Hello! I am writing here because I am already completely confused. I have a friend 7 years older than me. (If my age is important - 20). We have been together for two years. However, it is as if everything has disappeared between us, the thrill of abe everything. He goes out to work no kiss goodbye, he may not even pay attention to me at dinner. About sex under any criticism ... Once, twice every few months. As much as I want from him, even before I started anything, he pushed me away with the words, "I'm tired, get out of my head" ... Anyway ... I've come to terms with everything ... I soon started a new job. Soon, soon two months. Mostly male team. As soon as I went to the interview, one of the boys was looking at me with a "gleam in my eye". I was released on probation the same day. I started, etc. However, he is constantly looking for my eyes, making me laugh, saying such nice things to me, how I blushed, how sweet I was, that I couldn't help but be flattered ... Coincidentally, we were together for three nights at night. We complete our obligations by 02. 30/03. 00h we sat down and talked about our lives. Who experienced what. However, the colleague is so candid that he says everything to himself. Predispose me. And I started telling him too. In, at one point I felt heavy and cried. And he hugged me. (I felt protected, I felt understood). Because we work at a gas station and there are one or two people all night. He charges the cars, but he looks for me at the checkout ... I wonder now if I was wrong not to pull away from his embrace. But it was so nice. I hadn't felt so soon. In the morning, when they came to change us, we waited to leave together, he sent me to the bus. I don't know if I was wrong? : / how sweet I was that I couldn't help but be flattered ... Coincidentally, we were together for three nights at night. We complete our obligations by 02. 30/03. 00h we sat down and talked about our lives. Who experienced what. However, the colleague is so candid that he says everything to himself. Predispose me. And I started telling him too. In, at one point I felt heavy and cried. And he hugged me. (I felt protected, I felt understood). Because we work at a gas station and there are one or two people all night. He loads the cars, but he looks for me at the checkout ... I wonder now if I was wrong not to pull away from his arms. But it was so nice. I hadn't felt so soon. In the morning, when they came to change us, we waited to leave together, he sent me to the bus. I don't know if I was wrong? : / how sweet I was that I couldn't help but be flattered ... Coincidentally, we were together for three nights in a row. We complete our obligations by 02. 30/03. 00h we sat down and talked about our lives. Who experienced what. However, the colleague is so candid that he says everything to himself. Predispose me. And I started telling him too. In, at one point I felt heavy and cried. And he hugged me. (I felt protected, I felt understood). Because we work at a gas station and there are one or two people all night. He loads the cars, but he looks for me at the checkout ... I wonder now if I was wrong not to pull away from his arms. But it was so nice. I hadn't felt so soon. In the morning, when they came to change us, we waited to leave together, he sent me to the bus. I don't know if I was wrong? : / that I can't help but be flattered ... Coincidentally, we were together at night for three nights in a row. We complete our obligations by 02. 30/03. 00h we sat down and talked about our lives. Who experienced what. However, the colleague is so candid that he says everything to himself. Predispose me. And I started telling him too. In, at one point I felt heavy and cried. And he hugged me. (I felt protected, I felt understood). Because we work at a gas station and there are one or two people all night. He charges the cars, but he looks for me at the checkout ... I wonder now if I was wrong not to pull away from his embrace. But it was so nice. I hadn't felt so soon. In the morning, when they came to change us, we waited to leave together, he sent me to the bus. I don't know if I was wrong? : / that I can't help but be flattered ... Coincidentally, we were together for three nights at night. We complete our obligations by 02. 30/03. 00h we sat down and talked about our lives. Who experienced what. However, the colleague is so candid that he says everything to himself. Predispose me. And I started telling him too. In, at one point I felt heavy and cried. And he hugged me. (I felt protected, I felt understood). Because we work at a gas station and there are one or two people all night. He loads the cars, but he looks for me at the checkout ... I wonder now if I was wrong not to pull away from his embrace. But it was so nice. I hadn't felt so soon. In the morning, when they came to change us, we waited to leave together, he sent me to the bus. I don't know if I was wrong? : / Coincidentally, we were together for three nights at night. We complete our obligations by 02. 30/03. 