Hello! I am 15 almost 16 years old and I plan to have sex with my boyfriend tomorrow .. I trust him completely, he has proved a lot to me during the time we have been together for 3 months .. I feel ready I have been waiting for this moment my whole life has always been interesting .. but I feel fear and anxiety, I think it will hurt a lot and I will not be good enough .. (both of us will be for the first time) .. Please tell me something about your first time how it went and everything which you remember :) .. Thanks in advance
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At 16, he only wants to fuck you (sorry for that but ...) if you think he loves you or you're wrong. Look, I'm telling you this now, not to dissuade you, do you know that I don't even care what happens: D but at the age of 16 you better watch your lessons, I know you're bored, but then it will be very stupid for you to know I'm tired of the day, I explain myself: D I just want to tell you that I'm writing it to you as a boy to a friend, nothing personal, but that's the truth
m27 tell me do you sometimes press, hug and kiss, etc.?
Well done to the children, are things already settled in this way with a date and time, I think you are both scared. Of course, it will be strange to you. Write afterwards, let's laugh and teach the others here something.
3 months is insignificant time for it to be proven to you. But if you're having sex, you're having sex.
First and super important: CONDOM !!! From there, you just make sure there is a long foreplay so that you can both be super excited and you are literally wet and so on. And you try to be as calm as possible. If you start thinking about how it will be, will it hurt, etc., you will certainly tighten and it will hurt. It's just that things have to be done instinctively, not with thought. And I hope one day you don't regret it, because the first time is only one and if it doesn't turn out well, bad memories remain.
I will be realistic. You will not like it and it will hurt you, but do not despair, the more you practice it the better synchronization you will make, the pain may disappear completely and you will feel great pleasure, but remember it must start somewhere. Good luck :)
from number 3 Excluding sarcasm and hatred, number 5 is right, as is number 7. Don't worry. If you get aroused and you enjoy it - act carefully and lightly so as not to hurt. Talk to each other, communicate, tell him "darling, please come in lightly because it hurts". He will tell you "dear, I'm already leaning and there's nowhere to go, I have to push to get all the way in", you will grit your teeth and say "okay my love, come on" the pain will be only for a moment and then it will be huuuuuuuuubavo: ) If you're not horny just don't do it. Wait. Sex doesn't happen that way. It happens gradually between two people. First kisses, then hugs, caresses, pushing, visiting. This has been going on for days and weeks, and every time there is excitement and pleasure down there. In the end, you just do it again with excitement. Come on, success
As I read such topics, I always think of the lost (deliberate) knowledge of telegony.
The mistake is to set a date and time. This makes the situation very nervous, and the first time it should happen spontaneously and without tension and nerves. But it's all nature, some worry a lot, and prove themselves more than those who do not care. So good luck and smart!
He is very small, just like you - you do it because others do it, by no means do you love each other, because it is impossible to happen between two people when mom and dad give them money, dress them, wash them and lead to the toilet, in a few words - you still can't make decisions on your own and you don't know what you're doing. It doesn't hurt, it's scary because it's unknown, it's bad when you both don't have experience, you'll easily get scared of everything. It will stretch on you, it is easiest with a finger, the cracking of the zipper is strange, it feels and sounds like a sound ...
How did it go?
It's too early for sex. Watch your teenage years that will never come back and keep yourself for a real relationship. http://www.pravmladeji.org/node/1328 To the 'counselors' above I can only say that it is easy to talk nonsense here advising a minor girl to have sex and the mental and physical possible consequences will bring them then.
It won't work once you've set a date and time, and it happens when you feel it, even if you feel it, it can't just be that way.
I think it's pretty stupid to arrange a date for sex, but as you want: D at 16 I had sex for the first time, and honestly - it hurt. It hurt me a lot. : D My friend and I were both aroused before, but it still hurt ... But because I like to give pleasure to the people I love, it was on the one hand terribly pleasant, and on the other - quite painful. I guess it depends on the person, maybe it doesn't hurt you. F20
(by the author) well, I didn't feel almost any pain .. it went well, we already did it 3 more times after that .. I think some comments are unnecessary that he doesn't love me and that he only wanted that .. on the contrary, I want him more and I I told him I was ready .. now everything is fine and tomorrow we are 5 months since we are together :)