At 18 alone. Girl. My problem is that I don't have any friends and I can't understand why. Don't tell me 'if you search you will find' because I searched a lot myself and it just doesn't work. There is no one to go out with to drink coffee, no one is looking for me. My only girlfriend and I see each other once a month or two, and I call her because if I don't, she won't call me at all. It sucks to watch others go out and have fun and you to always be alone because no one thinks of you. People don't like me, they even talk behind my back. This has been the case for several years. This made me insecure, being trapped. Many times I have looked for the problem in myself, but it doesn't seem to be there. I'm nice to others, I'm not very upset about the lack of friends, but I can say that I'm funny, especially if I see sympathy on the other side, i love the fun and myself pretty cute in appearance. I can't figure out where the problem is ! I was wondering if things would change if I went to study in another city and started fresh or I don't know ... you say.
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And I'm in the same situation, I know a lot of friends, no one knows the whole city, but I don't have anyone to go out with ... a bad thrill ... maybe I'm like that because most of them irritate me with their behavior;)
Hello dear! I read about your problem very carefully and I dare say that I have the same syndrome! At least for me, it is the result of a personal emotional tragedy that turned my life upside down. My advice is - don't go with the flow, fight with yourself ... loneliness is a scary thing! I know that nowadays it is very difficult to say that you have friends ....
I WANT TO BE YOUR FRIEND - TELL ME HOW TO CONTACT YOU!
What can I tell you baby ??? not to fuck for some people who have nothing to do with their lives and just mix "dramas" !! I doubt you can have more than 1 girlfriend !!! you're just mistaken! and yet if you want to talk to someone about something, whatever it is, my skype is alkoholno_zavisim !!! if you want to scratch something sometimes and calmly there is no point in going to study in another city, just sometimes go to a party and give yourself away. and you will see how little by little you will start to make friends with a lot of people !! you just don't have to care !!! I do so and believe me I'm a rifle !!!
Hi, I'm in the same situation and I'm 18 years old. I understand more and more that it is not worth looking for friends, because there are none. They are all your friends as long as they benefit from you, when the benefit disappears they become acquaintances who call once a year and finally you start to annoy them with who knows what and they almost hate you. Life has become such that a person seems to be a friend to himself and must always have one thing in mind for everyone, because good friends today become enemies tomorrow. If you have 1 girlfriend, stick with her and don't miss her (if she's a real girlfriend of yours), you don't need her anymore because you don't know what you can get yourself into. This is my opinion, you don't have to accept it, but I can assure you that I have suffered a lot from friends and I don't think I will ever be able to find them, they are all just acquaintances.
Don't worry, darling, you will find friends, you say yourself that you are funny and good, there will always be some smarter people to appreciate you! I myself, 18 years ago, had a lot of friends and acquaintances, I went to Italy .... and now I, like you, sometimes wonder when to go out for a coffee .... it's easy to die for a friend but hard to find one that dies for you ... don't trust anyone completely, everyone thinks of themselves ... and one more thing, why don't you go out for coffee alone, sometimes it's very nice, my skype is mila-89
Thanks for the advice:)
Hi, I'm 28 years old girl. Write to me at: [email protected] I have friends and they are my treasure.
Hello, some time ago I had a girlfriend who I thought was real, but when she started dating a boy I realized that he is more important than me, so we started dating less and less .. and now she is without a boyfriend, but also without friend because we no longer have anything in common and she has changed a lot. And I'm lonely .. I have a friend but good, it's a pity I don't have it :(
Hello and ace I have the same problem without real friends I have someone to go out with if I want but they are not my friends just for going out are users. I'm tired of such people who just look to use you on mahhh there are old people who watch to make you only dirty and to create problems are made to your friends and at the same time they use and then stab you in the back I want to find a but real friend with whom I can share everything that weighs on me with my mother we are like sisters and friends we share everything but there are still things I can't share with her.
Am number 11 - where are you from?
I wasn't the only one who doesn't have friends :( I have a lot of acquaintances with whom we say hello, but unfortunately I don't have real friends. I don't know what the problem is in this fucking world.
Yes, I am too, I had many "friends", but they all turned out to be traitors and stabbed me in the back one by one until I was completely alone. It's awful to be lonely.
It's the same with me ... there are no real friends, they are all traitors ... and to go to another city there no one knows you and maybe you will find company but don't be soft so don't share much with them ... I don't know after 1 year I will go to another city and I hope I will find if you want to talk to me my skype is denis_belqta1788
But I go to another city to study higher and at the same time I have to start from scratch to live, although it is very difficult, I believe that I will find a friend and especially a serious relationship. I do not know if it will happen, but it's not bad to dream again did not come out ... I will just live I do not know at the moment terribly crippled myself
And no one is looking for me ... even for a coffee :(
Am I the only person here who thinks of getting together somewhere? :)
Where do you want us to meet, just say it yourself?
For several days I have been in the same situation, people I had as friends betrayed me and abandoned me, the nasty thing is that my best and only friend we see 1-2 times in a few months, because it is far away. The feeling is terrible to be alone, you constantly want to cry, and you don't have the strength even for that :( I want to have many friends again and to be happy, I don't know why people change like that ?!
