HELLO PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE. I HAVE LIVED WITH MY FRIEND FROM 5 YEARS. WE HAVE A 3 YEAR-OLD CHILD, BUT EVEN THOUGH I DON'T FEEL COMPLETELY HAPPY WITH HIM AND A MAN WHO IS ALSO MARRIED WITH 2 CHILDREN APPEARS HERE. OBVIOUSLY WE HAVE INTEREST IN EACH OTHER BECAUSE I RECEIVED AN INVITATION FROM HIS SIDE FOR A MEETING, WHICH I REJECTED BECAUSE I HAVE NOT BEEN ATTENDED AND HAVE BEEN RELEASING TO HER. ON THE ONE HAND, I BURN WITH THE DESIRE TO GO OUT WITH THIS MAN, AND ON THE OTHER HAND, I KNOW THAT THIS IS WRONG AND OFFENSIVE FOR OUR HALFS. I KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO WILL SAY THAT I AM STUPID TO LOOK FOR OTHER LINKS BETWEEN PARTIES BUT WHAT TO DO WHEN MY HEART WANTS IT. PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE.
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Go out with him. Get to know each other, otherwise you may be wondering all your life "what would happen if ...". I am firmly against relationships and marriages without love are a whole punishment. This complicates the situation a little with the children, but in my opinion, if the separation will not drastically affect their lives, it is completely justified. Anyway, as soon as you are attracted, at least try and if things get worse, end your relationship in the most delicate way possible. Life is short, it is not worth wasting time with relationships without a future when we can meet happiness elsewhere, fight for it, your child should not blame you for this one day, especially if despite the separation he remains loved and embraced with attention from both parents. It might even become more independent. Don't think that if he looks at you unhappy and eventually quarrels with his father, he will feel better, than as if you are separated but on good terms ?? Listen to your heart!
hello There are several differences between us: 1. We have been together for 6 years; 2. We do not have a child; 3. I decided, I met the other man and we already have a 7 month relationship .... At first I felt like a traitor, something like that ... and I don't know exactly. But believe me, it's completely different now (I feel alive, I'm happy). So darling, think and know that life is one. You know that no matter how many ships cross the river, there are no traces left ... SUCCESS
Well, you decide. Doesn't your heart want it ???? Why are you wondering? That you will kill the person you live with if you drink coffee with this man. It is not said that you will have sex with him! And if you really don't have brakes, the problem is yours - PERSONAL !!! YOU HAVE 1 CHILD, AND HE HAS 2 CHILDREN. ЕЕЕЕХХХХХ МЕРАК, МЕРАК ....
You can only feel happy with the fact that there is a man who admires you as a woman. You do not need to consume these feelings, because sooner or later they will cool down. The only thing left will be the mistrust and resentment of your spouses. Don't risk infidelity. Betrayal will weigh on you. Platonic love is like childhood. Listen to me! Otherwise you will be wrong.
Once you know you shouldn't don't. I think you lack tenderness and warmth from your friend. Talk to him and tell him you need it. Good luck.
Personally, I think you should listen to your heart. We live one life after all. And are you sure that if your friend meets a woman, he will refuse her. I wouldn't be. But whatever you decide, be careful. You have a child, this other man too. So if you're going to see him, it has to be very discreet. And be careful not to fall in love. He must be your friend first. I've always said one thing: "It doesn't matter if you deviate from the right path, the important thing is to come back." And if you don't try, you can always regret it. Experience the moment and make yourself happy. Be a little selfish. But never a word to your friend. Whatever happens. Good luck, sweet girl!
Number 6, even if she's not sure her husband won't give up in a situation like that, knowing he shouldn't do it, why are you rolling her up? And how are you sure that her husband will surrender? Don't you know him? And in case he learns ... and knowing the child? Then what would you advise her?
Obviously you like it, fuck it so you don't regret it.
Number 6, I'm shaking your hand, that's exactly how it is, and I fell in love with a married man with consequences. My advice is to be discreet and especially to transplant men are the same change man, change flaws.
Hey 6, you're writing to get back on the road. He may return, but may he not be late in returning?
from the author: After reading your opinions I decided to go out with him and now I will tell you what happened. We met and slept. At that moment, I felt like a fairytale princess, it was an exciting moment. Believe me he really knows how to behave with a woman in bed. Now when I write to you, I feel kind of weird, just like №2, but when I remember what I went through, I forget everything. Thanks again for your feedback
Don't go out, believe me, you can ruin your life, I'm ruined by such a harmless teasing now.
I have the same problem, I don't know what to do. I can't sleep, I'm sick, I know that whatever I do I will be wrong. I can't give you advice, but I wanted you to know that there are others who are confused.
Have you seen each other, slept over, felt like a princess and then? Now it remains to take and fall in love, you will wander between the two, you will find flaws in the man next to you, and then?
1, 2 and 3 What kind of people are you! She's not even in love with the new one. While you advise her to go out with him and complicate her life to the end, her child plays with dolls and hopes to have a normal life with mother and father. I am not a pillar of morality. My personal life is an example of debauchery, but what kind of people would want a mother to date another man, provided that not a word was said about love!
Hello, I want to ask you for advice. I have wanted to be with a boy for two days, but I don't know how to do it because I don't know if he will reciprocate. He used to want to be with me a lot, but I pushed him away. Please give me some advice. thanks