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Nowadays, Do Likes Define A Person?

By bonnienclydekitties September 02, 2020 11 answers Last updated September 02, 2020

Hello. My story is different. The truth is, I feel terrible. For the first time I share my problem on the internet and I will hopefully get advice. Well, girl, I'm 15. I have a family that loves and supports me. I look slender and I'm not that ugly. I am a child who sometimes makes me feel, being alone in us, a kind of emptiness. But that's another question. This year I changed schools because in the old teaching it was not up to standard. The class is more or less good. However, I notice a different attitude towards me than my classmates. Not in a good way. Well, I have enough Facebook to keep in touch with friends who are 2-3 - I have no more friends. I have 2 photos of me in my profile and I can say that I do not collect any likes. I don't care about that. But here's the problem. Nobody takes me seriously when they see that I am not "famous". A guy who liked me asked me for my Facebook and after I gave it to him and he saw that I had few likes, he completely changed his mind about me. There are a lot of bad looking girls in the class, but they are "cool" and everyone thinks they are beautiful, and I think they are the ugliest in the class. I was told - that I was ugly, that I had no social life, I was an outsider, etc. I do not care at all whether I am "famous", "collar" and others. I just want to be equal to the others and not be thought of as inferior just because I don't like them. Meaning, I want to be perceived as I am and not be defined by the number of likes. If there are people in a similar situation, let them share. who liked me asked me for my facebook and after I gave it to him and he saw that I had few likes, he completely changed his opinion of me.

There are a lot of bad looking girls in the class, but they are "cool" and everyone thinks they are beautiful, and I think they are the ugliest in the class. I was told - that I was ugly, that I had no social life, I was an outsider, etc. I do not care at all whether I am "famous", "collar" and others. I just want to be equal to the others and not be thought of as inferior just because I don't like them. Meaning, I want to be perceived as I am and not be defined by the number of likes. If there are people in a similar situation, let them share. who liked me asked me for my facebook and after I gave it to him and he saw that I had few likes, he completely changed his opinion of me. There are a lot of bad looking girls in the class, but they are "cool" and everyone thinks they are beautiful, and I think they are the ugliest in the class. I was told - that I was ugly, that I had no social life, I was an outsider, etc. I do not care at all whether I am "famous", "collar" and others. I just want to be equal to the others and not be thought of as inferior just because I don't like them. Meaning, I want to be perceived as I am and not be defined by the number of likes. If there are people in a similar situation, let them share. and everyone considers them beautiful, and I consider them the ugliest in the class. I was told - that I was ugly, that I had no social life, I was an outsider, etc. I do not care at all whether I am "famous", "collar" and others. I just want to be equal to the others and not be thought of as inferior just because I don't like them. Meaning, I want to be perceived as I am and not be defined by the number of likes. If there are people in a similar situation, let them share. and everyone considers them beautiful, and me - the ugliest in the class. I was told - that I was ugly, that I had no social life, I was an outsider, etc. I do not care at all whether I am "famous", "collar" and others. I just want to be equal to the others and not be thought of as inferior just because I don't like them. Meaning, I want to be perceived as I am and not be defined by the number of likes. If there are people in a similar situation, let them share. whatever I am and not to be determined by the number of likes. If there are people in a similar situation, let them share. whatever I am and not to be determined by the number of likes. If there are people in a similar situation, let them share.

Answers 11

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esperance.de.tunis.net answered · September 02, 2020

   At ALL times, success has been very important to a person. Likes are just a success for some people, but don't think it's important in real life - in real life things like education, career, family and yes are important - money, but likes don't mean anything. Another issue is that often people who have a lot of likes are extroverted, which helps them in the above things, but not necessarily.

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babymetal.jp answered · September 02, 2020

   You don't care at all about such people who determine what a person is according to the number of likes. Don't deal with such idiots, stay away from them .. I wonder where the world is going, people have totally forgiven ..

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r_a_m_s answered · September 02, 2020

   Yes, the situation is somewhat as you describe it. Unfortunately, this is a damaged generation of Greetings

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snack_time69 answered · September 02, 2020

   Look, you are small and such things unfortunately make an impression on children and their immature brains. You have outgrown them and you are much smarter and better than them. You should not sleep for the likes, those who look at them and determine the people on them are not at your level.

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paleskeleton answered · September 02, 2020

   Do not care! Personally, I collect 200, but that doesn't make me any better or worse. Just focus on the really important things. Follow your dreams and live your life. School will end and what? They will remain exactly the same idiots in life, and you will come out with real and real thinking. All the best from me.

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france24_ar answered · September 03, 2020

   Darling, study, enjoy life and don't care. You will see how, in time, how the lizards with the many likes as they leave school, how nothing will happen to them except saleswomen in a shop or cashiers at McDonald's. What, if you have few friends on the social network, the important thing is that they are real for you, many of whom you will not know half of and you will still write only with your closest people. I've even recently started removing people, what are they for me when I don't know them! Don't tie them at all, real life is out, not in front of the computer!

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vitaliachisca answered · September 03, 2020

   Tell them the other time that social life is outside, not on social media. Today's children are so superficial, unfortunately, that they have nowhere to go!

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zeligus answered · September 03, 2020

   I'm a girl of 18 and I want to tell you that sometimes even with me, even though I'm older, similar situations occur. I'm always a fan of uploading a lot of photos, just because I love to take pictures, I made 4,000 friends on Facebook. I started to like everything I uploaded and they gave it back to me and so I regularly collected 1,700 likes per photo and people around me started saying that I was popular and cool and the teachers in my city pointed at me and I live in quite a big city, not in a village where it's normal. A year ago I stopped liking people's things and therefore they stopped too and now I collect 80-100 likes on photos from friends or people who just like me. Yes, there is no logic and meaning in this and the likes do not change you, but try my way, here you see, their mind has come and you have collected more from them, the important thing is,

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moonevans21_ answered · September 04, 2020

   Watch your fun, don't pay attention to such idiots - they want fame, but fame also has a price to pay. Whether you will use an application is your decision. I can make a page with 10 billion likes, but I don't care - just some numbers. I haven't had a fakebook for 3 years and I'm not at all interested in the opinion of crazy fake book maniacs. I'm tired of reading "dude, do you have fb"!

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bastiansteel answered · September 04, 2020

   Oh, baby, don't worry at all! I have 100-200, they don't warm me or anything, they don't stop the ridicule of the boys from the class towards me. I don't find myself particularly ugly, and yet they constantly tease me! Likes have no weight in such a situation. You will find a person who will appreciate you for what you are, not for likes and similar nonsense :) F, 16

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kima_lilo answered · September 05, 2020

   Number 9 is absolutely right! Use more of your mind and don't invest emotions in nonsense!