Hi, my problem is not so unusual, it is that I can not find real friends. Don't get me wrong - I have friends, but the friendship is obviously only on my part ... Well, let's start over .... I'm 18 years old from Plovdiv, girl, I like psychology and I'm looking for friends. But not just those who are your friends today, because they can take advantage of you, but those who, even if they can't always help you, show that they care about you. I'm starting to wonder more and more if there are any and where they are. Is everyone just looking at their own benefit Is that friendship today? Aren't there people with a value system, aren't there people with ideals? Why should we always look for fault in someone or something else, but not in yourself? Are there any people with any morals at all? I start to despair more and more from this life and accept it with apathy, because I don't find anything valuable in it ... are there valuable people or is everything a constant race in which even the people we love don't matter. Should I be like that too ... to turn my back on all the values I have and become like most of my acquaintances (friends) who don't come out of coffee and the only thing they care about is parties and sex. Of course, there is nothing wrong with that, but everything must be in moderation, because the lack of such also causes a lack of measure for everything, it creates the carelessness that has gripped the country. Is not it like that? I hope you will help me with these issues, because I no longer know what to do, I do not know why any value system in today's generations is missing,
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Well, what can I tell you ... At such a time, there are such people :). I'm 15 and I don't have many friends (I count on one hand), but I know that I can count on them too. As you know, there are many ways to meet any people today. If you stand and think about life, nothing will change. Come on all the best :)))
I'm also from Pd and to be honest, lately I've been wondering if there are any real friends, because for 1 year now my best friend and I have been fighting almost every day for small things and I'm already getting nervous. , after we quarreled yesterday once again, I decided that I would not look for her anymore. If it wasn't for my boyfriend and his best friend showing me what friendship is, I'd think there was no friendship. so if that bothers you, you're not the only one;)
Hey! I was very intrigued by what you wrote! Mixing with the crowd is not the solution! On the contrary - it is a compromise with yourself - a compromise that is not worth making! I have real friends and I know what a treasure it is to be in my life! I have many things to say on the subject, but if you want, write me an e-mail: [email protected]! Will be glad to meet you! I have to share some things on the subject! You're not alone!
I understand you very well and I'm like that with people who are supposed to be my friends and obviously only I try to be friendly, and I'm a puppet for them to play with when they get bored or left alone. And I don't think you need to change to make friends - be who you are and your friends will come to you alone. At least I think that a person is more liked when he is himself and not when he pretends to be another person.
Hello. It is true that true friends are very few, but look for yourself. There are some. 4, you are mistaken by this logic if everyone waits for the other to go to him nothing will happen. Look for yourself.
Hello! I fully understand what you mean, because I myself often feel that way. I have too few friends and this has always depressed and saddened me, but it was also a personal choice. I'm an idealist, a romantic, and I chase windmills, but in today's society, that equates you to a crazy loner who has a hard time finding people who can understand him. The desire for intellectual, emotional and spiritual development is constantly confronted with the understanding of many of my peers that the most important things are money, appearance and the party. In fact, it's all a matter of personal choice ... My only advice to you would be not to betray yourself, because I am convinced that you will not be happy if you are part of the crowd and if you lose your values!
There are no real friends in this life and I am convinced of that every day. And if there are, they are disappearing.
Darling and I have the same problem I have friends, but they are not real. When I broke up with my friend, I needed support, but no one gave it to me, and there was no shoulder to cry on. I also gave a lot for them because I thought they were real friends, but I lied. I believe that good people are valued sooner or later.
I'm a boy and I'm in the same situation. "Friends" around me a lot, but really .... no. Like number 8, I broke up with my partner and ... it's hard. The only thing my friends offer is going out in noisy company, and that's something that's not for me.
Hello, I am a boy from Plovdiv at 17 and I have the same problem - I am very modest and I have few friends. If anyone wants to write to me, my Skype is hahahadas :) I am waiting for you
Hello. My name is Mariela. Unfortunately I didn't meet yours anywhere but maybe I just didn't see it. I think you are very right and like you I have thought about where the real friends are. Now I think they are an endangered species. I often go into chats and the like, but everyone there talks about sex and they ask how you did it. If you don't want to talk about it, they just ignore you. Don't think so much of him. we live in a very confused and ill-ordered world, and I think the "salvation" of the mob without personal values is to stand up for our own. If you want, write to me. I will be happy to become your friend [email protected]
At the moment, I was thinking of changing schools because of the "girlfriends", but I decided it wasn't worth it and I think there are a few real girlfriends.
My name is Mimi and I am 13 years old. Maybe I'm the youngest here, but I also have problems with what is called "friendship"! Like you, I have a lot of friends, but not real ones. My real friends (without relatives :)) are 2 or 3 (more precisely girlfriends). Everyone else pretends to be the most powerful and the most sinless! I don't understand them! They just use people who are supposed to be good friends, and when they no longer benefit from them, they leave them and turn against them! I don't know, it seems that real friends are a rarity .... Most of those around me can easily be called "BUNS" !!! I just don't know what to do ... Who wanted to write to me - [email protected]
Hello, I am 13 and I am also from Plovdiv. Since I really despair now and sometimes like such "friendships", I decided to see the opinion of other people who also had such "friends". I know that I am only 13 and I have nothing to complain about my friends, but every day I am convinced that with everyone I have kept in touch with until recently and I have gone out, they do not remember me .. Most of my former classmates I considered them girlfriends and I thought they could be trusted, but it was a big mistake on my part, because I understood that they did not accept me as a nice person with whom they could hang out. Of course, most of them also thought about sex, they smoked at the age of 12/13 and I was also very desperate then because I had old friendships that were most valuable to me, because I will remember all the times when there was no one next to me and I just have the feeling that if I meet someone, he will one day do the same to me as all my previous "friends". That's why your parents, relatives are your best friends you can ever have, love them and appreciate them ...
You are not alone, I am totally disappointed with mine.