Hello. I am 22 years old. I have had a friend for 6 years and next year we are planning a wedding, as we have been engaged for 3 years and we already feel ready for this step. We both have a good job. He is my first husband (sexually and in every way). Our difference is a year. He is very hardworking, caring, handsome and loving and besides my future husband he is also my best friend. He is a great person and I love him very much. BUT! I'm afraid I might "get tired" of him someday. I could not imagine my life without him, as banal as it sounds. He is my biggest focus in life and I can share everything with him. We have talked a lot on this topic that if he does not feel ready not to hurry with the wedding or if he has not made a living. Every time he tells me that he has found what he is looking for and he doesn't need anything else. For a long time I have been reading the site and various stories about infidelity and so on, exhausted marriages without thrills, etc. and I am starting to be paranoid. We are also planning a child. I am afraid that it may change after its appearance, because there are many such cases. I do not dare to think about another man or infidelity. But I'm afraid for him. Men, would you spend your life with a woman (of course, he had others before me, but not serious) !! Give me an opinion on the topic! Thanks :)
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My, I don't want to despair or insult you with what I'm going to tell you, but since you know each other as teenagers and in the next 10 years you will still change as characters, it is likely that you will get tired of him, but he will also get tired of you fed up with you. My advice is best to stop being interested in other people's relationships and enjoy yours.
Would we spend our lives with a woman? Not if it says "developer", "emphasis" and "story" ...
Of course I would! With mine - yes! M
I would spend my life with a woman, but not with a woman like you: D Of course, sooner or later you will be fed up with him, as he will be with you. I wouldn't even commit to a woman if I knew I was her first, because sooner or later curiosity will prevail and she will want to try other subscribers. And as she is more experienced, she will have tried this and that, and for me she will have said to herself - this is exactly what I was waiting for. But not everyone thinks like that - live your life, have a job, interests, extracurricular activities, hobbies - this is extremely important to be interesting to him, and enjoy what you have. What will happen in the future, no one knows. Don't tighten up, don't fool around, enjoy. But don't put him in the center of the universe, you be the center, let him gravitate around you - this, I say again, is extremely important for long-term relationships, no matter who is to whom, which number is next. PS And Opora is written with "O"! Instead of doing nonsense, remember the spelling that shame is ...
Opinion by a man of 20 years. Your fears are unfounded, you do not fill your head with such thoughts and at such a moment of your relationship you will still have a wedding. The way you describe your relationship to me personally is everything I dream of. If he tells you that he has found what he is looking for, believe him, there is no need for unnecessary doubts. I hope I have been helpful, I wish you much happiness and you to be happy
If you continue in this spirit, he will really get tired of you. What do you really want from the boy? You love each other, good. You have a relationship, nice. He wants to marry you, wonderful. Everything is on notes. But this is not enough for you and you want guarantees of eternal love and fidelity. Well, there are no such guarantees. One can say how he feels now and what his intentions are for the future, but he cannot know in two years on the same date how he will feel and what his future plans will be. What you expect from the poor guy is to promise you that on June 15, 2021 it will not rain. If he's a hypocrite, he'll promise you, but if he's a normal person, he'll shrug and say, "I hope it's not raining." And as a woman I tell you: stop reminding him that he has not made a living, because various ideas for a more pleasant time will start to come to his mind ... I live with a man 10 years younger than me and I have much more reason to be similar to your torments. But! I never ask him questions I don't want to hear answered; I never press him; I never look insecure. We humans are so structured that we strive for the good, for the pleasure. No one will throw away something that gives them positive emotions. So think better about how to make your relationship so pleasant, fun, surprising, passionate, calm, cozy, interesting and romantic that a person does not want to just let you out of his arms. This is your only insurance, there is no other. that we strive for the good, for the pleasure. No one will throw away something that gives them positive emotions. So think better about how to make your relationship so pleasant, fun, surprising, passionate, calm, cozy, interesting and romantic that a person does not want to just let you out of his arms. This is your only insurance, there is no other. that we strive for the good, for the pleasure. No one will throw away something that gives them positive emotions. So think better about how to make your relationship so pleasant, fun, surprising, passionate, calm, cozy, interesting and romantic that a person does not want to just let you out of his arms. This is your only insurance, there is no other.