Nobody Wants Me, I'm Ruined!

   Girl do not despair. Life is ahead of you and you still have a lot of acquaintances ahead of you. I've been in your situation and know that if you have dullness, things will get better

   Girl, please do not grieve, you have a lot to live and everything will be fine sooner or later. Everyone has had difficult periods in their lives, and you are 15, in puberty and everything is a mess, I understand how you feel, I've been through something like this, but don't give up. A few tips: try to stop thinking about your problems (overthink) just don't. You need to care less and everything will be fine. Don't kill yourself and stop hurting yourself. Just think about my words, to inflict additional pain on yourself, apart from the mental one, is something meaningless and stupid. And for suicide, it may sound trite, but you live 1 time and there is no reason not to be able to live your life normally. The other thing I recommend is to start listening to music or do something that calms you down (if your music is chalga - don't, with depressive - change it with positive, and not to sing about sadness and how awful everything is (as I said I went through something like that and it helped somehow). If not music, find a hobby or go in for sports, for example, and there are other people there and you can find nice people (but in no case be negative to them or complain to them, because everyone would avoid someone who just complains. You're closed in on yourself, I guess - try to be friendly to people and be open. Well, that's for now from me, I'll be happy if you answer or I've helped with something. And don't forget- "And myself, the warrior is a warrior! "

   Hello, one of the easiest solutions to a problem like yours is to start doing something - for example, if you have a hobby, to indulge in it (there you will find people with the same interests, ie you will be able to find someone friend). Another thing you can do is sign up for sports. There are still a lot of people your age there and you will find someone to like. Suicide does not solve the problem! You don't know where you're going after that ... it could be worse than it is now! Don't despair, just think how many people have health problems and want to live - and you're healthy (I hope or at least certainly don't have serious health problems). Your only problem is that you have no friends. I know it's hard to get out of this situation, but you have to start something that brings you a lot of people together for one purpose (as I said above, a hobby or a sport, and maybe some voluntary initiative - there are often some). Don't give up so easily! When you find a soul mate, you will see how happy you will be and you will wonder how such stupid ideas came to your mind!

   Hello! :) I'm 20. Sometimes I'm in the same situation, especially when I think about how much more beautiful most of the girls are, I have a very bad looking face and dripping hair. Personally, I do not believe that I will ever have a person close to me with whom we will always be together. But I guess I can do without it, albeit with difficulty. It's as if I have an insurmountable worry about what others think of me as I pass by: I guess you're a much better looking girl. And you're still growing now. You'll look better in 2-3 years. You can put on a little makeup, like a black pencil and blush, for example. They work very well and for me personally they are the most suitable make-up even for everyday use.

   Hello! I am a 17 year old boy. When I was your age, I felt the same way. I had a lot of friends, a lot of dates, parties, BUT I was madly in love with one girl, and she decided to play with me, gave me hope, and then said she was in love with another. Then I was overthrown. I didn't want to live. Two months later I couldn't relax, I always thought about it. Once I just stopped caring. At 16, I was with different girls every night. There was a lot of sex, alcohol, parties. She just changed me, I was a complete whore. Here I am at 17, I'm the same, but I don't care about anything, I want to live. I wanted to tell you that you shouldn't care. Be more confident and friends will show up. Meet someone. I'm sure you don't have friends because you don't feel like living and you're depressed. When I collapsed during those 2 months, I felt the same way.

