is really the best for both of you, why not stay in Bulgaria, or you go with him. No one knows what will happen next, but why you have to give up so easily.
It may not be fair, really, but everyone is wrong! If your ex-boyfriend still loves you ... why not try again? Stop him, tell him everything that is in your heart ... Then, even if he leaves, at least you will have the consolation that you told him what weighs on you. And if you let him go like that without knowing anything, he will suffer too. You will suffer all your life that you have done nothing. The choice is in your hands. Do what you think is best. I'm just telling you what I would do in this place. Because a great and strong love (as you describe it as yours) does not die so quickly and easily, even if we want to. And I'm sure you know that ...
God, I can't believe I've seen a woman say something like that. Well done, I sincerely congratulate you. You have now become a real woman, a real man worthy of it. Even though you realized things the hard way, hey no one said it would always be easy. Man becomes complete and real when he realizes and is ready to bear the consequences of his actions. Congratulations to you!
TELL HIM "STAY" FOOL !!
Apparently the author stumbles on other men ... or the author's ex-boyfriend stumbles on other women ... or something generally lame in their relationship, as long as they "loved each other great" and lasted less than a year and a half. Girl, leave the man alone, don't stop him and try to adjust your own life as much as you can :))