Hello! I'm furious ... I don't know what to think anymore .. let me start, I have a boyfriend of 8 months, everything seems to be fine, but for me there is a big problem because I love sex very much and I want it all the time, but he says that it wasn't the most important thing ... My previous one was amazing (at least in this respect), because we did it almost every day and for hours ... and now 2-3 times a month and I have to hint, to ask and ... off .... and it's not enough that we rarely do it, but it ends super fast ... not even 2 minutes !! I am very sorry, he says that it was because for the first time he is so emotional with a girl and because of that, but I am NOT SATISFIED with that at all! I don't know ... besides, it's not enough that it ends quickly, then we don't try again at all and before we start I'm not particularly excited, because he doesn't caress me at all and touches me from below ... I have the feeling that it's disgusting .. .. and I touch him and kiss him from below ... I don't know what to do and I think ...! I'm 17, he's 22. Thanks for your attention, I'm waiting for answers!
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Hello, :)))))))))) I have been married for 7 years, reading the story as if I wrote it, with the difference that he loves to make oral love, sex is amazing, but .... .... is short and we almost never repeat. They advised me, I finally found a lover! Super sex! This time, however, it was naughty, I felt like a sex toy, just used, not that I didn't like it. I ended, now again ...... dry. Last time I couldn't stand it and told him to go through the bathroom first, we talked, and the sex was great, I'm looking forward to next time :))))))
Talk to him about your problem, and if there is no change, drop it, you think sex is very important
Wow, it's like I wrote it ... we have exactly the same problem, but he justifies himself by saying that he's tired from work, that he's sleepy ... I don't know what advice to give you, because I'm in the same situation. And I don't know what to do ...
Darling, I think sex is important, and when there is no harmony, relationships sometimes break down. You love sex and for you it is not insignificant ... but for your friend, alas, it is not so important. I personally do not know a man who does not like to have sex. Talk to your friend. I would even advise you to tell him to seek help (if you love him), but if you don't have such feelings for him ... it's not the first, it's not the last ...
Oooo just throw it away - you're only 17 you need sex. When you turn 58, look for a man where you can just look each other in the eyes, play chess and sentase. You need passion and look for it.
Author: Well, what can I tell him, this topic seems to be a taboo between us ... if I decide to dump him, what can I say ?! "- Hi, we're breaking up because we don't fit in sex and you don't get up!" ... ?? ?
It is NOT possible without sex, no matter how unpleasant, the truth is, unfortunately. You have heard how good sex is after a scandal and that the more the better. You will obviously never get it from him. It is abnormal for a man that this problem will one day become not only physical but also mental and will affect your relationship. The decision is yours, but I think one day you will laugh that you even thought about it. The tension in our lives is already big enough for us to create an additional one. Good luck!
You catch a lover who will satisfy you and everything is okay :)
So am I, but what can I tell you: we do it 2-4 times a month and when we talk about this topic we always argue, that's why I'm small, but when I'm tired of him I raise a big scandal and he probably thinks about it so we do it , and if you don't throw it away, you are very young and you can find much better than him. look forward and success
The woman is to blame for the declining potency of the Bulgarian man. you all became commercial and insensitive and then you wonder what happens to the good old sex
Don't suppress it mentally. That bothers him. Google sexology and there you will read what to do.
Watch something from the internet, a movie or something else with him, to see what to do, show him and you will overcome the mental barrier.
Well, you are my age and I understand you - fortunately I do it almost every day with my friend with whom I have been for 2 years! You better talk to him or hint to him! to explain to you the real reason, if you don't drop it lightly.
Just drop this one ... what is this agony 8 months ... it is understandable 1, 2 months, there are also embarrassed people, however 8 ... something is wrong with the boy. Male 24y.o.
Abe you have fucking boyfriends how can you be a boy and not have sex twa may happen after the 50th anniversary :) :) :) :) The other option is to have another death to satisfy him: D: D: D
I had the same problem as these excuses he gets number 3 but I told him if you don't satisfy me like I will you seek sexual satisfaction elsewhere as much as I love you sex is important and in the end we can't count on just miles and nice words and romantic gestures go tell him and decide what you do
Don't rush to excite him when he's fast. Do not caress it early, but further. First a cool game - touch here, caress there - say it straight and when you get really aroused, "then open the door".
Judging by myself, there is no man who does not have sex after a day of abstinence. There is a problem with your friend, be more talkative and gentle in your relationship with him and slightly "pull out" the cause of this problem.
True, sex is not the most important thing, but if there is no harmony, sooner or later the partners begin to see only the shortcomings in the other, irritated by the presence of the other, scandals begin, and so on. until the actual separation. Sexual dissatisfaction is a sufficient motive to break up with your boyfriend, people divorce even if they do not fit in sex and are not ashamed to point it out in court. So don't worry, tell him you're not satisfied and look for something else. Life is in front of you and you will live too long to allow yourself to make such compromises with yourself. Having a "lover" and an official relationship is not a way out of the situation, sooner or later it will tire you (because it is a kind of lie) and you will be at a crossroads again ... To live fully you must have the right person next to you you are. Look for it !!! Success!
I can't believe I'm hearing something like that !! You are 17 and you have sex every day and you had sex with your ex-boyfriend and you have been having sex for 8 months, for God's sake, at what age did you start having sex?!?!
I am a little younger than you, but I already have a lot of experience in sex with my boyfriend we have been together for a year and 6 months and we have sex regularly and I have noticed that if we do not do it for a day or two and on the third day we are the bed and we are not satisfied with only once, so this is not normal, I would recommend you to look for someone else and to experience a lot of pleasure and success :)
Talk! There is no other solution ... In principle, this can happen out of anxiety, but it is only at the beginning of a relationship and after everything has been clarified and you have talked, things are gradually getting better and he is a man of years already exposed. are ...
Abe, how would you advise her to catch a lover, what nonsense, if she starts cheating at the age of 17 ... The options are either for him to have another one and not to have sex with you, something to worry about and embarrassed, not to feel confident, the other option is if he does not like sex with you, it is normal to avoid it, but according to what you wrote, I think this option is not possible with you .. A 17-year-old girl , you are neither bound nor you love him (I guess), think about whether it is worth talking and how much you will lose if you break up with him. No other relationships, etc., provided you can find someone to give you everything .. good attitude .. understanding, romance, passion, satisfying sex Act!
Husband I meet a woman who is not happy with her husband. She has never had an orgasm with him. In 2-3 minutes it ends, turns to the other side and falls asleep, and the poor thing remains unfinished. That's why I have to fix it 2-3-4 times when I see you so that I can catch up. So men either fix their women well or they will ride the broom.