Hello. I have been having sex for 4 months. He is my first. In the beginning I knew that the first time it hurts, it takes time, practice, but things don't work out. We do it at least 4 times a week, all on his initiative. It attracts me, I want it. I can't imagine being with anyone else. I'm used to it, but when we start and a worry starts, it's like it's the first time. I'm dry and I don't think he's feeling well anymore. We used lubricant, we have already stopped. I feel it, it doesn't hurt, but there is no pleasure ... is it normal? He says he's fine, we change positions, not much, but I'm more anxious and I prefer him to be on top. The age difference is quite big, but the problem seems to be in me? !! Why am I not feeling well? Not to mention an orgasm ... At 21 years old. I am and instead of being in my whirlwind .. I ...
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Because he can't predispose you. If you are not aroused, do not expect hydration.
My first friend and I were in a lot of pain, I almost didn't feel pleasure and I constantly prayed that it would end faster, but there was somehow a lack of tenderness and hugging before, kisses ... there was a game ahead, but now when I think about it I didn't feel beloved. Now I am with a new boy, whom I love more than anything and surprisingly for me my body reacts very quickly to his touch and I am almost always ready, even without trying too hard. Now going back and analyzing the situation is very strange, because the first boy was handsome and there were a hell of a lot of girls who wanted him. The second is the complete opposite - I was his first and he was never a womanizer, he is cute but his character is what I fell in love with. What is the conclusion? Spiritually connected people are always ready to connect physically. What about these,
He must be small, but he obviously doesn't have enough experience. If you were with a playboy with an approach, you would run straight. As you gain experience with men, you will see that the reason is not in you. In bed, the man is the leader.
He's not big, yes ... But he says he's done everything in sex, and he's actually starting to get rough and it hurts. Absolutely the pleasure evaporates. The author