   I often read about children or young people who injure themselves by cutting their hands, I wonder how adults can not pay any attention and not notice that something is wrong with this child, we fail people! blindness

   Don't despair and don't get depressed! Start reading! And he learned that in life the strongest people are those who have suffered and at one point in their lives have been broken but this has inspired them and they have stood up, returned stronger and become great people (Writers, artists, leaders, geniuses, etc ..) So if you understand me do not despair and use this as a plus !!! Other people do not know what is wrong with you and live in their own spoiled monotonous way. I completely agree with number 3! Calm down depression is your biggest enemy it can make you unrecognizable! Just relax and say to yourself ".. let whatever happens .." life is one and the fact that once you have broken should inspire you to get up and conquer time and the world and not to break! Only the weak in life break !!! The strong stand up and become even stronger! Don't think about suicide at all because life is ONE! There is no PARADISE where to go, believe me, we only get up to fertilize the soil! There are so many things you can do in your life, there are no impossible things, the earlier you start to achieve your goals, the better. Live and wait for the moment when you will explode and find your hidden talent .. -You can leave Skype or Facebook I can help you unless you want to be anonymous ... "The warrior himself is a warrior" as number 3 said - Attila

   Your only chance is to find satisfaction in yourself. Read Camus, Bukowski and others who describe how they cope with a life like yours. You are neither the first nor the last in such a situation. There is no cure, but solutions lurk everywhere.

   Why don't you have friends? Do you know why you push people away, think about it ... do you behave badly, for example. I'm 27, I've always had a lot of friends. I was amazed at how everyone showed interest in me without being beautiful or super rich. Apparently the reason is that I'm nice to everyone ... I don't impose it on myself, it comes from inside me. This is clearly felt by those around. Try to be like that ... without being stupidly good-natured, of course

   Don't despair you're only 15 you're still very young don't do things you'll regret killing yourself. I recommend that you consult a specialist, ie a psychologist. Start taking care of yourself by, for example, getting a new hairstyle or going to the market, you can try to make friends with girls your age.

   There are many videos with positive subconscious messages on you tube. They work! Examine them, choose the one that suits you best. I think it would be good to start with one to accept yourself. Be sure to read how they are listened to, it is very important! You are placed in a situation that you did not want and did not depend on you, but even if you do not believe it now, it will only make you stronger. You miss the love, the protection and the presence of a parent in general. That's why you feel so ... rejected. I guess your mother is abroad and that's why you're not together. If she went to work, she did it for a better (economic) life. Unfortunately, in Bulgaria the situation is already such that many parents are forced to choose, some take the more difficult decision and leave. The goal is always a better life and future for the child, but ... the child sometimes feels like you, unfortunately the most affected are always the children. This does not mean that you are not loved. Yes, I know, if you don't feel that in your daily life, especially at this age, it would be hard to accept that you are loved. You will understand the reasons when you are an adult, when you face those responsible for other people (children) and think about how you would act in such a situation. Then you will understand that you have been loved. How can you get out of this "hole"? Get involved in activities in which children your age participate. You may even ask if they don't need volunteers in a hospital or an organization to help orphans or animals. You have a lot of love in you, and there are many living beings in need of your love. The more you give them, the more you will have :). Start running for at least half an hour in the park, enjoy while you do it in the sun, wind and living energy around. Listen to subliminal messages or classics (classical music has an incredible charge of positive energy). Write what you plan to study, what profession do you dream of? Tell me about your hobbies, what do you dream about, apart from what you wrote? Tell me who you are, who you want to be, where you are and when do you think you can reach the one you set out to be? I will wait for the answer, so write! :) who do you want to be, where are you and when do you think you can get to the one you set out to be? I will wait for the answer, so write! :) who do you want to be, where are you and when do you think you can get to the one you set out to be? I will wait for the answer, so write! :)

   watch these videos :) Nick Vujicic-Something more http://www.vbox7.com/play:d53f1f7e81 Nick Vujicic http://www.vbox7.com/play:70decf34

   Don't be so tight! This only hurts. Go to school and make acquaintances. Just don't despair and make an effort - life is in front of you. You will see that there are both good and bad moments for every person. Maybe I wouldn't pay attention to a girl who is closed in on herself and doesn't share with me. But that's not the way! Explode to make it easier for you, make a BOOM !!

