I am a married man of 35 and 2 years ago I got into a whirlpool of life. I met a woman, a colleague of my wife. Even at the meeting, I felt that he was looking at me as if he wanted to take off my pants. I do not like such performances, especially among acquaintances. But my wife seemed quite well-read, educated. So to speak - I had respect for her as a person even before she started behaving like that. She is also married. I don't know what happens to women sometimes. They seem to itch from time to time, but at this age things should be settled. And this one seemed to want to rape me at the table. Let's put it this way - it affected my masculine dignity. It sounded like, 'Hey, can you or can't you stretch me here? '. And this in front of my wife at the table. And my wife is not a man, who will succumb to any influence and feel things, I looked at her several times. But she didn't seem to notice or was mesmerized. Well, I was furious that we had been married for a long time, so that she wouldn't feel what was happening in front of her. But by the time I realized, I was crazy about her colleague. Most of all - her provocative behavior - haha, you can't move. That's how it rang in my ears. I started looking for some contact with this woman to clarify things, but I became more and more obsessed with her (and she is nothing special, my wife is much more beautiful and cheerful than this darkman).
But the only thing I received was evasive answers, which I interpreted as tacit consent to continue. So until the spring of this year, when the lady received a bouquet of flowers and a note with a written explanation from me, which ... was immediately handed over to my wife. !!! E, I burst out. Not that I didn't expect it, but with a smile and a good mood to play such a trick on you. Worthy of the encyclopedia. As I explained that I was not the author of the note, I just felt my gut turn from the abomination of the situation. And for something I called - the great only love. The line between love and growing up is so thin. That was the test for me and I don't think I passed it. I gave in. And the reason was - the affected male dignity - how you can crush a man by sexually provoking him and then bringing his reaction to his wife. The only happy thing is that I limited the losses to my mental anguish. Which are not subject to description. Now my life continues in a new / old minor key. For the last 4 months I have been walking like a sleepwalker. Only now have I found the strength to put things in order and make plans for the future. I still believe in the great love, which in my case was the great illusion, and I know that for me the experiments are over.
How can there not be so many hurt men and women, as people act in such a selfish irresponsible way. Maybe this is the new society - of total egotists. Because what besides selfishness and personal accounts can motivate such senseless behavior? What did anyone gain from the situation? I publish this only to let it be known that there is one. I wish it remained an isolated case. But if it happens to someone, let him know - he experiences. It is difficult, but it is experienced. How can there not be so many hurt men and women, as people act in such a selfish irresponsible way. Maybe this is the new society - of total egotists. Because what besides selfishness and personal accounts can motivate such senseless behavior? What did anyone gain from the situation? I publish this only to let it be known that there is one. I wish it remained an isolated case. But if it happens to someone, let him know - he experiences. It is difficult, but it is experienced. How can there not be so many hurt men and women, as people act in such a selfish irresponsible way. Maybe this is the new society - of total egotists. Because what besides selfishness and personal accounts can motivate such senseless behavior? What did anyone gain from the situation? I publish this only to let it be known that there is one. I wish it remained an isolated case. But if it happens to someone, let him know - he experiences. It is difficult, but it is experienced. I wish it remained an isolated case. But if it happens to someone, let him know - he experiences. It is difficult, but it is experienced. I wish it remained an isolated case. But if it happens to someone, let him know - he experiences. It is difficult, but it is experienced.
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I think your wife tried to see if she would give in, she persuaded her friend to push you and see your reaction! What can I tell you brother, women are vile creatures and a lot of them!
And what is expected of us - to sympathize with you and tickle your tongue how this bad woman left you with a finger in her mouth, that your wife almost did not understand how susceptible you are to temptation ... Poor mold, discard this nonsense for the great love, only the big fuck was spinning in your head (and between your legs) all the time.
I think you suggested it yourself, I didn't read the woman say you were a thrill to her. She looked like she was saying ... but did you hear her say it? You've been suggesting all the time and now ... olole :))) I'm sorry to say, but you're moldy for me too. Who knows how you annoyed the woman with the fabrications you instilled. Once she got there to give the bouquet to your wife, then she miraculously saw herself. I really want to hear the story from her side ... And do you know a woman, if she feels such feelings she doesn't pull for two years, as you say she is intelligent and she didn't want to cut you off rudely, she answered evasively for that ... but you you are hellishly narcissistic and you don't understand. A logical outcome and quite subtle at the same time. Well done to the woman. And what can I say about you ... decide for yourself ... If your wife is not your great love, just don't waste her time looking around.
You screwed things up yourself, your wife is not to blame, think about it, you would also like me to be 100% sure of her feelings, if you had the opportunity you would test them no matter how much you deny them. "Affected male dignity," seriously? !! From the very first temptation, you succumbed, and you still believe in great love, isn't it based on your fidelity to your partner, not on proving how much you are to another woman, and in your words, your girl is not superior in anything. I am very annoyed with people like you, after a hood, but I also dare to accuse the woman that your angels are weak to you.
All right, tell me what happened as a result - did your wife leave you? What did she say, did you break up? There is a high probability that number 1 is right. Investigate this. At least because it seems very doubtful to me that she looked at you like that, in front of your wife. I doubt it, or maybe you imagined how he looks at you, I know ...
Dude, that's how some women look. Once I asked a girl why you were looking at me as if you wanted to jump on me and she explained to me that for some unknown reason many men perceived her that way and apologized to me.
Well, dude, honestly, it's your own fault. I'm not blaming you or anything, that's just the situation. You both say you love your wife, and at a glance you get into all sorts of movies. The important thing is that, as far as I understand, you missed it. However, there are no ideal people.
Let me quote you: "The line between love and disgust is so thin." .. Number 3 - very accurately written!
I totally agree with number 1. She talked to you and made you a number to test you.
Don't you understand that she envied you and you were caught on a fishing rod like a fool. She did it in order to separate you, but once you stayed together, it just killed her. In the future, if your duck cries for something foreign, always avoid acquaintances.
I am the author, I came across the topic by chance. Thank you all. And everyone is right. Number 1 is right in principle, but in this case it is not, I checked as much as I could, I was not a test donkey, number 9 wrote that some people look at it that way - and this is true. The opinion of number 13 is very likely, thank you Man. Apart from being very probable, such an explanation works best for me. Still, thank you for the hard lesson I learned. It was quite moving for me - "I think - therefore I exist," they said. I threw a lot of thinking though.
The author - I am finally convinced that I was very, very wrong and I really wanted to have sex with some freak. I recently saw a picture of her somewhere on the internet and I couldn't believe that I liked such a miracle. Total disharmony face, body. And I know such beautiful women. What a thing. What a thing life is.
Author, very complex, should we talk about a woman like that. Reading what you wrote, I know one thing that you will still overcome.
If you were a darkman, he would fuck you without anyone knowing. You go into some movies alone. There were no signals from her, that's what you wanted. And it doesn't do her any honor, she could have explained it to you and saved you the humiliation. You don't have that for a man anymore, do you?
What kind of love is this ??? - Love for your wife would have been if he had ignored your acquaintance from the first moments !!! ;)