Hello! I am a 14-year-old boy from Sofia. I realize that many people will laugh at me just because of my age, but I'm really asking you for advice. My story began in late 2011. At that time our father left us. I won't lie, it sucked, but we overcame it. I have always been a quiet, good boy, trying to help others, and focused on learning. However, my class did not like me at all. To this day, I can't explain why - I've always been polite, I've helped them. Many people justify it with malice, but I am not so extreme. I will not lie, it was quite difficult for me, the jokes were constant, and my fragile child's psyche suffered a big blow. I already hated going to school, my relatives asked me if I had anything, but I denied it. I felt weak because I knew I could stop this whenever I wanted. But I couldn't. And I have no explanation for that, I just collapsed. And while all this was going on, she showed up ... a girl from my former class. We stayed together in Chemistry class (ie PE) ... I hadn't paid attention to her until now, but this year we started talking to her, we got closer to her ... a little bit. And so, until at one point I literally started counting the days until the next hour spent with her. It seemed, suddenly, extremely strange. And I also don't know why that happened. Honestly, the last 2 years are absolutely inexplicable for me. The only thing that interested me was her. Her eyes, her smile ... she was just a dream for me.
We never talked, except in class ... and usually our conversations consisted of explaining things to her. I woke up at three in the morning and thought about her. I only dreamed of her. In class, I looked at her and dreamed, so I dreamed about how she responds to my feelings. Like I said, I've always been in the bison category, and she was a girl with a lot of friends and acquaintances. She was my motivation. She gave me the strength to deal with my other problem ... I decided that my only chance to have her was to become more "cool". And so it happened. I put in place all those who ridiculed and crushed me. Summer came and I had no connection with her for about 3 months. I thought I forgot her, but it turned out I didn't. I'm already in seventh grade. Those were already my "friends". In fact, I hated them and still do, but I didn't have much choice. I gained confidence. I started talking to her more, making her laugh. Her every smile satisfied me mentally, made me happy ... I lived for it. I had the feeling that she liked me too. But at times he literally pushed me away, telling me to "get lost." It hurt, but I kept going. I knew I had to do something because we were going to be in different schools very soon ... my time was running out. Another boy in my class liked her too. She seemed to prefer him. I hated him. They spent so much time together, going out ... and I was standing at the dumb computer, looking at her pictures, trying not to cry. And I succeeded. One day I just decided to put my shame aside and invite her to a meeting. Her reaction?
Not very good. She asked to bring her a friend ... we went out. We had a good time, but it never happened again. I invited her again, but she still wanted to bring her friend. And again I agreed. I was like in a vicious circle. I wanted to be alone, but it didn't work out. This meeting, however, never took place. Day, in which we were going to go out, that boy came in front of me and hit me in front of her. No reason. I answered him. She began to defend him, and she looked at me with contempt. I told her we would go out some other time. That was around June 10 this year. The holidays have started again. I decided to try again, I still had hopes. I invited her, and she began to dodge and apologize. I'm tired, I told her directly that I only wanted to go out. And she started lying again that she didn't have time, that she was going somewhere. She had gone out with the other a few days later. You have no idea how much it hurt me. That was in July. We are now the end of October. And I still dream of her, I dream about her, but she is still just a dream. I look at her pictures and wonder what would happen if she responded to my feelings, everything would be so good.
My new school is wonderful, but I miss it. It made my day pleasant and meaningful. And now she's gone ... just like that. Oh, and the worst part is that that boy is in the same school as her and they're obviously having a good time. It's just extremely difficult for me, you know ... I'm trying to find another girl with whom to at least distract myself from her, but it doesn't work. They are absolutely indifferent to me. Everyone and everything. I have accumulated so much stress, so much anger ... I want to cry, but I can't ... I don't know how to cope. My parents don't know anything. No reason, I don't think they can help me. It's been a long time, thanks to everyone who read it, even without writing anything, please don't judge me, it's just my story ... C, 14. and worst of all, that boy is in the same school as her and they're obviously having a good time. It's just extremely difficult for me, you know ... I'm trying to find another girl with whom to at least distract myself from her, but it doesn't work. They are absolutely indifferent to me. Everyone and everything. I have accumulated so much stress, so much anger ... I want to cry, but I can't ... I don't know how to cope. My parents don't know anything. No reason, I don't think they can help me. It's been a long time, thanks to everyone who read it, even without writing anything, please don't judge me, it's just my story ... C, 14. and worst of all, that boy is in the same school as her and they're obviously having a good time. It's just extremely difficult for me, you know ... I'm trying to find another girl with whom to at least distract myself from her, but it doesn't work. They are absolutely indifferent to me. Everyone and everything. I have accumulated so much stress, so much anger ... I want to cry, but I can't ... I don't know how to cope.
My parents don't know anything. No reason, I don't think they can help me. It's been a long time, thanks to everyone who read it, even without writing anything, please don't judge me, it's just my story ... C, 14. but it doesn't work. They are absolutely indifferent to me. Everyone and everything. I have accumulated so much stress, so much anger ... I want to cry, but I can't ... I don't know how to cope. My parents don't know anything. No reason, I don't think they can help me. It's been a long time, thanks to everyone who read it, even without writing anything, please don't judge me, it's just my story ... C, 14. but it doesn't work. They are absolutely indifferent to me.
