Hello! I am a girl of 16 and my boyfriend is 17. We have been together for 3 months. At 4 weeks I had sex with him, this was my first time, before that I was a virgin. Honestly, it was awful. He was careful, but he was very big and that's why he was in pain. After this time he makes me constantly act like he is obsessed. And when I ask him he says that he likes my body very much. He wants us to do 6-7 times a day. Isn't that too much? Constantly when he is with me he thinks and talks only about sex. I told him some time ago that he wanted me to do it so often, but he was very sensitive and immediately shouted at me. What to do?
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Drop it cleanly and directly.
Explain to him that it is dangerous for you, because if he is so big that it hurts, then you should not overdo it. 6-7 times a day is enough. Explain to him and if he understands you and manages to deal with his hormones, then he appreciates you a lot. But if he tells you you're talking nonsense and yells at you again ... Honey, he's not the boy for you. I know what you're thinking: Oh you don't even know us how can you know? Etc. But sex is something that is important for both the boy and the girl. And if he really cares, he won't want to do it when you don't want to. I know what it's like to be wanted for sex. I didn't give up, but they always revolved around me with only one goal - to crack me. I'm not saying you're like that. God, no! I don't know you. But think about whether he wants to have sex with YOU or WITH YOUR BODY. There is a difference. -Disney
6-7 times a day? !! Is he crazy? 2-3 times a WEEK is enough - he won't die of sexual hunger in this situation ... Come on, once a day, say, or two, if you haven't enjoyed each other yet, but 6-7 times? And how do you do this 6-7 times? If a normal sexual intercourse, with the overture and everything lasts an average of 30 minutes, then 6-7 acts are 3, 5-4 hours! This is a half working day! You school, don't you have a job? Don't you do anything but have sex? See, if you can't find a compromise solution that works for both of you, you better split up. Because if you can't find it, today it will be about sex, tomorrow it will be about more important things in life. There's no point...
Calm down. For now, it's interesting to him and that's all in his head. He will soon get bored and leave you alone. At 25, he puts all his energy into work, obligations - he won't even be able to do it every time.