Hello! A 13-year-old girl writes to you. I am not writing this story in order to get sympathy or help, because no one can help me. I wear glasses. Something that is normal in most cases. I'm short-sighted. My diopters are 2, 75 on the left and 3, 25 on the right. Without my glasses, everything is very blurry, so consider that I can't go out without them. That's not enough for me. I also have an auditory nerve damage and have 50 percent left ear and 55 percent hearing loss in my left ear. I can't talk normally to a person without hearing aids, because otherwise I don't understand what he is telling me. I am writing this story with tears in my eyes, thinking that I will never recover. I have gone to so many famous doctors and they have all said that there is no hope of being cured of either. I used to live with the thought that I would never be like other children. I got used to the idea that I couldn't live without these glasses and hearing aids. My diopter is rising! I am saddened by the fact that it will continue to grow until the age of 25. I wonder what is the meaning of my life? Without these things I am nothing! I can't do anything! I'm not up for anything! What is the point of living? I can't stand it anymore, I don't want them, I can't do without them! What to do!? Thanks to everyone who read my story in case it was published and I want to ask the moderators to publish it, because it is important to me! Thank you again! What is the point of living? I can't stand it anymore, I don't want them, I can't do without them! What to do!? Thanks to everyone who read my story in case it was published and I want to ask the moderators to publish it, because it is important to me! Thank you again! What is the point of living? I can't stand it anymore, I don't want them, I can't do without them! What to do!? Thanks to everyone who read my story in case it was published and I want to ask the moderators to publish it, because it is important to me! Thank you again!
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Hello, I am a 15-year-old boy, I am short-sighted with 5 on the right and 6 on the left, and if you will believe me, I only use the glasses at school or where I watch something on TV. I play a match and I'm used to not seeing their faces, but at the expense of that I can distinguish them by the T-shirts. My diopter stopped growing a year ago, so stop worrying and try to use every minute of your life. Take away the tears and smile at everything and everyone. Nobody made fun of me, I don't see if if you found yourself in a similar situation, then you are not alone. Sign up to train something, believe me with a little zeal you will be able to do without glasses. It's not your fault that you don't see, but it will be your fault if you don't use your chance to live. People understand us. My boyfriend always helps me and tells me that he will help me when I don't see anything, but I don't need help. I just need a place to prove that I am better than those who see. I can't tell you anything about the hearing, but I'm telling you get up now and tell yourself I'll smash them into something you're good and prove to them that YOU the one who doesn't see and doesn't hear them has beaten them, they will respect you and will they respect. But if you sit down and roar at me in front of the screen, nothing will happen. Prove who you are and keep going. M 15 Plovdiv
hello, just think that your problem is easy to solve (with glasses and hearing aids). There are so many children who are sick with all sorts of diseases and they can't cope as easily as you. Many people wear glasses, as do hearing aids. I know it's very hard for you, but it could have been worse. Instead of blaming yourself, learning and developing - if you are a good and smart person, no one will take into account that you are wearing glasses and hearing aids. I can guarantee you that!
There are some books by Norbekov, about which I have heard that with certain exercises the diopter is lowered. Look for them, there are them on the net. However, a lot of perseverance is required. Another option is to look for alternative medicine. I don't know if it will help in your case, but a friend was told that she would take pills for the rest of her life and there was no cure for her problems. Finally she threw away all the pills and went to a homeopathic irisologist and after a few months everything was normal. Success! And even if things stay that way, know that everyone has a problem. It's just that not everyone can see it right away. Live fully without thinking these things.
I am a man of 29 and I also have myopia. I want to tell you that this is not a problem. It's just that a person is accepted as he is. No one is perfect and whatever we are, we have to accept ourselves. Everyone has problems, but if we don't like ourselves, how can we like others? And this, by the way, is not a big problem and some glasses do not make you less human. If you're worried that boys won't like you, keep in mind that valuable boys wouldn't have a problem with that, I'm telling you as a man who was also your age. If he has a problem, then so does his mind. This way you will be able to sift the decent ones. If you accept yourself as you are, then others will accept you, because you broadcast it to others. I've been this way and I'm telling you from the original source how it is. If the glasses bother you so much, wear lenses. And by the way, read this book, there are eye exercises at the end of the book that help some people. http://chitanka.info/text/24102/34
Darling and I am 13, I understand your pain well. There is a woman who lives in Stara Zagora, her name is Momera, she is something like an energy healer. Ask on the net there are details, you can go, she has cured countless people including me. She even fixed a completely blind child and he was seen !!! Try you will not regret it! The session costs only 10, it's nothing. Good luck!!!