My name is Ivan Matev, from Stara Zagora, almost 18. I came across this forum by chance and it became interesting to me. I guess during this period you managed to find close people. I was in your situation, I went through many difficult stages of life despite my age and now I am glad that I can say that I have a person who would give everything for me and vice versa. No sense in wondering why people don't like you, everyone is different, one likes something in you, another - no, that's how people are. It is important to always stick to your principles and there will be a person who will appreciate you! Regarding the idea of gathering, I am 100% wrapped up, but I have no idea which cities you are from. Greetings! Skype: ivan_d_matev5
I think the idea of studying in another city will help. I am in the same situation, I am 25 years old, I studied in another city and came home. Not that I made any friends there, but it can happen with you. I would use the same description for myself, but incomprehensibly for me I have not had a close friend for 2 years. It weighs a lot on me and begins to affect relationships with my loved ones. I'm from Varna
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Hello, my problem is the same .. only for me the case is that I lost my friends because I lost faith in them. It's just that they don't care about me at all (and other people have said it) I also can't stand girlfriends who fuck with me, and I can't call them friends at all. Otherwise, your description is the same as I am. If someone wants support from someone and does not feel alone, write to me on skype: sexy_vikenceto Good luck to all!
Hello! And I'm in the same predicament about friendship. :( It wasn't like that before ... I stopped looking for guilt in myself a long time ago - I just don't have it. I share the opinion that friendship is wealth! I know what it's like to have it, but I know what I can see that only intelligent people have written here, I am Milena and I am from Targovishte, and my Skype is bambi_37
I'm in the same situation, but I'm 12. I have many acquaintances and only 2-3 girlfriends. One will come out, the other doesn't write to me because it's not online, and the third chat-pat annoys me. Now I stand alone in us and wonder who to go out with and look for such opinions, only we don't know how old they are.
So I'm 15 (on July 28 I will do 16) and I have the same problem with several boys we know from children we live in the same block and before we were inseparable. It was impossible to see any of us alone, but they are older than me (I am the youngest in the group) and some of them already have books and drive their cars and they gradually forgot about me, they rarely called me for coffee, and they don't call me anymore to hear what I'm doing, at least if I'm alive. They all go out as it was before, but they don't call me if I'm the youngest, I can't understand it, and I'm not someone who quarrels with them, even in principle, I was the soul of the company, I just made them laugh and we all laughed together. quite nice now that I think and my eyes are watering. However, I know
I'm lonely too! there are no friends for me (some are sluts, others are stupid, others are stupid, others are impudent) ... I can't find out if I'm the only one who is right ...
I'm the same girl from the previous comment, to clarify I'm 11 I'll be 12 soon, and I have only 3 girlfriends, more or less to n: 27 (I won't go out, the other-I'm in the village, the third-I'll call you in a little while -but it doesn't ring, the fourth one is not on Skype, and the fifth one is in a sheep's bath, I'm Sofia) disgusting, but I can't stand it, the little ones will call me. (SEE YOU) ....... ..
YOU WILL HAVE FRIENDS
Hi, I'm a 15 year old girl and my problem is that I only have 2 girlfriends. One does not live in my city, and the other parents do not let her go out much. Like most girls, I want to go out for coffee, to a disco in the evening, but I don't have anyone with me. When I watch my acquaintances have fun going out to discos and then I see pictures on facebook, I feel sick and cry. I only go out for coffee when I'm at school.
Hi, I don't have any friends either. I do not leave us because I have no one with me. It's awful to be lonely. Since I don't go out I read books all the time. And those who are my friends live far away.
everyone gets their trials .... sometimes one has to think .... and what is the conclusion .... what does karma teach me at the moment .... and I have had a knife stabbed in the back .... but if you find the strength in yourself to forgive the betrayal of old friends ... you will move on to the next lesson ... and you will even find many new ones .... all religions teach forgiveness .... that is the positive ... although there are such situations ... when you forgive .... still .. it will not be the same as before .... but I think it is right to forgive ... or ... to accept that you are chose to be alone ... in which there is nothing wrong ... but for me if you are left alone .. it is out of fear-out of fear of being hurt ... and with the pain come the conclusions and the next lessons ... no be afraid ... enter the next lesson with curiosity ....
I'm the same I want to finish sooner and go to another city, but I doubt it will be different there
I'm 16 and I'm in the same situation. I have only two girlfriends and I see them 1-2 times a month. However, studying in another city is not far and I travel every day, at school I understand my class and I have friends, but since I'm from elsewhere we don't go out together. very 1-2 every few months. It turns out that from the two chairs on the ground. When I changed schools, I lost some of my friends in my city. We used to be best friends with two other girls, now they still see each other, but they don't look for me, we don't even say hello to one of them, as it's raining. there is no one with whom.
Don't worry a lot about talking behind your back do you think there are friends who don't talk behind your back? no, there are no such people, there are only villains and envious people, so there is nothing to think about when you are 18, there is still time in my opinion, you are a cool girl, but raise your self-esteem and think what is more important for you or others? You know, but be more confident and strong! * Wizard *
Hello! I am 15 years old. I have the same problem, 2 months ago I had a very good friend, but I don't know why she decided that my behavior was bad and that she doesn't want me anymore in her life. I feel really bad, she blocks me from everywhere, she said terrible words to me, but I'm not like her and I would never do as she did to me! I was left without any friends