Once He Has Cheated, He Will Cheat Again!

   People have a tendency to imitate behavior. If in society, infidelity is common and justified, then - many people will cheat, realizing that others are doing it. There will be only a few who will not do it. This is ... To your question - people, consciously, repeat actions that bring them pleasure. There is no formula for interpersonal relationships, there is an awareness of behavior, the other, his way, thinking, what drives his impulses ... And you and everyone else, you have free will, including to choose with whom to share time, and your energy.

   That's right.

   My life experience shows that it is a fact.

   I do not agree with 1 that they are cheating because they understand that others are doing it. (This logic applies to the purchase of smartphones, for example, sex work is a completely different movie) Those who cheat cheat on themselves, no matter what society is. from 2

   In my opinion, there are no universal rules. One can make a mistake, realize it and not repeat it a second time. There are also fools who repeat the same wrong action many times, expecting a different result each time. Some people are monogamous by nature, they like to be with a partner and if he satisfies them, it will not occur to them to cheat on him, the very thought of it would repel them. Others, even with a perfect relationship, do not miss the opportunity to experience one or another adventure. People of the second breed, in my opinion, suffer from low self-esteem and need to prove themselves. Even if they look cocky, poisoned and open, inside they doubt their attractiveness and look for evidence of it. A self-confident person does not need this.

   This happens when one or both partners do not learn from infidelity. It is a lesson for both. For one, to be better enough so that the other does not have to cheat, and for the other - to appreciate more what he has himself so much that he does not cheat and humiliate his relationship. Of course, the lessons may be different. But one thing is for sure - there are lessons for both sides. If the lessons are not learned, then everything will be repeated at some point. But again, through the fault of both, not just the cheating partner. At least that's how I see things.

   In a relationship you have to be friends, lovers and FRIENDS not to look for them separately, and because the latter is taboo for everyone and no one bothers to share, everything comes from there.

   We humans are weak-willed. I think there are people who would not repeat their mistake, but they are too few and it's just ... sorry