If this will calm you down at least a little, I have 4 diopters of myopia, if not more! And yes, it sucks, but it's not a pain to die, and one day you can replace your glasses with lenses like I did. Look, that sounds more unpleasant to me, but are you sure there's no way they're going to operate on you and fix things? I've also heard that there are hearing aids that are implanted in the ear through surgery, but again, I'm not very familiar with the problem. You are only 13 and you will still have time to look for a solution to the problem. In addition, medicine is advancing rapidly, and what seems almost impossible today after 10 years may be a standard procedure. Don't lose courage for that! Your problems are unpleasant, but not fatal, and I'm sure you'll find a solution.
He is very right number one, you author just do not realize that everyone on this earth is not like the others, everyone tries to join the situation and does not let the circumstances hinder him. True, most have no visible problems, but invisible problems are more severe than visible ones. You do not hear because of a hearing problem, other young people, unfortunately, do not hear because of thinking problems. You can have a conversation with devices, they have a healthy ear, but they can't have a conversation because of gaps in education and upbringing. I hope you understand that there is no person on this planet who is 100% healthy and perfect, just your problems are visible to others because of the auxiliary devices / glasses and hearing aid /. You are a normal teenager and for a moment do not allow yourself to think that you have a bigger problem than other teenagers.
I do not know what to tell you!!! You are strong and I have glasses 1 on one and 2. 25 on the other. Be STRONG, STRONG, STRONG. one day it will pass. You will make a laser for correction, not so big for you. Healthy, straight enjoy life only one E !!
Think about it, though, even with glasses - you see. And some people don't! And that, even with hearing aids - you hear. And some people don't!
Unfortunately, your diopter will continue to grow, because it is a progressive disease and once you are short-sighted you will not be able to lift heavier than 2-5 kilograms and at least physical. effort will be able to detach your retinas and go blind. I know a girl with your problem who goes blind at a very young age ... Beware because if you lose your sight you don't have a normal hearing to rely on !!! Good luck. :))
You'll be fine. And I have fallen into self-pity sometimes. I also have myopia, but I also have squint, I also have a mild form of rickets (I have been hunched over since I was a child), and one of my testicles hardly works. And I've been in such a state of thinking, "I'm not normal, why do I live at all, I can't play with others because I'm squinting and I can't hit the ball, I can't drive, I'm hunched over and I look miserable, my testosterone is low and I look feminine, etc. "... You get annoyed for a day or two and it passes. And you live. And you live. And you realize that things are not so bad. They could have been worse. They could have been better, of course. But perhaps if we turn our attention to the more positive, we will perceive life more easily and have a different angle from which to observe - an angle that gives us the right to act. For example, now I find that I will probably be able to drive a suitable type of car, not every car, but still some ... So my advice is - do not let these problems prevent you from acting in your life. Act despite the problems. People with such (really mild) problems tend not to act and look for excuses for illness. Do not do it. I stopped doing it.
Why don't you stop listening to the doctors first? Then try to convince yourself that you will overcome your problems. Repeat it day after day. The will sometimes does things that medicine likens to miracles, and it is the key to what we really want. I'm not aware of the Norbekov in question (post 3), but you can try his advice - what's wrong with you? And even if your will and Norbekov fail, at least they will give you the strength to continue. It's not easy, but something tells me you will succeed! The meaning of your life can be just that - to prove to the glasses and the hearing aid that they will not determine your path and tell you how to live. Prove to yourself that you have other senses besides sight and hearing and you can handle this situation. It's not scary, just don't be afraid of anything! :)
Hi, I'm more or less like you, so I can't hear with my left ear, it just wasn't there when I was born. But now I'm going to the doctors and I'll be fine. But I'm like you, when I started first grade I had an ear bandage and everyone asked me why you were like that, but I didn't want to tell them. They avoided me and didn't want me as a friend, but it's still the case. I don't have much self-confidence and it's best to be alone. It's not so bad to be different. :)
By number ten, the doctors told me that there was an operation that was completely harmless and quick to correct this retinal problem. I personally think it doesn't just blind me by lifting something !!!
There are laser eye surgeries. A friend had nearsightedness of 3, 5 and 4 diopters and can now see without any problems. And for 3 years nothing has gone up, so calm down. Also, medicine is advancing and you have time until you turn 18.
From number 10 - On the contrary, this is why short-sighted people are not recommended to lift heavy and women with large diopters can not give birth naturally - from the strain can retinal detachment and go blind! My acquaintance was short-sighted with 9 diopters and lost his sight with a light blow ... They also performed some operations but the effect of them was almost non-existent ...