   So was I! Go to a psychologist, he will not refuse you help or reject you! Be brave! Hold on, you'll do it! :)

   Hello. I am an 18 year old boy. You know I understand you and I know how you feel. I hope the two of us meet one day. It will be cool. The fact that you don't have friends and that they avoid me makes me a problem. I have been avoided since I was a child and only liftings ... I have moved four times and I am invisible everywhere. Once they took off my pants in a gym class. Now those who do not smoke and PR think of them as strange and stupid. I am from the town of Yambol.

   hello i am also a 15 year old girl. And I've been thinking about suicide for a long time, and I've been cutting myself for almost 5 months and I've been depressed for a very long time. I only have 1-2 girlfriends, I hate meeting people. I just want to tell you that I really care about you and I'm sure there are people you don't even know but they like you and think about you and don't want you to leave this world. And I'm tired of being different, I have no self-confidence, I feel like garbage. But at times I think that if I continue to live as much as I don't want to, maybe I will see a lot of good things that will make my life better! Please don't give up, there are many more good moments ahead of you and I will feel terrible if you commit suicide! I recommend that you visit a psychologist as soon as possible, he will certainly help you. I am also considering visiting it. Be strong, be your own hero! wish you all the best :)

   Emmy, what can I tell you? I'm 29 and nobody wants me. At least you have more time in front of you.

   The most important thing I want to tell you is not to give up on life! The best things are yet to come! It is unknown in a year or two what will happen! Don't be sad, BE STRONG! Be positive, be good! I understand that you have a difficult life, but let it make you stronger, maybe something good awaits you in the future! Live your life!

   I am very familiar with this thing - depression. Find out how many more people are feeling like you right now, which means you're NOT alone, darling. Everything will be fine, It's just a period. Accept it as a test - life puts you to such tests to prove to him how strong you are and that the word | surrender | It does not exist and will never exist in your dictionary. There is still something to live for and there always will be. The world is cruel, but you can look at it from the good side. He wants to teach you many things. It's like the test of learning numbers in first grade, but if you don't learn them, there's no way you can grow up, become smarter, and prouder of yourself for taking such a big step. As for self-confidence - veki is lovely in its own unique way, which should show, because it is not right to be ashamed of yourself and shut up. Man is an amazing creature - difficult to decipher and this is exactly what is unique, that everyone is different and unusual! Promise me not to cut yourself! Please! I have a suggestion and I hope it works - for every day you don't cut yourself, you will smile at people, you will behave like a child and so you will help them to improve their mood and yours. It is very useful to help someone with something and so you understand how beautiful you are! As for your boyfriend - this is a very simple man who is obviously too deluded, and his boyfriend is terribly jealous - do not care! Look what I'm doing now - I'm trying to help you, thus helping myself to feel better! You know!? (Rhetorical question) Sounds like one of the madhouses, but a good mood fixes that of the people around you and makes you better people! Despair is not a means of survival and it will not be! Now let the wounds heal and the tears dry, and if that doesn't help, promise ME, because I THINK ABOUT YOU AND I CARE ABOUT YOU, that you will deal with it! I am with you and you are NOT alone! Remember - I WILL ALWAYS THINK OF YOU AND I WILL WORRY! HERE - YOU ARE NOT ALONE! Honey, please - DON'T GET LOST! : `)

   You say you're alone, but you're definitely not. There are many people who feel like you. I am one of them. I'm a girl your age. I have considered suicide many times, but I have not. Do you know why? Because I realized I didn't want to die. I know how painful it is to be sensitive and no one to understand you. You say you want to pour out the pain. Why didn't you do it? Write letters you will never send. Start keeping a diary. Write. Draw. Feel alive. Help a living being, not necessarily a human being. I adore puppies, if I caress one I feel calm at the moment. Make pain a life force, but don't hurt yourself. Love yourself, darling. Give your hurt heart what you expect others to give you. I'm sure you don't want to end your life. If so, you wouldn't be here asking for advice. See that there is hope for your happiness, because you still want to live. Life is what it is. You can't change people or make them love you. Love yourself as you are - love each of your moles and scars. Do not despair, pour out the pain, accept yourself with all your shortcomings. It helps, I know it from experience. I've been doing all this for 2 years and I really feel happier. And don't forget - life is not always easy. Accept your pain. I wish you peace of mind! To know that you are not alone. I believe you! I know you will succeed, darling! accept yourself with all your shortcomings. It helps, I know it from experience. I've been doing all this for 2 years and I really feel happier. And don't forget - life is not always easy. Accept your pain. I wish you peace of mind! To know that you are not alone. I believe you! I know you will succeed, darling! accept yourself with all your shortcomings. It helps, I know it from experience. I've been doing all this for 2 years and I really feel happier. And don't forget - life is not always easy. Accept your pain. I wish you peace of mind! To know that you are not alone. I believe you! I know you will succeed, darling!

