? Hello. I'm writing here with a single purpose, to be relieved. I'm a married young woman. I will not bore you with the problems of my marriage, I would just mention that we have no children at the moment, and both my husband and I are focused on our work. Nearly a year ago we were on the verge of a divorce, just the similarities in character received, we crossed the corridors that were shouting, we were busy, maybe selfish, no one cared about the life of the other, not that we were circling, nothing like that I am convinced of both sides, just everyone was busy with themselves. We had a shared hobby so I met you, an online game/military economic strategy/ So, playing this game I met a man on the other side of Bulgaria, and once was my husband. I was looking for nothing, and with the man across the street we became friends until the first few months that we exchanged the game and some other word about our personal life. In the course of time the we exchanged and the numbers and the chat existed on the Weiber, at his request, and also started phone calls, it turned out that we have a very common thing, at some point he went deeper and partly told me his story would "lighten up". I'm not a person who shares how it's been, I've been loosing, I've seen and closed the subject. After a few days, I was talking about my problems, I also shared partly and so.. A hurricane followed, a chat, conversations as it was his turn.. I broke up with my husband and moved out of our common home for a whole other reason, asked for a divorce, and we set out to act in that direction.. I was vulnerable, and because I'm used to looking for the best in people, I never questioned the word "friends." You see, one minute I was enlightened and I put the question of a rib. I thought it was something more serious, but you make the decisions was a subsequent answer. Okay, the picture made me clear. Perhaps this is the moment to mention that the gentleman in question had a 10-year relationship behind a sponge, a 5-year-old child he cared about. All the current and wires, I had a problem with that I had, I had already hooked up to shout.. I have a relative near his town, grabbed a suitcase and come to the guest.. We were busy, and obviously we were not on the clear why it was done, the next day we went to the sea.. Okay, it's bad. We went through the fights and figured it out afterwards, just like it would be. Second chance, already at a much advanced stage after months, I say that I have the opportunity to go, after one two refused to see me., T. In mine, around my town, I was busy, and as a matter of fact, I had been in a lot of trouble.. The Jans on the part of the gentleman were many, much of them meaningful, I was for 7 days 50 km from him, at his request, because a week before that I was explained and Besnâha, how disappointed by me that I said I would go and hardly the great hopes.. I went de, time for me not find.. , eventually asked me/asked/can I stay for two more days, because he wanted everything to be perfect and he would separate from his precious time for me, which I already came in more and I would whip from there. I then explained that I cannot be a friend because some feelings have emerged, until today, including maintaining some communication, but this is very short.. , I put the point today! So, dear Ladies, whose stories I've been reading for months and wondering if he cares, will he write to me, look for me... Kill that thought out of your head! No, he doesn't care, and even if he's looking for you, and some time ago, the stars have been hitting on you, everything will be backwards, and you're going to twist through the carousel one more time.
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If I could understand something-who with whom, what and why?! Such confused and unrelated reasoning and much.
At least you're a "smart" girl Who's reacted of time. It's very difficult when you're into it, and a dagger and a man in love to look from a different perspective, just the empty iove keeps you tangled in her nets. Don't let them mess with your feelings!!!
Nothing, I don't understand a girl.... Honestly.... A worse-represented story, I hadn't read until now.........
Why do women think the world revolves around them? Always, a woman is a burden to a man (but necessary from time to time), otherwise life will be very boring. There are enchanting women who manage to hypnotize the man to himself and use it to the max, but such are rare. Most of these days are a burden, which men avoid loaded, they do not find the dignity that every woman should have. Already in the minor age young girls lose this dignity, give away in a gentle way, themselves are not respected and valued, and then want respect and appreciation from their men!? There is no way to do that, they destroy what the Lord gave them-femininity. They imitate men in everything, turn into males, and claim tenderness and attention, but not! Both women are cunning and men only knock and flee, but this is not communication, but only a moment of life!
Maybe you both have guilt, but a big mistake is that you've been doing this for a long time.
I hardly understand anything. You can't make a meaningful and tidy writing. I wish you luck!
This is for the "Teen" section.
Relationships are not for children...
I watch that 8 comments are waiting for approval-I have no idea who wrote what. At the very first moment I was under the impression that the title of your theme was provoked by your own confusion, and then I came to light that it was actually addressed to the person you want to put yourself in. The man is fully aware of what he wants, probably already seen you in pictures, you can live to meet him-it's just, he does not like you as a vision, and many do not like you, there is no man who is attracted to the vision of a woman and does not wish her with her lower head. Get used or get on with more serious things on the online games, the first time emphasize the sport, tighten up your figure and you will be looking for yourself, not to hover at 50 km. From the man you liked. From your brief and vague description, I understand that there are many other things you need to work on, like read a book or another, instead of clicking on the computer, educating yourself, finding a hobby, learning to make cake, frying eggs, cutting a salad, etc.
Author, I don't know how to comment on your story. You've been through a lot and you've been through, but I feel like you're a man who throws a head in the unknown and you wait for someone to catch you on the flight. My advice is to approach the view that "men are morons"-they will use you, as they are advantageous and then they will throw you... But you can by all means experience a man, how he will react in a particular situation, and if he surrenders to the slightest difficulty, it is clear that nothing serious will come of it. Just by writing on the Internet and phone calls, there's no way to judge a person. You should see each other more often, and you'd better live together. Then the whole truth is shining, and the masks fall. I don't know what the history of your marriage is, but I guess again, it was all a quickie and it wasn't thought out. For me, it's better to live with someone for at least six months, and before you knew each other for a few months, and then start making plans for a wedding. Keep looking for your man and your love! Success. M. 32
You've done your best to give this relationship a chance to grow into something more, not a point. Some people are more impulsive and intuitive, and others need an eternity to understand what they want and make a decision, and third are outright fake actors. From the whole situation it is clear that you are a meaningful person-you know what you want and you know what you would not put up with, and this is important. There was a story that aging is a must, but growing up is optional. Smile and keep moving, life is wonderful when you look at it from the right angle!
You, for yourself, are unaware of the advice you're going to give. Those nice ladies who do at least write and tell the story.