00h we sat down and talked about our lives. Who experienced what. However, the colleague is so candid that he says everything to himself. Predispose me. And I started telling him too. In, at one point I felt heavy and cried. And he hugged me. (I felt protected, I felt understood). Because we work at a gas station and have one or two people all night. He loads the cars, but he looks for me at the checkout ... I wonder now if I was wrong not to pull away from his embrace. But it was so nice. I hadn't felt so soon. In the morning, when they came to change us, we waited to leave together, he sent me to the bus. I don't know if I was wrong? : / Coincidentally, we were together at night for three nights in a row. We complete our obligations by 02. 30/03. 00h we sat down and talked about our lives. Who experienced what. However, the colleague is so candid that he says everything to himself. Predispose me. And I started telling him too. In, at one point I felt heavy and cried. And he hugged me. (I felt protected, I felt understood). Because we work at a gas station and there are one or two people all night. He charges the cars, but he looks for me at the checkout ... I wonder now if I was wrong not to pull away from his embrace. But it was so nice. I hadn't felt so soon. In the morning, when they came to change us, we waited to leave together, he sent me to the bus. I don't know if I was wrong? : / we sat down and talked about our lives. Who experienced what. However, the colleague is so candid that he says everything to himself. Predispose me. And I started telling him too. In, at one point I felt heavy and cried. And he hugged me. (I felt protected, I felt understood). Because we work at a gas station and there are one or two people all night. He charges the cars, but he looks for me at the checkout ... I wonder now if I was wrong not to pull away from his embrace. But it was so nice. I hadn't felt so soon. In the morning, when they came to change us, we waited to leave together, he sent me to the bus. I don't know if I was wrong? : / we sat down and talked about our lives. Who experienced what. However, the colleague is so candid that he says everything to himself. Predispose me. And I started telling him too. In, at one point I felt heavy and cried. And he hugged me. (I felt protected, I felt understood). Because we work at a gas station and have one or two people all night. He charges the cars, but he looks for me at the checkout ... I wonder now if I was wrong not to pull away from his embrace. But it was so nice. I hadn't felt so soon. In the morning, when they came to change us, we waited to leave together, he sent me to the bus. I don't know if I was wrong? : / I felt understood). Because we work at a gas station and there are one or two people all night. He charges the cars, but he looks for me at the checkout ... I wonder now if I was wrong not to pull away from his embrace. But it was so nice. I hadn't felt so soon. In the morning, when they came to change us, we waited to leave together, he sent me to the bus. I don't know if I was wrong? : / I felt understood). Because we work at a gas station and there are one or two people all night. He charges the cars, but he looks for me at the checkout ... I wonder now if I was wrong not to pull away from his embrace. But it was so nice. I hadn't felt so soon. In the morning, when they came to change us, we waited to leave together, he sent me to the bus. I don't know if I was wrong? : /
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You will be wrong if you stay with your current "friend".
Hi, I don't think you were wrong, there's nothing wrong with feeling any attraction or sympathy for another boy. As for your boyfriend, I think you should dump him, but by no means cheat on him while you're together ... 1) because if you want to start a new relationship feeling like it's not going well, just sit at a table and calmly without arguing explain everything to him ... 2) no person who has even a little "dignity" deserves to be treated like that. I hope I helped you a little, the choice is yours. Success!
Instead of looking elsewhere for comfort and protection, why not focus on your own relationship? If you care about the person next to you, you will make it so that you talk more often about your life together and who wants what, to share your problems and solve them together. I understand that the lack of caresses does not reflect well on you, but your friend may have a problem at work or a problem of another nature and wanting sex and a thrill from him is not very pleasant in this case. Clarify with yourself and decide if you want to be with this person and talk to him. Don't waste your time with each other.
Get away from your current friend immediately if you respect your life. Egati fool. Who knows, one day, if you have children, then he will remove you, if he behaves so cold from now on. Even if nothing happens to your colleague - get away from this person with whom you are "walking" at the moment. Greetings, Alex.