No Sex For 23 Years

   Open. ;) Then it's easier.

   Well, it opened, boy, it's not a good idea to close it. I recently went through such a period for 3-4 months, but I did it on purpose. I just wanted to rest. I went through a separation from a long-term relationship, then a few short ones in which nothing happened and I decided to rest a bit from everything, and I went with a friend for coffee once every 2-3 days and there with the contacts, and at work de but there is no way. from the beginning of December I decided that I had enough rest and started going out again to discos, restaurants, cafes. I started calling a friend and a girlfriend to go out. It's not good for girls to see you only with boys, you have to have contacts with other girls, it's not necessarily intimate, they just have to see you move with girls, even as friends you don't have to be beautiful. Closing and not communicating with people of both sexes only leads to depression, don't cause it. Especially in the winter it is even easier to get depressed. Find your company and move, not only cafes and pubs can walk the dogs, or just wander around the neighborhood and little by little things will be sorted out and you will have a larger circle of people. And that means you're more likely to meet a girl and like yourself. Good luck from me!

   Start communicating

   I'm in your position too, but I'm 27 years old. What to do, nothing. Except you pay for sex every month. If you wait for the girl to fall from the sky, it won't happen. It's all about money. You pay, you knock, you don't pay, you stand alone. There is no free lunch. The bad thing now is that firstly not everyone has the opportunity to pay for this pleasure, secondly, it is not known what kind of companion he will come across. Either way, you'll be alone for the rest of your life, better pay a companion than wait for a boyfriend you'll never find, I guarantee you. If I haven't found it, you probably won't find it either, although I wish you success in your elusive endeavor. If you try to communicate, something may happen, but it will be difficult to break. I'm just like you.

   Oh, dear child. You are a good person. Get out. Go out, cafes, discos.

   Hello. You need to open up, make friends, communicate with girls and have sex more often. Success!

   The situation is almost the same for me, with the difference that I am a virgin and 21 years old. And I do not communicate with women, at most to ask someone about something related to work / university (I study a prestigious specialty). I have no friends, only acquaintances (all male, as you can already guess), with whom I see from time to time. Otherwise, calm down, there are a lot of men like us. Some are virgins and others have long periods of drought. These women like to abuse their youth and share top men in their best years than to catch up with someone on their own rug. This can be attributed to their hypergamous nature, their extremely wrong self-esteem, and the fact that the majority of them rate 80% of men as "ugly" (see Tinder and OkCupid, they are a pretty good reflection of reality).

   Thanks for the advice. I want to say that I am very silent and generally do not talk to people. He has a few friends around him, only boys, and we talk mainly about football, there is simply no way to change it.

