Hello! I have been in a relationship for 5 years and something, we also have a child. Recently, my partner is getting tired and has no desire for sex. We have sex once a week, if I insist for a long time. He was asleep a few days ago, I picked him up, so he woke up and we did something. What to do? I need this more than once a week! I told him, I want to, I do some things, but the result is zero.
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You're fat or you're just fed up with his whims. IF you sing about his sex, I can't imagine how he is about the other.
I am a man of 39 and I also have a 5 year old child. Personally, my case is that I push myself. I think about food, about bills, I get quite nervous. Although I don't think about renting. The woman I live with is crazy. He sends me to work with a scandal. He greets me with a scandal. I am constantly explained how I do nothing, etc. I have not been with a woman for about 4 years. And to touch her is a mission impossible. I think the daily workload and thinking about how to provide something better for our family acts like bromine.
Sex is not the most important thing. Watch your child and enjoy him. Enough with this sex. Your love and your family is not based on this, I'm sorry, but it's true;))
I advise you to first make sure that the problem is not in you. If you don't attract him enough, for example, it's normal that he doesn't want to. If the problem is not in you, talk to him and listen to your intuition.
That's why people find lovers, because they like 300 dawns to ask for sex from a person who doesn't like it.
If you are relaxed and no longer so attractive, try to get in shape, tighten your make-up, dress more provocatively. It's not all about what you do, you have to attract him sexually to make him want you. Maybe he's tired lately or there's another one I prefer not to put in the foreground, let him have one last chance. Take your time, look for the problem in it, it may be in you, in the things around you, etc. The reasons may be thousands, try to understand where the problem is :) From birth, from your appearance, from fatigue and etc. - I do not know, I do not know your husband, but there is a reason you need to understand. I want to, it doesn't work.
He must be doing it with another.
Author, if you have any similarities with the woman at number 2, quickly enter the class that such men are easily "stolen". You do not need effort, and they are successful, responsible, and with women who offer nothing but scandals, and are no longer good-looking. And from women like you, who don't see how, to be sexy and desirable, but only mutter. There is no man who can resist an attractive / sexy lady, there is no man who just does not want. There is a problem in you, in him, in the relationship, the appearance, the attraction, the health reasons or something. I don't know a man who has everything, whether he is 6 and has no desire, if you repel him in some way, or don't attract him, that's another matter. It is easiest for you to catch a lover, he a mistress and what? The problem is not solved that way, try to attract it, not ask for it. He must, to want by force does not happen, it happens, but somehow out of obligation, to satisfy her that she does not keep silent, but not with pleasure, but by force. Change yourself, with another it is easiest but inefficient, and at the same time someone else can win your husband. You start to wonder, and that doesn't lead to anything good. Only you can change that.
Up to 2: Get away with 300. Things will only get worse. I was like that at your age. Things turned out to be very trivial - a lover. Just look around.