   Darling, don't do that. And I felt like you at your age. Like you, I was anxious and everyone treated me terribly. Ask yourself what's wrong with me, why people behave like I'm sick with a deadly disease, I even ran away from us once because I was tired of that attitude in both schools and in the other, and for me things went like this, that one of my old classmates knew one of the new ones, and the fame of smotla came to me again. And so by going to the school psychologist I already felt better, over time people started not behaving like that and I became friends with them. Some people still made fun of me, but by the 11th grade everything stopped. I hope it happens to you too. If you are going to feel better, go and think of a psychologist, pour out your soul to him, maybe this will help you find yourself, your confidence and the way to others. I wish you success and hope things get better. As for those who have rejected you, do not regret it in life, people will come and go, only those who really care about you will stay in it, and who they are, time will tell. This summer, go to a psychologist and try to work on yourself and your self-esteem. If you do not feel well in class and school, you can talk to yours to move you, so with the change you will be able to start in a brand new place where no one will know about your previous life. I wish you success in overcoming the problem and then share what is happening! Keep your head up ! those who really hold on to you will remain in it, and who they are, time will tell. This summer, go to a psychologist and try to work on yourself and your self-esteem. If you do not feel well in class and school, you can talk to yours to move you, so with the change you will be able to start in a brand new place where no one will know about your previous life. I wish you success in overcoming the problem and then share what is happening! Keep your head up ! those who really hold on to you will remain in it, and who they are, time will tell. This summer, go to a psychologist and try to work on yourself and your self-esteem. If you do not feel well in class and school you can talk to yours to move you, so with the change you will be able to start in a brand new place where no one will know about your previous life. I wish you success in overcoming the problem and then share what is happening! Keep your head up ! I wish you success in overcoming the problem and then share what is happening! Keep your head up ! I wish you success in overcoming the problem and then share what is happening! Keep your head up !

   FROM THE AUTHOR: Hello dear and good people! I want to tell you that every day when I fall asleep and when I wake up I think of you friends! I have read with pleasure all the advice and kind words from you! Honestly, I understand that there are people in the world who are good and can give you FAITH, HOPE AND LOVE to move forward! I would very much like to meet all of YOU! To hug you and shake your hand! You are wonderful THANK YOU AGAIN! I want to tell the people from comments 19 and 20 to be STRONG, because it hurts a lot from the pain and loneliness! I would like to meet you and give you all the love I hide in myself! I will manage, I know it, although it will be difficult for me to succeed, I will step forward on my own and I will just hold on and maybe one day I will find someone who will love me! :(

   From the author of number 19 know that there is a boy in Yambol who understands you. I want you to be strong and NEVER give up. Surely fate will bring us both together. I respect people like you very much. I also want to hug you and shake your hand. I ask the administrators to publish my Skype so that the girl can contact me. ............. v. Write to both. If you are from Yambol, it will be super

   From the author of number 19 and number 27 my skype is ....., not ............... or fix my comment. Where I added an accurate and interesting remove between ............. I ask the administrators to publish my Skype to contact the girl with me Moderator - I inadvertently posted in Sk. 19 some Skype, but on our site this is absolutely forbidden! WE DO NOT MAKE EXCEPTIONS

   I live the same way and my only dream is the same