I have an interesting story. We have been living and sleeping together for 2 years, but we have known each other for a total of 6 years, with sex in the evening and arousal when we go to bed we have no problems. For the second time, however, I notice that something doesn't work for him if he dresses erotically. The first time he read something on the computer, I got dressed, I surprised him and with erotic movements he stopped reading, looked at me, hugged me and kissed me and said it's okay and that's it and I sat down with him to read and I just hugged me. The second time it was something similar - I greeted him from work erotically dressed as is fashionable now with rope underwear, socks with holes, nightgown lace abe as it is in the photos and sites. He came home, looked at me, hugged me, kissed me and said that he could prepare like this before going to bed. Now he was tired and would not get aroused and did not like sex. I stayed dressed like that and we continued with our usual activities before going to bed. In the evening, when we went to bed, I decided to ask him at one point - "isn't it exciting for you?" He answered "no", I told him "don't you like me to be dressed like that" he answered that I look like a prostitute whether it was better to wear a short neckline or a short dress, I asked him "so another time I don't play dress like that" he said nothing, after two questions on the third he said that he didn't like such dresses. But when I show him, in principle, someone such a chick in a picture and shouts that she was very cool and it was exciting, and he would like it if I dressed like that .... and I didn't understand anything, dear people, how to dress and behave . In the evening, when we went to bed, I decided to ask him at one point - "isn't it exciting for you?" He answered "no", I told him "don't you like me to be dressed like that" he answered that I look like a prostitute whether it was better to wear a short neckline or a short dress, I asked him "so another time I don't play dress like that" he said nothing, after two questions on the third he said that he didn't like such dresses. But when I show him, in principle, someone such a chick in a picture and shouts that she was very cool and it was exciting, and he would like it if I dressed like that .... and I didn't understand anything, dear people, how to dress and behave . In the evening, when we went to bed, I decided to ask him at one point - "isn't it exciting for you?" He answered "no", I told him "don't you like me to be dressed like that" he answered that I look like a prostitute whether it was better to wear a short neckline or a short dress, I asked him "so another time I don't play dress like that" he didn't say anything, after two questions on the third he said that he didn't like such dresses. But when I show him, in principle, someone such a chick in a picture and shouts that she was very cool and it was exciting, and he would like it if I dressed like that .... and I didn't understand anything, dear people, how to dress and behave .
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Everyone gets excited about different things. Most men would get aroused but I don't know why your friend doesn't get aroused. I think he is aroused by something else, but you do not know what and you have to understand or ask him.
I hope I don't offend you, but you haven't said anything about it, so I'll allow myself to tell a story to a close friend of mine. She had a slightly more gorgeous boyfriend (nothing striking) who decided to surprise him with latex lingerie. When he saw her, my friend could not help but burst out laughing. He said he generally found her super sexy, but in that lingerie she looked like a sausage. Otherwise I liked such things, but I quote someone as a "slender cat woman". Well, those men, liking such pictures, like the model, the woman-image, rather than the lingerie itself.
He told you what he liked - a dress with a big necklace. And I enjoy it more than with various assholes like rope underwear. I had a boyfriend who greeted me with some very feminine dresses and without a bra - it just drove me crazy.