I have a trip to the Maldives ahead of me. I am a mother, and because my husband is a civil servant, he has two full weeks off on holidays, and we have decided to act now, even though he is on the verge of the season. My husband and I do not want to take our child there because he is still a year and a half old and we think it will be a harassment for him to travel for so long. We will make vaccines for this destination, I do not want to give them to him and burden him unnecessarily. So far we have not separated from him, but he is very used to his grandmother and can spend a lot of time with her without thinking about us, because she comes to see him often since he was born, or we take him as a guest. for several hours. So far we have been going on excursions for the child, we have taken him to many interesting places, we just decided that we have a little need, and after one or two years as he grows up we have decided to take him to Santorini, etc. But let him grow up and talk and learn everything on his own. Do you go on trips without the child, just as a couple? Mom and Dad will also be resting at this time and living in our apartment. We left them money, we will go shopping. They love the child very much and will be happy to spend time with him. Of course, I am a little hesitant, because I have not separated from my child, I will miss him, but I need my husband and I to be alone for at least 2-3 days somewhere. I ask parents who have gone together to share experiences, situations, does it harm the child, etc. We left them money, we will go shopping. They love the child very much and will be happy to spend time with him. Of course, I am a little hesitant, because I have not separated from my child, I will miss him, but I need my husband and I to be alone for at least 2-3 days somewhere. I ask parents who have gone together to share experiences, situations, does it harm the child, etc. We left them money, we will go shopping. They love the child very much and will be happy to spend time with him. Of course, I am a little hesitant, because I have not separated from my child, I will miss him, but I need my husband and I to be just the two of us for at least 2-3 days somewhere. I ask parents who have gone together to share experiences, situations, does it harm the child, etc.
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Awesome idea. Have a great time and don't think about the child, he will be in good hands!
We went to Vienna and left it to the grandmother, there is nothing to harm him, once he is fed and changed, he may not remember that you are not there. It's nice to have someone to leave, but in two years of motherhood you can break away a little.
Ours is 5 years old and we were in Rome for two nights without him. It is a pleasure for us to be with him, of course not all the time, but for holidays and celebrations we want to be together. The Maldives is terribly far away, man. You can't react at all. Besides, I don't know what to expect, but there's nothing interesting there. You will sleep two nights, on the third you will pay attention to each other and so much more. Even if you dive, there's not much to do there for more than three nights. In your place, I would choose a place from which you can easily and quickly reach your home, so that you can rest assured that you can always return. To be alive and healthy, one day you will be sad that the child no longer wants to be with you.
Of course you'll both go, and I'm not a fan of taking such a small child on such a long journey. No problem, especially if he's used to his grandmother. have a nice time!
Stay home to look after your baby - isn't motherhood the best thing? Send your parents to the Maldives, let them see a little world, they have served you for so many years and should they continue now ... It is sad that these elderly people will spend their vacation with a baby.
Don't worry, everything will go well :) You deserve a little personal time and a short escape. I hope you have a very good time!
5 How many mothers did you spend for two years, 24 hours a day, and why is looking after a child for grandparents bad, don't they love their grandson?
Number 5, and did the parents send their parents on vacation or did they also give them a baby to play with? You sound like an old mother-in-law who wants to be paid for vacations she didn't earn herself. Wanting the Maldives to make money and go. The cow does not suckle from the calf.
Don't think about it at all and don't feel guilty. At first, such a small child will not remember anything from this trip. In most places it is free for up to 2 years, but there will still be a lot of extra costs. Second-Maldives is a destination for relaxation and rest and there is not much fun for children. At this age, they do not turn around for a long time and you will not rest, but you will be babysitters. For the harm - it will be only for you, because it will not come out of your head during the whole vacation and you will want to stay on the phone with your mother to hear what she is doing and whether everything is normal. I wish you a great vacation.
I think that children up to 3 years old should not move left and right, especially if they are sick or roaring. I don't see a problem with just the two of you resting. I was leaving for a month with my mother's parents when they traveled. Yes, they took me on trips and vacations, but I have significant memories only from the age of 6 or 7.
Oh, how I wait for the little one to get at least a year old and disappear somewhere with Dad. We have a 5 year old daughter. We started leaving her at 2 when she got up, but she had health problems. Otherwise, we only went on short breaks together, we definitely need it. Refreshed with new strength, we look after our child better.
I would never, really never think of going on vacation without my children. Children are the sole responsibility of parents, and throwing them at grandparents to enjoy the Maldives is under criticism. I have two children. We have always and everywhere traveled with them.
Why give so much money to take the child there, as they can give their parents some money, and they can look after their child, and get some rest.