Everyone and everything. I have accumulated so much stress, so much anger ... I want to cry, but I can't ... I don't know how to cope. My parents don't know anything. No reason, I don't think they can help me. It's been a long time, thanks to everyone who read it, even without writing anything, please don't judge me, it's just my story ... C, 14.
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What a beautiful love! I would like someone to love me like that ... Author, don't despair, you have a wonderful soul and a good heart, which she has not appreciated. You will find new love, you will see. It hurts now, but it won't always be the way you believe it. I wish you to be soon and to be even more beautiful! And I hope you find the girl who deserves to be loved like that.
What a boy ... despite all the difficulties, you have overcome them .. You will always forget her, remember my words. I am a girl of 15th, 10th grade / I left 1 year earlier / and I loved a boy of 4 and a half years. I went to high school, where I'm now just because of him. The difference between you and me is that I never mustered the courage to act, which was kind of a failure. Congratulations on your courage, I know how hard it is to get it. In the 8th grade I came to high school, but the days passed, nothing happened between us. I started crying every day, there was no progress for 4 years ... but at the end of 8th grade what to see? I fell in love with another! Yes, I, who didn't want to look at anyone but him ... fell in love with someone else! And it seemed so unattainable and impossible ... unreal ... but it was obviously real! Then it was as if a huge weight fell from my shoulders, as if I had been held in chains for 4 and a half years .. and finally they let me go .. I was so happy that I no longer suffer, I do not struggle, as if it were a dream .. Since then I changed, my appearance was obviously more cheerful, I started to pay more attention to myself, I was happy ... and they started to like me more. Therefore, if it can work with me, then it can work with you. It can happen when you least expect it. You will forget her, even more so if you don't see her, I saw him every day, we were room to room, and we were block to block. I was happy ... and they started liking me even more. Therefore, if it can work with me, then it can work with you. It can happen when you least expect it. You will forget her, even more so if you don't see her, I saw him every day, we were room to room, and we were block to block. I was happy ... and they started liking me even more. Therefore, if it can work with me, then it can work with you. It can happen when you least expect it. You will forget her, even more so if you don't see her, I saw him every day, we were room to room, and we were block to block.
You are a wonderful boy. Too bad he's not like you anymore. You really loved her, and you probably still love her, but she's not worth it. Trust me. She didn't appreciate everything you did for her, which is not good. I know how you feel. And I like a boy for almost 2 months and I know he will never start caring about me. What have I not done just to see him. I've been running for an hour, I've been standing for 2 hours after my classes are over alone, hoping to show up from somewhere and all sorts of other nonsense, and he hardly cares. But I just wanted to see him to feel good. He was gray every day without him. And it still is. But head up. It is not the only fish in the sea. You need some time. I am sure that a girl will appear who will appreciate all this love you have in you. Girl, 13 years old.
And I'm almost like you - only I'm a girl and I never found the courage to admit my feelings. It hurts when love is unrequited, but you really loved it. I loved him too ... and I still love him, but hey, there are many more girls. Try flirting with others to distract yourself, or inventing tasks or playing sports so you don't always think about her. I was relieved when I wrote a letter to the person I loved and explained what I felt and put it away (I wrote it for myself, I will not send it to him). Well, my thought is, try the letter, it can make you feel better and feel much better! Good luck, write if there is any progress!
What a nice story ... But remember that a girl never refuses to meet someone she likes. So read between the lines and don't get annoyed. Everything always comes back. Live a cool life. And everyone has in his life one (two, three) secret unrequited unfulfilled loves that burn him only at the thought. Everything passes ...
man ... touched me; (... my story is the same but I'm 11 and I like a girl but she doesn't seem to like me :( but I didn't ask her I don't have the courage but you ... you're brave I admire you [Respect for you]
G19 Look at yourself ... first, I think you deserve something better (I'm telling you very seriously, there are girls who don't know the price and push on people like her ... when she turns 18-20 she might come to mind) If you still hold on to it and want it, there is a way (I still say I'm against this relationship). This with a bison is not so bad ... meaning the road from there to intelligent and confident is not that long. Be an idea more distant in school (meaning don't push teachers, etc.), but be reliable - get their respect and recognition (girls like the social status of boys). Do not become arrogant and demonstrate how much you know, but just know and successfully cope with all the tasks at school. Smile. Communicate with more people. Be friendly and funny. Find some fun company, hang out with them, do things - HAVE a personal life. In the meantime, tell the girl that you liked her, but if she has sympathy for another, ok, her job, you can still be friends (but don't push yourself to be friends, it makes sense to just know each other). Post fun things on Facebook, tag yourself here and there with friends. Have girls in the company, shared photos, that ... jealousy will bite her, she will start to think which of them you have something like that with ... after a while the girl will open a word for coffee with a friend or something like that , may start writing you some vague things on Facebook. Here it is important not to give in to the second minute, that it will be so strange again, coffee with friends and it is not clear where things are going and she will still decide that she wants someone else ... Be friendly, but don't push her and even cut it slightly if it starts to make various hints,
Number 8: wife of 19? You think like a mature 30-year-old woman. Well done. Great tips. But when a person is in love, it is difficult for him to control himself like that.