   If you ask, I'll tell you what to do. Because the situation obviously weighs on you and because you are a man, you have no choice but to act in the direction of change. Men act, they don't sit and grumble in forums like numbers 4 and 7. As I listen to them, they've already figured out whether, even though they're 20 or so ... and of course women are to blame. I was like you 20 years ago. Then a relative of mine once sat down and explained to me what I would tell you. Shyness is one of the most serious problems for a man. You have to make a conscious effort to overcome it, because it will hinder you for the rest of your life, and not only with women. First, start by changing your inner conviction of who you are, what you represent as a person, and how you feel about yourself. You have to consciously build in yourself through repeated repetition, firm conviction, that you are a wonderful, dignified and confident man who walks through life with his head held high, who knows what he wants and how to achieve it, and who has dreams that he will achieve, whatever it costs him. In short, you must have the conviction that "You are the Man." Here I am not talking about being arrogant and behaving arrogantly with others, I am talking about radiating confidence and calmness that whatever happens around you cannot affect your inner principles and cannot distract you from your goals. It will be difficult to imagine it at first, but if you persist, it will become part of your inner radiance. And people will feel it, because your behavior will change. The second phase is to force yourself to communicate with all kinds of people in order to break your shame of communication. Become a master of the short conversation. Talk about whatever you like - whomever you like - saleswomen, seniors (very gracious interlocutors), waiters, the master of your car, random people on the street ... use every occasion to talk and try to keep it for a little longer, than you are comfortable with. If you manage to do it, it will become easier. Soon you won't have any problems having a conversation with anyone, and the beautiful women for you will just be what they really are ... people like everyone else. And now the women. Remember from me that women like to be led by confident and dominant men. If you want success with them, you have to be unshakably confident, a dominant man who knows how to make decisions and makes the woman feel safe with him in every way you can imagine. That's why they don't like insecure and shy men ... they just don't have the balls to do what it takes to be with a woman. They sit in the corner, scared to death of rejection, and prefer to do nothing just to keep their fragile egos. The shy put the woman above them, are afraid of her and put her on a pedestal. There is no woman in this world who feels sexually attracted to a man who has placed her above him and sees her as some kind of supernaturally frightening creature. Once you are confident in the conversations, first start communicating with women on neutral topics and without a sexual context. Gradually like some of them and try to become more sexual with them - hang them, blur them, look them in the eyes, lightly touch them and offer them to see each other in private. Don't worry about giving up in any way and don't take it personally. Not everyone has to like you, and that's perfectly fine. Lastly - your personal life. You must have a life full of events and interesting activities. Women are irresistibly attracted to men with interesting lives, who passionately follow their dreams and manage to attract women to their world. For you, women should not be an end in themselves, but a source of pleasant sensations. The paradox is that when you stop taking them seriously and giving them too much importance, they start to feel terribly attracted to you. I hope I was at least a little helpful. Success! Women are irresistibly attracted to men with interesting lives, who passionately follow their dreams and manage to attract women to their world. For you, women should not be an end in themselves, but a source of pleasant sensations. The paradox is that when you stop taking them seriously and giving them too much importance, they start to feel terribly attracted to you. I hope I was at least a little helpful. Success! Women are irresistibly attracted to men with interesting lives, who passionately follow their dreams and manage to attract women to their world. For you, women should not be an end in themselves, but a source of pleasant sensations. The paradox is that when you stop taking them seriously and giving them too much importance, they start to feel terribly attracted to you. I hope I was at least a little helpful. Success!

   Guys, there is no such thing as a "handsome man". If women chose a man for beauty, men would hang out in beauty salons;) And don't tell me Brad Pitt. If Brad had been a little wiser, he wouldn't have caught up with this nightmare who collects monkeys from Africa and kicked them to fuck them. The man must be rather interesting. Look at how ugly men go with beautiful women. How? Well, they are interesting. You can't earn those women who are looking for money with anything else, but the more normal ones want interesting men. To support them, but not "girlfriends" Communicating with women is no different than communicating with men, but if you look at them with drooping chins and swollen panties you will definitely not enter the column of boyfriends;) In other words - talk to them, talk with them as with friends and at some point you can ask for sex; ) So - in a friendly way then if you get dirty well. If they cut you off ... mii quo so much - you will swallow it the next one as well;)

   Unfortunately, it is true that there is no free lunch. Either with money for lunches, dinners, cinemas, jewelry, trips, a car, a house, etc., or with money for paid love. Everything is so commercial that they are just looking at what to get from their relationship. Let me tell my story, I had a relationship for 10 years, I was very happy that the girl enjoyed small things, a walk somewhere in Bulgaria, not greedy for anything more, WHILE suddenly changed, she wanted to go out often, to spend something constantly , started pushing for trips abroad, enjoying clothes, but I didn't play the dance, financial stability is important to me. As a result, I was evicted from a house in which I had invested about 20k for furniture. I have already decided to live without ... or with paid love, to pamper myself, and not to make money in a woman, just because of one hole. Attack me women, but men will understand me,

   10: Just because you're complex because you're not handsome doesn't mean you don't have handsome men. Keep in mind that some women even pay and offer the things that 11 has listed to go with them certain men (mostly beautiful). The bottom line is that both women and men want a beautiful partner.

   Number 9 said everything you needed. There is nothing to add.