Hello, Dear readers of shared. no! My story is this, I am a 21 year old boy. My problem is that at this age I have not yet had sexual intercourse with a girl. I myself feel that it is time for this to become a fact, but I do not know whether I got this feeling naturally on the basis of mental and sexual maturation or I just slipped and started thinking like that, because everyone repeats to me that it is time and so on. Here I want to note the following thing at the risk of sounding ugly and selfish, I do not need a girl in the direction of a serious relationship, love, commitment, planning a future together, etc. The thing I will want and look for in a possible upcoming relationship is that we both agree with the following parameters of the relationship itself, without commitment, without love, only for carnal desires.
The circle of close people, relatives, friends cannot understand that I am not ready for love yet. I can't explain why this is so I don't want a girlfriend, love, etc., but it's true and I have to tell you. I much prefer to sit and concentrate on a science than the ones I like, to think about questions that I ask myself and to get to the truth, it satisfies me a lot! I also thought about the option with a prostitute, but if I do it I think it will weigh on my conscience, even now I think it is immoral. I face a serious dilemma whether to meet a girl or to walk is uncomfortable to say it a second time. So my request is to advise me what you think is more correct and how to find a way out of the situation ... Thanks in advance, Have a nice day! that I'm not ready for love yet. I can't explain why this is so I don't want a girlfriend, love, etc., but it's true and I have to tell you. I much prefer to sit and concentrate on a science than those I like, to think about questions that I ask myself and to get to the truth, it satisfies me a lot! I also thought about the option with a prostitute, but if I do it I think it will weigh on my conscience, even now I think it is immoral. I face a serious dilemma whether to meet a girl or to walk is uncomfortable to say it a second time. So my request is to advise me what you think is more correct and how to find a way out of the situation ... Thanks in advance, Have a nice day! that I'm not ready for love yet. I can't explain why this is so I don't want a girlfriend, love, etc., but it's true and I have to tell you. I much prefer to sit and concentrate on a science than those I like, to think about questions that I ask myself and to get to the truth, it satisfies me a lot! I also thought about the option with a prostitute, but if I do it I think it will weigh on my conscience, even now I think it is immoral.
I face a serious dilemma about whether to meet a girl or to walk is uncomfortable to say it a second time. So my request is to advise me what you think is more correct and how to find a way out of the situation ... Thanks in advance, Have a nice day! I much prefer to sit and concentrate on a science than the ones I like, to think about questions that I ask myself, and to get to the truth, it satisfies me a lot! I also thought about the option with a prostitute, but if I do it I think it will weigh on my conscience, even now I think it is immoral. I face a serious dilemma about whether to meet a girl or to walk is uncomfortable to say it a second time. So my request is to advise me what you think is more correct and how to find a way out of the situation ... Thanks in advance, Have a nice day! I much prefer to sit and concentrate on a science than the ones I like, to think about questions that I ask myself and to get to the truth, it satisfies me a lot! I also thought about the option with a prostitute, but if I do it I think it will weigh on my conscience, even now I think it is immoral. I face a serious dilemma about whether to meet a girl or to walk is uncomfortable to say it a second time. So my request is to advise me what you think is more correct and how to find a way out of the situation ... Thanks in advance, Have a nice day! that it will weigh on my conscience, even now I think it is immoral.
I face a serious dilemma about whether to meet a girl or to walk is uncomfortable to say it a second time. So my request is for you to advise me what you think is more correct and how to find a way out of the situation ... Thanks in advance, Have a nice day! that it will weigh on my conscience, even now I think it is immoral. I face a serious dilemma whether to meet a girl or to walk is uncomfortable to say it a second time. So my request is to advise me what you think is more correct and how to find a way out of the situation ... Thanks in advance, Have a nice day!
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You express yourself well, but this does not change your naivety, which is the result of lack of experience. Sex is sometimes just sex, but in a "friends with privileges" relationship, feelings almost always appear in at least one of the two countries. You look smart to me, read about hormones and their levels during sex and then, I guess you'll understand the scientific point of view and why these relationships are not a good alternative. One-time sex is another, you can easily try it and neither you nor the girl will fall in love. There you meet a person, you do what you do and in the morning you may not even drink your coffee together. You will probably never see each other again or you will see each other, but you will miss each other. If you start sleeping with a girl who is around you daily or often enough (colleague, friend, acquaintance), the parameters of your relationship will gradually change until someone develops more serious feelings and begins to have expectations, then the relationship will either become a real relationship or will collapse. And even if you choose a stranger, she will still become familiar to you after you have crumpled the sheets a number of times. Go out and sleep with someone once, as long as she is that type of person and agrees with it, no problem. If not, pay yourself a 'professional' and get the job done so you don't have to worry about it afterwards. And he forgot these relationships only for sex, in theory they are great, in practice almost no one succeeds. I have 2-3 familiar couples who started on the same principle and now live together and are like small families. I have read dozens of topics in which someone has developed feelings in this type of relationship and is hanging in the air or just committed.
Women like fun types, and you're boring from what's written so far. Science teaches her, but a chick doesn't need these things. You also need laughter, salivation and you can't win it for sex. There are many frivolous women who are happy without committing (supposedly in the beginning), but you have to become their friend, communicate with them, have fun with your nonsense, not depress them. If you get out of bed and have fun with them, things are already changing and they only want for themselves:))) Learn a little about the female psyche, don't be an oligophrenic. You'll stay with the chicks and the companion better for you, really.
That it is immoral to be with a prostitute. It gives something, you in turn pay and receive. It is much better in your case if you do not want commitment, love, etc. You may well find a young single woman and she agrees at first, but then she is very likely to ask for something more. I have much more respect for men who pay a companion than to offer some women, but we only for sex. Don't hope for more, Emmy. Not only do they take advantage of the woman, they also waste time, and in the end she is guilty of wanting something more.